"Self-justifying prophecy" means that people will always inadvertently turn their prophecies into reality. How you "predict" the situation, the situation will develop; how you expect yourself, how you will develop. ——Yin Muyan, "24 Hours of Control"
The famous psychologist Rosenthal did an experiment in which he randomly selected 200 students in the school as experimental subjects, and randomly selected a subset of them who he thought would make significant progress in their next studies.
The learning statistics of these students were conducted again after eight months. It turned out that the grades of these students had really improved a lot, and the teachers' evaluation of them was relatively high, while the performance of other students was the same as usual.
However, these students are actually randomly selected and have no basis for it. It is only because the teacher feels that they will make great progress, so there will be some special attention, and the students will eventually make real progress in their studies after getting the "high expectations" of the teacher.
What you believe, what happens, isn't that amazing? But it is. Aren't there many such cases in life? For example, my child is very self-reliant, because one of the things that her father and I often say to her is: We believe you can do it.
The child has always thought of the expectations and encouragement of his parents, and believes that he will be able to do this well, and he really does a good job in boldly trying and constantly trying and groping, and the confidence in his heart is gradually established and strengthened.
On the contrary, some parents' mantra is: Baby, this you won't, that you can't do... As a result, his child really does not know anything, nor does he have the courage and confidence to try and work hard, because the words of his parents always affect his psychology and actions.
So, if you want your child to have any quality qualities, sometimes you don't need to train deliberately, you just need multi-faceted encouragement and affirmation.
Not only children, but also us, you believe that today has a good day, then today will definitely give you a lot of surprises and beauty. You believe that you can do it, as long as you really go to the goal steadily, you will be able to make your dreams come true. #Reading##From Reading to Writing##The Temperature of Reading##育儿 #