In the early morning hours of March 26, 2017, Star Ferry Pier, Hong Kong.
An old man, independent of the cold wind, took a look in a certain direction and jumped into the sea.
Nearby fishermen saw the situation and rushed to the Hong Kong police to report to the police: some people jumped into the sea to commit suicide!
The old man who jumped into the sea and committed suicide is called Yang Qinji, a retired senior teacher.
Before jumping into the sea, Yang Qinji left a 10,000-word suicide note, pointing directly at the heavenly king superstar Andy Lau
In this 10,000-word suicide note, every stroke is full of the old man's anger and resentment, one of which is: Andy Lau, your heart is black.
It also shows the anger of the old man.
Why is an old man so angry at the superstar Andy Lau?
All this must start from a dream of Yang Qinji's daughter Yang Lijuan...
01
In 1994, 16-year-old Yang Lijuan had a dream:
In the dream there is a mural depicting a handsome man.
On the left and right sides of the painting, it is written: You are particularly close to me, and you and I have a true encounter.
When the dream woke up, Yang Lijuan wrote down this man, and she felt that one day, this man would come into her life and appear in her life.
However, what Yang Lijuan did not expect was that for a long time afterward, this man would appear in her dreams every night, bringing her sweetness and peace of mind.
Sometimes, she would play in the sea of flowers, and the men would look at her quietly.
Sometimes, the man took her hand and took her for a walk by the sea, feeling the temperature coming from between her palms, making her feel both sweet and warm.
More often, she was in a villa with a picture of her with a man, and on the back of the photo was written: You are my woman.
16 years old, which is the age when the love sinus first opened.
And the man in the dream satisfied all of Yang Lijuan's fantasies about love, making her unable to extricate herself.
She firmly believes that this man is her true destiny, and she must find him when she has the opportunity.
However, Yang Lijuan's personality is sensitive and introverted, and she usually does not like to interact with others, and when she was 14 years old, she dropped out of school at home and no longer went out of the house.
Therefore, even if she wants to find the so-called true destiny, there is nothing she can do.
During that time, Yang Lijuan's only chance to understand the "lover" was in her dream, but every time she wanted to ask about the "lover", she woke up.
Just as the so-called mind is remembered, there will be an echo.
Once, a classmate came to her house to play and showed her a poster.
Until this time, she did not know the identity of her "lover", which was the superstar Andy Lau.
At the moment of learning the identity of the "lover", Yang Lijuan was really happy, and she felt that she had found a home for a lifetime.
That night, when Yang Lijuan met with the "lover" in her dream, she asked the other party: "Do you have it in your heart?" ”
Andy Lau, on the other hand, clasped her hand, looked into her eyes, and replied affectionately: "I have you in my heart." ”
At that moment, Yang Lijuan was wrapped in a huge sense of happiness.
- Yang Lijuan then told her father Yang Qinji about the events in the dream.
Who knows, Yang Qinji also told Yang Lijuan that he had the same dream.
In fact, Yang Qinji didn't think too much at that time, just wanted to coax his daughter to be happy.
However, Yang Lijuan was affirmed by her father and secretly made a decision: she could not see Andy Lau and would never marry for life.
02
Many people are puzzled, why does Yang Qinji spoil Yang Lijuan so much?
The year Yang Lijuan was born, Yang Qinji was 40 years old, which can be described as an old woman.
Therefore, for his daughter, Yang Qinji can be described as loving in every way, even to the point of doting.
At that time, Yang Qinji worked in Agan Town, Lanzhou, while his wife and daughter lived in lanzhou city.
In order to meet his daughter, Yang Qinji will take a two-hour car back to Lanzhou city every day after work.
As his daughter grew up, Yang Qinji's doting on her daughter became more and more serious, to the point of responding to every need.
Once, Yang Lijuan wanted to drink Red Bull, and Yang Qinji agreed without even thinking about it.
When he went to the convenience store, Yang Qinji found that he did not have money with him.
In order to let Yang Lijuan drink Red Bull, Yang Qinji took advantage of the fact that no one was paying attention and stole a can of Red Bull.
Yang Lijuan wanted to drop out of school, but Yang Qinji immediately agreed, and personally ran to her daughter's school to talk to the teacher about dropping out.
When the teacher asked about the reason for dropping out of school, Yang Qinji said directly: "Children don't want to study, what can I do?" ”
The teacher looked surprised.
In Yang Qinji's eyes, nothing is more important than her daughter's request, that is, the sky falls down to complete her daughter's request.
Therefore, Yang Qinji will be full of mouths when his daughter says that he loves Andy Lau.
Even if he knows that Andy Lau and they are not people of the same world, he must do his best to help his daughter realize her dream.
