Where there are good years, it is just someone who carries the weight for you.
The older I get, the more I don't know what it's like to be quiet.
However, it is more and more able to appreciate the heaviness and helplessness of carrying the weight forward.
I have heard a saying that the quiet of the years is the effect, and the burden of moving forward is the cause.
Because the weight is moving forward, the years are quiet.
I used to think that this was a self-motivated view, that after the first half of life was loaded forward, after swallowing all the sufferings of the world, the second half of the great enlightenment, with wealth, knowledge and status, can be quiet for many years.
Later I found out that I was too naïve because of this society.
A person who has attained enlightenment must also carry the weight forward, because he cannot do without the world.
A person with wealth, knowledge and status also has to carry the burden forward, either to maintain everything he has, or to escape or avoid the influence of certain troubles.
To put it bluntly, the matter of carrying the weight forward, in fact, no one can escape.
There is also a more mainstream theory that some people can live quietly because others carry the weight forward for their years.
So do people who have been quiet for these years really not have to pay a price?
Dig deeper and you'll find a lot of interesting things.
For example, some people's years are quiet, it is for outsiders to see, in fact, these people in order to make outsiders look beautiful, often bear heavier things,
That is what we commonly call, death to face the guilt.
There are also some people who have a good time, the price is invisible, because the person who carries the weight forward is ostensibly to bear the pressure of life for them, but in fact, the relationship between the two is often more subtle.
For example, paying for youth, paying for the spirit, paying for the soul, paying for things that can only be paid once in a lifetime,
Maybe some people feel that there seems to be nothing wrong with exchanging these things for the quiet of the years.
But in fact, these seemingly invisible things are often more valuable than tangible wealth, but people have not yet realized their importance, but often when they are aware, it is too late.
The internal logic of this statement is somewhat similar to "seemingly free, often the most expensive".
Rationally looking at the substantive meaning of this topic, we will find that the quiet years are more like a symbol of life based on the needs of some kind of business or ideology, and the imprinted state of life represented behind this symbol is a life experience that is worth pursuing and can be called "perfect escape".
Perfect escape refers to a way of escaping a cruel life that does not require a price, or is even completely willing to accept.
When we see the four words of quiet years appear around us, we tend to see more ways to express the quiet years, such as matching a photo of people enjoying life, or a stand-up comedy about life perception in the last paragraph.
Unfortunately, it is difficult for these people to realize that the price they pay is much heavier than the life they try to escape, but perhaps it is the existence of these people that makes more people realize that the life of carrying the weight forward may not be so painful, or this pain may not be able to make them live "like themselves":
People who watch chess are silent, not only watch the back and forth on the chessboard, they will also observe the changes in the face of the gamer, and the micro-expressions that try to hide but cannot escape not only betray what the gamer tries to hide, but also indicate the final outcome of both sides of the game.
In the adult world, carrying weight forward is the norm.
When people begin to accept this fact gradually, those anger that turns into silence will make people begin to dislike some irrational existence.
Paranoid ideas, unspoken rules and tricks, abusive rhetoric and attitudes,
These things are stimulating the mentality of the bearers, and what must happen next is the people who carry them.
Began to question the meaning of his own burden,
At first, when all this was not out of control, no one realized the seriousness of the matter.
Later, when what was once solid and irrational begins to fall apart, people realize that
It turns out that it is not only myself who thinks so, nor is it only myself.
Don't want to bear the things you shouldn't:
The unfairness of this world is that if some things are not carried by people, it is difficult for the world to become a better place.
But the fairness of the world is that
If no one wants to be beautiful,
Then people will make the world what they "need" it to be.