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In 1993, a song called "The Love of a Porter" resounded through the streets. Especially on the banks of that clear stream, the classic love shots moved hundreds of millions of viewers, and they remembered the elegant and beautiful Yu Wenhua and the humble Yin Xiangjie.
At the beginning, the relationship between the two was very harmonious, especially in the hearts of the audience, Yu Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie were a couple in love. Even Yin Xiangjie has a heart of admiration for the elegant Yu Wenhua.
But soon after, Yu Wenhua and the musician Li Fan married, and Yin Xiangjie, who suffered a blow, also fell silent. When Yu Wenhua and Li Fan divorced, Yin Xiangjie thought that there was a chance, but what could be ushered in was hurt again, which made them also develop in the entertainment industry.
It's just that 20 years have passed, during which time many things have happened to Yu Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie, and their circumstances are different, and the gap is clear at a glance.
01.
Yu Wenhua was born in 1965 in an ordinary village in Tangshan, Hebei Province, with four older sisters and an older brother. When she was born, her parents were old, and because she was an old woman, her father was also very happy.
It's just that there are more children, which also makes the family relatively poor, but the family lives a very warm and happy life.
When Yu Wenhua was young, his talent for singing was reflected, and when he was two or three years old, he was often brought to perform and sing by the adults in the village, because of his young age, he also let her stand on the table and sing.
Yu Wenhua, who can sing when he was a child, also makes the whole family feel very proud.
Once, Yu Wenhua had a cold, some dozing, just happened to encounter a village meeting, the adults came to the door again, said to hold Yu Wenhua to the stage to sing, the mother refused, but the other party said that this time is very lively, insisting on taking Yu Wenhua to go, the mother twisted but had to agree.
At that time, not only people from the village came, but also many people came from outside, and when the adults carried her to the stage and put her on the table, the people under the stage did not care at all, still chatting and laughing.
But Yu Wenhua opened his mouth, the venue slowly became quiet, the childish singing voice also resounded throughout the venue, before the singing was finished, Yu Wenhua won thunderous applause, but also inquired about each other, whose child, so talented in singing.
Listening to the audience's discussion, the mother sitting on the side was full of smiles on her face and was very proud in her heart.
For the sake of their children's lives, parents are busy in the field day and night.
In 1973, his father died of illness, the top pillar of the family fell, and the family's sky suddenly collapsed. In order to continue living, they can only work harder.
After the pain, the strong mother became the support of the whole family, and it supported the whole family. Every morning, in order to make breakfast for the children, she was busy for more than an hour.
When she finished the children's breakfast, she rushed to the field to work, and then came back to cook at noon. In Yu Wenhua's memory, the busy figure of her mother has always been in her mind.
Later, the youngest sister also got married, at home and mother dependent on life, only Yu Wenhua, in order to reduce the burden of the mother, as long as there is time, Yu Wenhua will take the initiative to help do housework.
Looking at his mother's hard work, Yu Wenhua also secretly swore that he must study well and let his mother enjoy happiness in the future.
02.
Because of the heavy burden of the family, this also makes the mother very tired. Watching her mother gradually look at her rickety body and the wrinkles on her face, Yu Wenhua's five tastes were mixed.
In order not to let her mother suffer too much, she took the initiative to say to her mother: Mom, I don't want to go to school, I just want to help you do some work.
Listening to her daughter's sensible words, the mother smiled and said: The difficulties are only temporary, if you give up studying now, there will be no future success, besides, you are so good at singing, what a pity to give up.
His mother's words made Yu Wenhua's heart light up. Since then, in terms of study, Yu Wenhua has been very hard and serious, and whenever she comes home from school, she will help her mother with housework.
Later, with excellent results, Yu Wenhua was admitted to the county's middle school and entered the music specialty class. In the face of Wenhua's performance, this made her mother very happy, reminding and urging her to practice her voice well.
My mother often said to Wenhua: Practice three nine in winter and three volts in summer.
In order to be able to sing a good song, Yu Wenhua, who was obedient, got up before dawn and went to the river bank north of the village to practice his voice against the river.
In 1979, Yu Wenhua, who was in his third year of junior high school, ushered in an opportunity to perform on stage, and the school organized a choir competition, but the teacher asked the participants to dress uniformly, wear white shirts and black pants.
Yu Wenhua, a member of the choir, told his mother the good news of the song as soon as school was over. Although Yu Wenhua was very happy and excited, her mother's expression was very sad, and she just silently looked at the corner of the room.
In fact, my mother was worried because the family did not have money to buy Yu Wenhua a white shirt and black pants.
The next day, yu Wenhua found that her mother was missing, and she did not prepare breakfast, she was going to go out to school after eating breakfast by herself, but she was stopped by her mother and handed her a handful of money, saying that it was the chorus money to buy clothes.