However, what Yang Qinji did not know at this time was that this sentence that made his daughter happy would kill him in the future.
03
As the days passed, Day by day, Yang Lijuan became more and more obsessed with Andy Lau.
As long as it is about Andy Lau's surroundings, Yang Lijuan has no hesitation in paying for it.
Gradually, Yang Lijuan has become dissatisfied, and sees Andy Lau on posters and on TV.
Instead, she hopes to meet the real Andy Lau, and she even believes that as long as she sees Andy Lau and tells him everything in his dreams, he will think of me and fall in love with me.
What's even more frightening is that as Yang Lijuan tells her dreams over and over again, Yang Qinji and his wife also believe that Andy Lau is the destiny of their daughter.
Letting Yang Lijuan see Andy Lau has become the only goal of this family.
In 1997, in order to support Yang Lijuan's pursuit of love, Yang Qinji took out all his savings, a total of 99,000 yuan, and let Yang Lijuan go to Hong Kong to find Andy Lau.
After coming to Hong Kong, Yang Lijuan traveled the streets and alleys to find Andy Lau.
However, until the money ran out, Yang Lijuan did not see Andy Lau himself.
However, Yang Lijuan's pursuit of love has not stopped, and her father Yang Qinji is still fully supportive.
In 2004, Andy Lau came to Beijing to give a concert.
In order to meet Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan emptied her family again and came to Beijing.
However, for Andy Lau, who has tens of millions of fans, Yang Lijuan's existence is just a drop in the ocean, as small as gravel.
Therefore, even if Yang Lijuan spent a lot of money to buy the front position of the concert, she could not get the opportunity to meet with Andy Lau alone.
However, Yang Lijuan has already gone into the magic.
In order to meet Andy Lau, he proposed to his family that he should go to Hong Kong to find Andy Lau.
At this time, it was already 2005, Yang Qinji's retirement salary had risen to more than 2,000, and he could already live a good life in a small city like Lanzhou.
However, over the years, in order to support his daughter, Yang Qinji's monthly salary has been spent without a penny.
The family's savings were also hollowed out.
Therefore, this time, Yang Qinji was a little hesitant.
Yang Lijuan saw the situation and said angrily: "You don't support me to find him, then I married him after that, and with money, I will definitely not support you." ”
Yang Qinji saw that his daughter had spoken about this, and immediately made a decision: sell the house and support her at all costs.
In October, the Yang family's father and daughter came to Hong Kong.
This time, they found Andy Lau's villa and squatted at the door every day.
However, until their money was spent, Andy Lau did not appear.
Yang Lijuan had to entrust the letter to Andy Lau's neighbor and returned to Lanzhou.
The family of three also moved into a 400 yuan rental house.
Yang Lijuan, who returned from Hong Kong, lived a life of waiting for Andy Lau to reply to the letter.
At this time, the Yang family's sale of houses and star chasing also attracted the attention of the media.
During that time, the reporter almost stepped on the threshold of the Yang family and interviewed Yang Lijuan.
One of the reporters asked Yang Lijuan: "Mom and Dad are more important than Andy Lau?" ”
Yang Lijuan said: "For me, Andy Lau is more important. ”
Such an answer stunned all the visitors and also caused an uproar in public opinion.
Yang Lijuan did not have time to care about public opinion, seeing that Andy Lau had not replied to the letter, she was anxious, so she was ready to pack her bags and go to Xingang again.
However, at this time, the Yang family has long been surrounded by disciples and has high debts, and is unable to support Yang Lijuan's star-chasing road.
Seeing that his beloved daughter was so anxious, Yang Qinji made a decision that shocked the world: selling kidneys and supporting Yang Lijuan to continue to chase stars.
04
Yang Qinji sold his kidney to support his daughter's star chasing, and after continuous fermentation by the media, he completely detonated public opinion.
Many people in the community condemned Yang Lijuan's behavior of forcing her father to sell her kidneys.
However, Yang Lijuan was not moved, did not care at all, and only said lightly to her father:
"I think you'd better borrow it, it hurts your body."
Seeing Yang Lijuan's attitude, some reporters couldn't bear to look at it at all, so they advised Yang Qinji to give up the idea of selling kidneys.
However, Yang Qinji publicly stated: "I am still alive after removing a kidney, but I can let my daughter see Andy Lau; Only by seeing him can our family live a good life! ”
It can be seen that seeing Andy Lau has become the obsession of the Yang family.
At the same time, Yang Lijuan's deeds also reached Andy Lau's ears.
However, unlike Yang Lijuan's fantasy that Andy Lau will be moved, Andy Lau said: incorrect, abnormal, unhealthy, and filial piety.
