Honestly, I haven't seen this movie. I just accidentally brushed it when I was brushing vibrato. He had Xia Yu and Li Bingbing playing.
At that time, Xia Yu and Li Bingbing were still very young and young. But the content is really rustic and touching. In fact, that is what love should look like.
That's what the post-70s and post-80s look like. But you are not yet in love with the age, you should have had that kind of vision. Boys have a dream lover in their minds, and girls have a Prince Charming in their minds.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >01 Is your favorite dream lover and the last person you marry one? </h1>
People really don't mature until they are very big. At the very least, after the age of twenty-eight or nine. I have experienced some vicissitudes of the world, the changes in the human world, and the experience of life. You can truly transform into a mature person.
A person who can truly take responsibility for himself, a person who has achieved something in his own life. Do you remember your dream lover? Is she really as perfect and beautiful as you think she is?
Chen Wen in the movie (played by actor Xia Yu) has been chasing, and with the protagonist played by actor Liu Rong (played by actress Li Bingbing), Liu Rong's beautiful, lively and humorous cheerfulness is chen Wen's favorite.
We also know that most of the film and television dramas are triangular relationships. In the film and television drama, there is a spring festival gala that a girl named Li Jing likes. Li Jing is Chen Wen's high school classmate and grew up together. But Chen Wen has always been a good buddy for Li Jing, and never knew that he loved him.
Li Jing knew that Chen Wen liked Liu Rong, and had been matching the two of them to give them the opportunity to create a chance together. On a birthday by Chen Wen, After Li Jing's planning, Chen Wen and Liu Rong were really together.
The deepest love is to let go, the deepest love is fulfillment, the deepest love is self-exile, but can you do it?
In fact, we will never see such a movie again, an affectionate, simple, step-by-step old-fashioned movie. Our current society has rarely had that kind of pure love. After reading it, I still miss us.
You used to think of it as beautiful, you once thought of it as the perfect lover. The dreams you once thought were beautiful, the ones you once thought were different. When you actually get it, you find out that he is no different.
Liu Rong in the movie is a selfish gold worshipper. He can fall in love with two or three people at the same time, but he tells you that we are all friends and the happiest. Not a man worthy of marriage. Be a man worth playing with as a lover.
For Chen Wen, who is pure affection, this is absolutely unacceptable. The dream lover in his mind is definitely a holy white lotus. Instead of a fake green camellia, they were separated.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >02 Did you end up with the right person or stayed alone? </h1>
Who hasn't been young yet. Who hasn't had a crush on a few when they were younger. Who hasn't been in love a few times. But in the end your partner is the person you think is the right fit, or the one you think is the dream lover? Or you haven't found it until now, and you've been single.
Love is a problem that we cannot escape in any era. Did your love get it in your hormonal age, or did it get it when you were successful and steady? Or what you've gotten when you've thought deeply about it.
Its results will be very different. In fact, sometimes when you are far-sighted, you want what you think is beautiful, and the ideal you think may always be by your side.
In the movie, Li Jing is such a being, and he has been guarding it. Chen Wen's self-esteem and Chen Wen's small beauty and Chen Wen's small pursuit.
She loves Chen Wen, but he always gives Chen Wen freedom, and we don't see the ending in the movie, but we hope that his ending is good.
I also hope that Chen Wen can find his own heart, and I also hope that they will mature quickly and know that their goals and likes have always been by his side.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03 Are you happy now? </h1>
After watching this movie, I also fell into deep memories. You know the beautiful time of youth, but you don't understand the philosophy of life, and when you understand the philosophy of life, you are not in youth.
Have you ever regretted it? Are you happy now? Do you regret your choice? Do you regret someone you gave up on? Are you worthy of your current life?
In fact, people at any time if they do something wrong, they will turn back in time. Whether it is at work, academically, marriage, or love.
If you didn't commit to your mistakes at the time, take responsibility. And if you let the mistakes go wrong again and again, then you will try to make up for them. Try to fall in love with what you once didn't love.
You may find that the one that is next to you at this moment is what you love the most, cherish and deserve to have. Do you know? I read a quote from the book New World.
What we humans really have is every minute and second of the present. What really belongs to you is the present 1 minute and 1 second. What you should really cherish is also the 1 minute and second that is happening in your moment. Not the past, not the future. It's the here and now.
How true is that. The past is over, the future will happen, and what is worth having is the present. Cherish the present, love the present, use the present, and achieve the present!
As a Chinese, I really prefer to watch Chinese TV dramas. I've been watching foreign movies the other day looking for footage. But I find that the foreign names alone make me tired.
Many, many things will happen in our lifetime. The things we can remember are only the tip of the iceberg that happened in your life. What we write through our own pens is the tip of the iceberg.
If you don't find something you like to do, you will feel that your life is very long, very boring, very boring, and even you will feel that living is very boring.
So you really have to find something you love all your life, something you're willing to fight for a lifetime. Your lover you better be the one you like and are willing to spend your life with. Then you will not waste this life, not every minute and second of your coming into this world.
Why is the movie called "Waiting Alone"? In fact, he also reflected the arc out of a growing alone. Each of us has someone to accompany us at some stage, but it is ourselves who really accompany us throughout our lives. It is our own soul.
As you grow up, you have to constantly try to talk to yourself. Talk to the self within yourself. Let yourself live without fear of heaven and earth. Let yourself live authentically. Broadcast that most beautiful self.
I have to say ah, maybe we are older and want to chase some old movies, although the picture texture of the elderly is not very good, but the content and the simplicity of the actor's acting, it is really good. You, if you're not busy, brush up on an old movie. Maybe there will be a windfall.
Maybe it will also touch you with a memory and spend a perfect afternoon.
Wednesday, August 4, 2021 sunny weather, Beijing.