With this money, Yu Wenhua was very excited to go shopping for clothes, but when she pulled out all the money, she found that the value of the money was very small. As clever as she was, she immediately understood that this money was borrowed by her mother early in the morning.
In order to save, Yu Wenhua chose the cheapest clothes, thinking about her mother who was coughing constantly at night, she also bought some rock candy, hoping that her mother would sleep more peacefully at night.
In 1982, Yu Wenhua was admitted to Shijiazhuang Art School with excellent results. Three years later, he was admitted to the Central Conservatory of Music.
Since then, Yu Wenhua has had a professional and systematic music study, and her life trajectory has also undergone earth-shaking changes. The only thing that remained unchanged on her was the cheap clothes.
Whether it was in a remote mountain village or going to the capital Beijing, how many years of running around, Yu Wenhua would take it with her, she was reluctant to throw it away, she knew that the clothes condensed with deep maternal love.
03.
In 1993, at the Lantern Party of Beijing Television Station, Yu Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie sang the song "The Love of the Tracker", which became the most popular song of the year, and it made the two become popular overnight.
They have performed many times across the country and set a record of 15 consecutive performances a month. With day and night and frequent contact, Yin Xiangjie slowly had a feeling for Wenhua.
In May of the following year, the two went to Shennong Creek in Hubei Province to shoot the MV of "The Love of the Tracker", and on the banks of the clear stream, Yu Wenhua, wearing a peach coat, sat shyly on the bow of the boat. On the other hand, Yin Xiangjie, wearing the han tie of a peasant boy and fat lantern pants, with a thick cable on his shoulder, pulled the boat hard.
This classic love shot has become the envy of countless people. This scene can't help but move the audience, and it is also deeply imprinted in Yin Xiangjie's heart.
At that time, in the hearts of the audience, Yu Wenhua and Yin Xiangjie were a couple like glue, not only did the audience think so, even Yin Xiangjie's parents thought so, they often urged Yin Xiangjie: Wenhua is a rare good girl, when will you marry her into the door?
Yin Xiangjie, who has an introverted personality, has a very sour heart, he has a heart of admiration for Wenhua, but he is very inferior, thinking that he is not worthy of Wenhua at all.
Yin Xiangjie knew very well in his heart that Yu Wenhua was beautiful and beautiful, and he was also from the Central Conservatory of Music, and his appearance was not proud, only a look of humility, and even his academic qualifications were only high school.
The crush is a sweet and sour olive, which makes Yin Xiangjie worried. Even if the beloved girl is always in front of him, he does not dare to confess, and can only constantly beat himself and scold himself as a coward in the dead of night.
When the song "There is a sun in the sky without rain or wind", the careers of Yin Xiangjie and Yu Wenhua also reached their peak. The success of his career also gave Yin Xiangjie enough self-confidence, and he plucked up enough courage to plan to confess to Yu Wenhua.
On New Year's Day 1995, Yin Xiangjie specially went to the song and dance troupe to visit Yu Wenhua, and also bought a bouquet of red roses and handed it to Yu Wenhua himself. It was only when Yu Wenhua looked at this bouquet of red roses that he was stunned.
After a moment, Yu Wenhua put the flowers down and said awkwardly to Yin Xiangjie: We are ordinary friends, you should not send me roses.
Suppressing the excitement in his heart, Yin Xiangjie said incoherently: Don't you still understand my heart? I like you, I will be good to you for the rest of my life, please accept me.
For Yin Xiangjie's confession, this made Yu Wenhua say flatly: I am two years older than you, we are not suitable, and I already have a boyfriend.
Yu Wenhua's boyfriend is Li Fan, the author of the songs "The Love of the Tracker" and "The Sky Is Not Rainy, Not Windy, There Is a Sun in the Sky".
Li Fan, who has musical talent, not only has strong music creation ability, but also is handsome and dashing. Yin Xiangjie also knows Li Fan, and when he learned that Yu Wenhua's boyfriend was him, his heart also began to hurt slowly, he hated himself, why didn't he confess to Yu Wenhua earlier and let himself be wrong.
04.
In 1995, Yu Wenhua and Li Fan held a wedding, and Yu Wenhua, who was wearing a white wedding dress, snuggled happily next to Li Fan.
Looking at the happy scene of the newcomer, this made Yin Xiangjie feel mixed in his heart, he toasted Li Fan with a glass of wine, and said seriously: I hope you will treat Wenhua kindly in the future, otherwise I will not agree to be a younger brother.
In the face of Yin Xiangjie's words, Li Fanhaha, who did not know why, smiled: I know that you have cooperated for many years, and the sister-brother friendship is very deep, but you can rest assured, I will not let her be wronged.
Yin Xiangjie likes Yu Wenhua's things, Li Fan does not know, and has always thought that these two people are good partners, and the feelings are like brothers and sisters.
