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"On the wedding night, the husband is separated by a detail": The most terrible thing about marriage is that this point is influenced by the traditional ideas of the past, and the requirements for women are very high, and in the past, women were required to obey three times

author:The World of TCM Week

"On the wedding night, the husband is separated by a detail": This is the most terrible thing about marriage

Influenced by the traditional thinking of the past, the requirements for women are very high, in the past required women to be three from four virtues, although now the society is more and more open, but there are many people who still have a deep-rooted stubborn thought in their bones. In the past, women's marriages were all decided by their parents, and they could only contact their husbands when they spent candlelight in the cave, but now they are different, and many people will choose to live together before marriage, so that they can better and more in-depth understanding of each other in advance.

Sweet in college on a boyfriend, when the two people's feelings are also very good, the two people went to the nearby restaurant together to do odd jobs to earn living expenses, and then the man also proposed to rent a house outside, Sweet also agreed at that time, after all, both people are adults, but also rushed to get married. During that time, the two people were still very sweet, and they would watch movies together in the evening and cook a simple meal, just like a normal little couple.

However, the time spent together is longer, the contradictions are more and more, and the boyfriend insists on going back to his hometown to work after graduating from college, and Sweet is not willing to give up the life in the big city, and over time, the feelings of the two people have also deteriorated, and the boyfriend has become more and more excessive, often holding his mobile phone to secretly call other girls at night, so the two people naturally parted ways when they graduated from college.

After the end of this relationship, her heart was hit hard, after all, this is her first time to fall in love, but it is such an ending, since then she has lost confidence in love, and later in life, work there are many men who pursue her, have refused, and said that they are not willing to fall in love and other reasons, for this family are very worried, seeing that she is about to enter the age of 30, so her parents insist on bringing her back to her hometown, and arranged a more decent job for her in her hometown.

In a business exchange at work, she met a boy who was one year younger than herself, Zhang Lei, who looked sunny and handsome, and the big man of 1 meter 8 made people look very secure. And the two people have a lot of interests and hobbies, can talk, and Zhang Lei also said that he is not small, want to talk about a love for the purpose of marriage, so the two people naturally get along, for this reason the parents at home are very happy, the knot that has plagued them for so many years has finally opened, and I very much hope that Tiantian can enter marriage with Zhang Lei as soon as possible.

When the two people are getting along, there are endless words every day, and after work in the evening, Zhang Lei also likes to eat outside about Tiantian, press the road, watch movies, and then contact with him for a period of time, Zhang Lei and colleagues carefully prepared a marriage proposal ceremony, and also prepared a DR diamond ring, kneeling down on one knee, and said to Tiantian that after this period of time together, Tiantian is the person he can spend a lifetime with, hoping to accompany him for a lifetime.

Although Sweetie was very touched, she still maintained her rationality and asked if you were sincere? At this time, Zhang Lei said that in the relationship between the two people, he can find that Tiantian is a very good girl, Zhishu Dali is very understanding, especially very self-loving, he said that he is a traditional person, like Tiantian this pure girl, but here Sweet's heart is a little scared, after all, he has had a relationship before, and there is also a history of cohabitation.

But she also thought that it was not easy for her to meet such a suitable person, if she told him about the boyfriend before, then it was undoubtedly impossible to let this relationship go to the end, so she made a tangle in her heart, and decided to completely rot this matter into her stomach, just as if it had not happened, and was at ease to marry Zhang Lei. She also agreed to Zhang Lei's marriage proposal, the parents of both sides were very happy, and soon the time of the wedding was determined, the wedding decoration was also in accordance with the style that Sweetie liked, very beautiful, and the two people also said their commitments to each other in front of relatives and friends, and the sweetness of the day was moved to tears many times.

When it came to the night of the cave flower candle night, Zhang Lei actually found that Tiantian was not the first time, directly changed her face, asked her what was going on, so Tiantian had to helplessly talk about her last love experience, which made Zhang Lei very angry, and said that although he had also talked about love, he did not cross the thunder pool half a step, and you as a girl were so unruly. And also said that Sweet did not have honesty before marriage and should not be hidden. Later, Sweetie asked him if he would still get married if he told him before marriage? Zhang Lei said at this time that the two people were still separated, and after saying that, he got up and went to the other room to sleep.

This matter was also known by the good friends around the two people, in the persuasion Zhang Lei said his own views, and in his eyes he believes that love is selfish, he can only be the only man in his wife, especially when it comes to being more honest in marriage, should not be hidden, otherwise such a situation will only become more and more serious. He believes that if you trust your other half, you should face it frankly and should not hide something, otherwise not saying it will mean distrust of yourself.

When Tiantian heard these inner thoughts of Zhang Lei, she did not think that she was well-intentioned at that time, and the result would bring so many concerns to the other party, and it can be seen that the feelings of the two people are very fragile, in fact, these words also have a certain reason, but it is also a selfish performance, and later Tiantian also directly proposed divorce, she did not think that she was wrong. After all, everyone has the right to control life, every love should be respected, and a good marriage should support and understand each other, not to cling to the past. #家庭健康守护官 #

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"On the wedding night, the husband is separated by a detail": The most terrible thing about marriage is that this point is influenced by the traditional ideas of the past, and the requirements for women are very high, and in the past, women were required to obey three times
"On the wedding night, the husband is separated by a detail": The most terrible thing about marriage is that this point is influenced by the traditional ideas of the past, and the requirements for women are very high, and in the past, women were required to obey three times
"On the wedding night, the husband is separated by a detail": The most terrible thing about marriage is that this point is influenced by the traditional ideas of the past, and the requirements for women are very high, and in the past, women were required to obey three times

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