In 1973, the newly married Sanmao followed Jose to her husband's house. However, the mother-in-law was not only cold to her, but also let her do all the housework. Sanmao was so tired that she was paralyzed and complained a few words. Unexpectedly, José said angrily, "You asked for it!" ”
In Sanmao's work, the love between her and her husband José is warm and unique, especially their life in the Sahara, which has attracted countless girls.
But in fact, life in the book is glorified. In fact, their married lives are also covered with chicken feathers.
Among them, for Sanmao, the most annoying and sad thing is the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Sanmao married Ho Si without counseling or inviting his parents.
It was a great injustice to her mother, and she thought it was all Sanmao's fault. Sanmao not only kidnapped her son, but also led her son to defect.
In order to apologize, Sanmao wrote to her mother-in-law many times to give her greetings and care, but she did not receive a reply.
Sanmao vaguely felt that her mother-in-law did not like herself. Sanmao, who has always been bad at handling interpersonal relationships, feels very scared.
So when her husband, Jose, proposed to return to his hometown to visit his mother, Sanmao was scared, uneasy, even a little scared.
But she had no reason to stop her husband from going back to visit her mother, so she had to go home with him.
In order to please his mother-in-law, Sanmao bought a lot of gifts, but these gifts and Sanmao's smiling face did not win the favor of her mother-in-law.
When she first saw her mother-in-law, Sanmao's eyes showed a hint of hostility.
In the blink of an eye, it's Christmas. My mother-in-law publicly announced to the family that this year's Christmas dinner will be prepared by the new daughter-in-law, Sanmao.
There are 37 people in Hexi, suitable for all ages. This number made Sanmao shudder. She watches her husband ask for help, but she thinks Hexi is disobedient to her mother-in-law.
Not only that, but her mother-in-law also did not allow Haixi and Sanmao to buy vegetables together. Sanmao had to go back and forth between his home and the food market.
The day she cooked, the Joss family was laughing in the living room. At that moment, she felt sad.
After the meal, the whole family sat down to eat and drink together, but no one said to the exhausted Sanmao: "It's difficult." ”。
After dinner, Sanmao was responsible for washing all the dishes and doing all the housework. At night, she was so tired that she lay paralyzed in bed and couldn't help complaining to her husband.
Unexpectedly, José replied coldly, "Mom just made you some food." Is there anything wrong with this? Your troubles are all your own making! ”
This sentence was like a sharp knife, firmly inserted into Sanmao's body. At that moment, she felt strange about the person she loved.
But Sanmao did not think that this was just the beginning. Even if they hid in the distant Sahara Desert, they could not escape the influence of their mother-in-law on them.
One summer, her mother-in-law came to travel with her family. At the time, Jose was unemployed and his family had nothing. In order to entertain his mother-in-law and others, Sanmao had to borrow money to go to the company to prepay some money.
Sanmao not only provides them with food and drink, but also washes and cooks for them. Despite this, her mother-in-law never praised her, but thought that this was what Sanmao should do.
Finally one day Sanmao broke out and complained to Jose that your family was too selfish.
Unexpectedly, José, who has always loved him, said: "You are too selfish, too careful." ”
Every day, no matter how tired Sanmao was, he would go to the kitchen to cook after a big family trip.
Obviously, they were in financial difficulty, but their mother-in-law still demanded all sorts of things. They stayed at Sanmao Restaurant for a month and almost ate all of them, but when they left, they didn't ask Haixi, "What are your plans for the future?" ”
In the face of such a mother-in-law, Sanmao is powerless to cope, and Haixi's attitude also makes her feel cold, and Haixi's filial piety makes Sanmao suffocate.
As a result, their married life is not perfect. Many of them are Sanmao's fantasies. As for Hexi, he is also a mother boy.
Later, when Jose died, her mother-in-law came, not so sad. Before her son's funeral was over, she began to marry Sanmao.
I don't know what secrets would look like if he knew!