On the wedding day, Yin Xiangjie drunk himself, and his heart was like a knife, and Yin Xiangjie, who was drunk and drunk, or a friend sent him home.
After returning home, Yin Xiangjie slept for two days and two nights, to know that Yu Wenhua was the favorite girl in his life, but this unrequited love flower quietly withered before it opened.
The emotional setbacks made Yin Xiangjie suffer a lot, and he became more untrimmed and sloppy. Not to mention that life is very sloppy, even in his career, Yin Xiangjie has lost the motivation to move forward, muddy, like a puppet that has lost its spirit.
Looking at the decadence of his partner, Yu Wenhua was also very unhappy in his heart.
In 1996, when the two were invited to Beijing to record a program, Yu Wenhua couldn't help but say what had been buried in his heart for a long time: If I inadvertently hurt you, I apologize to you, but your current state has also caused me a lot of psychological pressure.
Hearing Yu Wenhua's words, Yin Xiangjie was like a daigo empowerment, he suddenly understood that he was a man who stood tall in the sky, shouldn't he be able to afford to put it down, how he had now become like this, this is not only irresponsible to himself, but also affects his partner Yu Wenhua, but also affects thousands of fans.
Even though his heart was very painful, Yin Xiangjie forced himself to cheer up.
Since then, Yin Xiangjie has also cooperated with Yu Wenhua many times, and whenever the two are together, Yin Xiangjie will deliberately keep a certain distance from Yu Wenhua and have no personal relationship, because he does not want to touch the pain in his heart.
05.
In 2000, Yin Xiangjie accidentally learned from a friend that Yu Wenhua and Li Fan had quietly gone through divorce procedures, and his 4-year-old daughter lived with Yu Wenhua.
Hearing the news of the divorce of the two, Yin Xiangjie was shocked, and his heart was full of unspeakable taste.
When Yin Xiangjie found Yu Wenhua and asked about this matter, Yu Wenhua choked up and said: These years of married life are not harmonious, Li Fan has not done anything wrong, just because the personalities and ways of doing things between the two are very different, so that they are constantly rubbing, and breaking up is the most rational choice.
Although Yu Wenhua said it lightly, the harm brought to her by the broken family was painful to her heart. Looking at the sad Yu Wenhua, inadvertently, Yin Xiangjie's deep heart obsession revived.
He couldn't help but think that Yu Wenhua, who was now in the most painful and helpless situation, if he warmed her with love and took her out of the shadow of divorce, she might accept herself.
Therefore, Yin Xiangjie said to Wenhua implicitly: That page has been turned over, don't let the pain torment yourself anymore, you know? There is a man who is obsessed with you and has been silently waiting for you.
Yin Xiangjie looked at Yu Wenhua with loving eyes, and Yu Wenhua buried his head in embarrassment.
Perhaps there is no scenery in the familiar place, in the beginning, Yu Wenhua only regarded Yin Xiangjie as his best friend, and even regarded him as a younger brother.
Even Yu Wenhua knew best in her heart that in this life, she and Yin Xiangjie could only be friends, and it was impossible to become lovers. Looking at Yin Xiangjie's fiery gaze, Yu Wenhua wanted to tell him what he wanted, but he was afraid of hurting Yin Xiangjie's self-esteem, and could only say vaguely: Marriage is too painful, and I don't want to get involved in feelings anymore.
Since then, Yin Xiangjie has begun to care for Yu Wenhua without a trace, as long as he has time, he will take Yu Wenhua's mother and daughter to the countryside for a ride, even Yu Wenhua's mother came to Beijing, Yin Xiangjie is also very hard to help.
For Yin Xiangjie's little by little care, this makes Yu Wenhua's heart also heavy. In order not to let Yin Xiangjie have any more illusions, she said to him bluntly: Thank you for your help and care for me during this time, I will always treat you as my own brother.
Hearing Yu Wenhua's words, this made Yin Xiangjie burst into tears.
In 2001, Yu Wenhua met the famous pianist Li Nian on the Internet, and the two soon began to talk about marriage.
On Christmas Eve that year, Yin Xiangjie gave Yu Wenhua a Christmas tree dressed up by hand, and Yu Wenhua also sincerely told him: I have a boyfriend, and we have a good relationship.
At that moment, Yin Xiangjie heard the sound of heartbreak, he was stunned, and let the cold wind blow towards him.
Yin Xiangjie, who had lost his soul, returned home and locked himself in his room without eating or drinking. Worried about Yin Xiangjie's accident, she took the initiative to call Yin Xiangjie's mother and told the old man all this.
Looking at the decadent son, the mother sighed and said: Child, since you and her have no fate in this life, don't force yourself anymore, otherwise it will hurt each other, forget her, you will definitely find a girl who loves you.