However, Andy Lau's attitude not only did not extinguish the flame in Yang Lijuan's heart, but became more and more crazy.
Over the years, she has paid too much for Andy Lau.
To receive such a response, she was unwilling and unwilling to believe it.
So Ms. Yang wrote to Hong Kong officials, hoping to help her meet Andy Lau.
Of course, this letter also sank into the sea.
Later, Andy Lau fans learned about Yang Lijuan's situation, and out of empathy among fans, they arranged for Yang Lijuan to participate in Andy Lau's fan meeting.
To this end, Yang Qinji's father and daughter once again spent their savings to come to Hong Kong.
The two had no money on them and had to sleep in a 24-hour fast food restaurant.
Even so, in the face of years of about to realize her long-cherished wish, Yang Lijuan still couldn't help but feel excited, imagining countless times in her heart that the moment Andy Lau saw her, she would hug her tightly and cry with joy.
However, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
On March 25, 2007, Yang Lijuan finally got close to Andy Lau.
However, this was a flowing fan group photo session, and Yang Lijuan did not stay by Andy Lau's side for 10 seconds before being invited off the stage.
There is no fantasy of hugging and crying, and there is no change in fate at first sight.
It was just an ordinary meeting, and Andy Lau only regarded her as an ordinary fan.
After Yang Lijuan stepped down, she told her parents about this matter.
A family of three, completely collapsed.
Over the years, the Yang family has sold houses, owed debts, and hollowed out their savings for this so-called marriage.
Arguably, give it all.
But I didn't expect that in the end, I just changed a photo?
Yang Qinji's heart was full of grief and indignation, and he decided to make a final bet for his daughter, and even more crazy moves appeared.
05
On March 25, Yang Lijuan finished seeing Andy Lau that night.
Yang Qinji silently wrote a 10,000-word suicide note, and finally came to Hong Kong's Star Ferry Pier, jumped into the deep sea.
Yang Qinji's death completely pushed Yang Lijuan and Andy Lau to the cusp of the storm.
All the media set up long guns and short cannons to interview Yang Lijuan, hoping to dig out some fierce material.
In the eyes of everyone, her father Yang Qinji is dead, and Yang Lijuan should let go of her obsession and live a normal life.
However, Yang Lijuan is still obsessed, and also said: The death of her father, Andy Lau has a certain responsibility, he should come to worship his father, and then complete his father's last wish. ”
However, For such unjustified accusations and persecution, Andy Lau did not make any response.
Later, Yang Lijuan and her mother returned to Lanzhou with the support of the airline.
After hearing about this, singer Yang Chengang also donated 20,000 yuan to deal with Yang Qinji's aftermath.
Yang Lijuan is still not dead hearted, at the donation meeting, she called Outrau Lau again and asked to see her again.
However, the shouting was a sinking sea.
With the passage of time, the heat of the incident gradually faded, and the media never reported Yang Lijuan again.
However, Yang Lijuan believed that she was being used and sued a number of media in court.
However, in the end, the lawsuit was lost.
After walking out of the courtroom, Yang Lijuan disappeared from public view.
Until 2019, Yang Lijuan, who is over 40 years old, was interviewed by the famous host Lu Yu.
Yang Lijuan appeared in the public eye with a new look.
She returned to the life of an ordinary person and rented a low-cost house with her mother in Lanzhou.
He also found a job as a supermarket shopping guide, with a salary of two thousand a month, warm to customers, and got along well with colleagues.
There was no longer the slightest trace of paranoia on her face.
Although on the surface everything seems harmonious, her heart shields the outside world.
Over the years, she didn't watch TV, didn't surf the Internet, received new information, and occasionally went back to a choir to sing when she had the chance, and in her free time she would worship her father.
Yang Lijuan also claimed to have come out of the haze, but Andy Lau has become a taboo in her mouth.
In fact, Yang Lijuan may still know that their family's foreign loan was Anonymously paid off by Andy Lau.
There are many factors that contributed to the occurrence of the Yang Lijuan incident, including the doting of the father, the amplification and intensification of the media, and the promotion of social public opinion.
But no matter what the reason, in the final analysis, it is caused by Yang Lijuan's own desires.
If it were not for Yang Lijuan's desire, there would be no so-called lifelong dream, there would be no so-called Hong Kong trace, and her father Yang Qinji would not have jumped into the sea for this.
It is normal for a person to have desires, and the key lies in timely discernment and normal treatment.
If you continue to gamble everything on desire, you will pay an extremely painful price.
So, don't let someone pay for your desires, and eventually, it will turn into a flame that devours everything and devours your life.
Source:
Yu See Later, No. 3
Southern Weekend: "You Don't Understand My Sorrow"
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