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I have seen many people take the phrase "for you, thousands of times" as a sentence to express their hearts to their lovers, in fact, this sentence was originally used to describe friendship, from the novel "The Kite Chaser".
And a sincere friendship in this novel is from the two masters and servants with disparities in identity, and the entire storyline revolves around the two.
The novel was written by a writer from Afghanistan named Called Al-Husseini.
The first time I read it, I was only touched by the sincere friendship of the two little boys, nothing else. It wasn't until I read it again when I became an adult that I found a lot of details, and I didn't pay attention to it before, and some deep understanding of human nature hadn't been read before.
Hassan is the servant of the male protagonist Amir, but he has all the qualities of justice and purity in him, and we can often understand from him what is the brilliance of human nature.
In him, there was not a trace of darkness in sight, he had the purity and goodness that should have been at that age, and he was also dedicated to his master Amir to take care of and maintain, although the two people were similar in age.
Amir loved flying kites and went to kite competitions and won the championship.
Hassan helped him pick up the kite, and gleefully wanted to go back with the kite and tell everyone the good news. Who knew that halfway through, the jealous person snatched the kite, and insulted and personally attacked him.
Hassan was outnumbered, because his personal strength was too weak, and he could only be firmly imprisoned and beaten by them.
Hassan was badly injured, but he still held Amir's beloved kite tightly in his hand, what was Amir doing at this time? He had long been hiding in the corner of the wall, watching Hassan being beaten.
He knew that all the pain has Hassan was now suffering was to defend his dignity, but the timidity and cowardice in his bones made him dare not stand up with Hassan to resist his opponents.
The images of the two teenagers are in an extremely sharp contrast at this moment.
After this incident, Amir not only did not treat Hassan better, but instead found various excuses and reasons to harass Hassan until he drove Hassan away from his side.
After Hassan left, Amir was not happy, he knew that he was only doing this because he was ashamed of himself, he could not face his own selfishness and cowardice at that time, and when Hassan appeared in front of him, he always reminded himself over and over again how bad it was.
Amir hates Hassan so much as he hates his selfish self.
Amir has never seen Hassan since, but he will always remember that evening, when he asked Hassan, would you like to chase the kite for me? Hassan and his firm and natural answer: For you, a thousand times.
This sentence always surrounded him in the back of his heart, and it always tormented him repeatedly. It wasn't until a war broke out in the country that he had a chance to redeem himself.
Amir learned that Hassan had died and that he never had another chance, and said sorry to him, so he went to great lengths to find Hassan's child and take care of him personally, and only after his child was willing to recognize himself as his father did he find comfort.
In fact, the shock brought by the whole story, in addition to Hassan's such a tough and beautiful quality, you can also understand that the most taboo point of being a person is jealousy.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" > be a person, don't always be jealous of others </h1>
In terms of identity, Amir is the person Hassan should be jealous of, although he and Amir are like friends, but in essence they are just servants, but Hassan is still innocent and kind at heart.
On the other hand, Amir is jealous of Hassan's integrity and kindness, and he is jealous that hash has the beauty of humanity shining on his body at any time, and this beauty has set himself off more and more.
Blindly jealousy of others is actually an escape from the unbearable side of yourself.
If Amir can correct his mentality, he can live a bright and upright life, and live every day happily with Hassan, chasing and fighting, carefree.
However, there was an imbalance in his heart, and he felt that in front of Hassan, he was always landless, and the reflection of the two people seemed to be a great shore, a small, and the small one was of course himself.
Faced with this mentality, he could only choose to escape, he did not want to see Hassan appear in front of him again, and every moment they were together, it was like laughing at how bad they were inside.
He was always making mistakes, and then he simply stole other people's things on purpose and then slandered Hassan's head.
Hassan was driven away by himself as he wished, thinking that he had escaped his previous timid self, but his inner torment did not decrease by half a point, but intensified.
If you really can't reconcile with that imperfect self, you might as well learn to let go.
No one in the world is perfect, everyone has some human weaknesses, do not judge yourself with an almost harsh gaze, this will only torture yourself.
Accepting one's own imperfections, just as embracing the imperfections of others, everyone should be tolerated.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="48" > weaknesses in personality if they cannot be overcome, then carry forward their own shining points, amplify their own advantages, and their shortcomings will appear insignificant. </h1>
Once, Guo Qilin once mentioned the reason why he closed himself, and he felt that from the moment he was born, he had the aura that his father was Guo Degang.
If his life development is good, it must be the credit of his father, if his life development is not good, that is, he does not know how to fight, there is such a father to pave the way, and he also lives himself like this.
Therefore, the more such statements are seen, the more Guo Qilin becomes closed to himself.
For a while, Guo Qilin hardly interacted with people, and his father tried very hard to bring him to various dinners, hoping that he could open himself, but to no avail.
Until one day, Guo Qilin found that he wanted to fall in love, he felt that his current fat appearance, walking around the girl, would attract criticism from others, he did not have the courage to accept the girl's overtures, and decided to start losing weight.
Guo Qilin, who is one meter and seven meters, has been reduced from more than one hundred and ninety pounds to one hundred and twenty pounds, he said: "Even if others think that everything I have is obtained by my father, the success of weight loss is at least completely up to me, restrain my desires, and work hard to succeed." ”
This changed him, and it also made him gradually get out of the closed heart, try to enter into other people's lives, and contact with the outside world.
This also allows everyone to find that Guo Qilin himself is so excellent, educated and emotionally intelligent, and his treatment of people at a young age has been praised. So some of the weaknesses of people will not stop you from becoming a good person at all.
If you feel that you have not really read "The Kite Chaser", you can read it again and you will understand that there is a reason why a book can become a best-selling classic.
The novel sells well in more than thirty countries, ranking at the top of the best-seller list for many years, and many stars have endorsed it, including Gao Yuanyuan, who said that the book healed her to some extent.
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