In order not to let the family worry, Yin Xiangjie put all his passion and energy into his work, in addition to singing, he also served as a program host, and even got involved in the film and television industry, participating in many film and television works.
06.
In 2004, on a CCTV program, when asked about emotional topics, Yin Xiangjie said with a bitter smile: I don't have a girlfriend yet.
The host asked in surprise: You are so good, are you picky?
Yin Xiangjie said half-jokingly and seriously: It was Yu Wenhua who delayed my youth, I have always liked people, but people have always looked down on me.
After the show was broadcast, friends introduced her to her, and even many girls showed love to her, and Yin Xiangjie also met several girls, but they all felt inappropriate.
Looking at Yin Xiangjie who is still alone at the age of 35, Yu Wenhua is very unhappy in his heart, and sincerely said to Yin Xiangjie: If I delayed your marriage, I apologize to you.
At that time, Yin Xiangjie had matured a lot, and he had no feeling of heartache for a long time, and said calmly: Before, I was emotionally immature and had nothing to do with you.
Yu Wenhua sincerely persuaded again: You are not young at this age, it is time to start a family, you must quickly find a girlfriend, otherwise your sister will have a lot of pressure in her heart.
Listening to Yu Wenhua's words, Yin Xiangjie sighed and said: I have not met the right one, and I can't just find a girl in order to start a family.
In 2006, Yin Xiangjie, who served as a judge on the "Walk of Fame", met a player with a body shape and appearance similar to Wenhua, and he could not hold back his inner excitement and took the initiative to talk to him.
Under his strong love offensive, Yin Xiangjie was with him, but later found that although the girl's appearance was similar to Yu Wenhua, other aspects were completely different, especially in some words and deeds, and Yu Wenhua was very different, so Yin Xiangjie decisively broke up with him.
The next year, under the introduction of a friend, Yin Xiangjie met a model, the other party's voice and Yu Wenhua some similarity, in this relationship, Yin Xiangjie is very engaged, but he asked the girl to comb Yu Wenhua's hairstyle, wear the same clothes, and even words and deeds to be imitated by girls.
After a while, the girl couldn't bear it and said to him: You do this to me a great harm, no girl wants to be a stand-in for others, live in the shadow of others all her life, I have had enough of you.
This relationship also came to an end, although Yin Xiangjie has some regrets, but he is not sad, because he stubbornly believes that as long as he works hard to find, he will be able to find a girl like Yu Wenhua.
07.
When Yu Wenhua found Yin Xiangjie and also asked about the feelings, Yin Xiangjie told Yu Wenhua about these two feelings.
When Yin Xiangjie finished speaking, Yu Wenhua was silent for a long time and said seriously: Don't you feel that you have entered a misunderstanding? There are no two identical leaves in the world, and there are no identical women, everyone has shining points and flaws, why do you always have to compare me with them.
After some chatting and persuasion, Yin Xiangjie also gradually understood, as if there was a sense of estrangement, and also understood that there could not be another Yu Wenhua in the world, if so, it was doomed to be liked by no one.
In 2008, Yin Xiangjie met Liu Xin, a caring girl, not an insider, who was a director of a company, full of ability and youthful vitality.
After the two are together, they often have friction over some small things in life, and whenever this happens, Yin Xiangjie will accuse Liu Xin. Whenever there was a disagreement, Yin Xiangjie would call Yu Wenhua to complain.
Yu Wenhua is like a sister to enlighten Yin Xiangjie: most girls will have a small temper, as a man should be more tolerant, and men and women are equal, do not have a sense of superiority in their hearts, otherwise such love will sooner or later have problems.
Yu Wenhua's words also made Yin Xiangjie begin to reflect, smooth out his sense of superiority, and get along well with Liu Xin, but eventually parted ways.
After this, Yin Xiangjie also contacted several girls, but in the end they did not succeed.
On the other hand, Yu Wenhua, although she had a failed marriage, after the second marriage, she lived a very happy life and was spoiled by her husband as a princess.
In 2014, Yin Xiangjie stepped into a wrong path, which made Yu Wenhua very sad, and when she went to persuade Yin Xiangjie, Yin Xiangjie also regretted it and decided to change.
It just makes people not think that the next year Yin Xiangjie made the same mistake again, this time, Yu Wenhua seems to have some "hate iron is not steel" psychology, and because of these two events, Yin Xiangjie's acting career fell, was boycotted by the public, and faded out of the stage, but also faded out of the public vision.
In 2021, under the mediation of Yu Wenhua, 51-year-old Yin Xiangjie finally got married, but after so many years, the so-called thing is not human.
Today's Yu Wenhua is like a powerful singer in the music world, while Yin Xiangjie, because of his own reasons, led to the termination of his acting career.
Everyone has their own life trajectory, walking on their own paved life trajectory, no matter what is deserved.
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