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If you've ever followed a talk show, you've heard of Sven's name.
From "Tonight's Post-80s Talk Show" to "Talk Show Conference", she has gained a lot of fans with her unique talk show angle.
After two years, Si Wen returned to the show as a talk show actor, and while everyone was looking forward to it, some people were asking, why did they divorce?
1. Some people are not suitable for being a couple
At the scene of the program, when Siwen's ex-husband Cheng Lu was facing the anti-election, Siwen joked and shook a little.
Li Shi said in a round circle: "Sven did not stand up, indicating that there are still feelings." “
Na Ying, as the lead laugher, did not understand these things, so she asked very bluntly: "That has feelings, why should we divorce?" “
It was this sentence that ignited the atmosphere of the scene. Because, whether it is an actor or an audience that has watched talk shows for many years, they know why.
In one of the shows, Si Wen's ex-husband Cheng Lu wrote a paragraph: "Si Wen traveled for a few days, and our family's bowl was soaked for a few days." “
When Si Wen was doing surgery in the hospital, Cheng Lu was still writing paragraphs. Compared with his family, Cheng Lu is more loyal to his work.
As netizens said: "Cheng Lu will be a good leader, a good colleague, a good friend, but not a good husband." ”
If one day, your wife is like a brother on the bunk to you, then what is the need to maintain such a marriage?
2. Family life, there must always be someone to sacrifice
Once watched a TV series, the male protagonist is a very enterprising person, he can work hard, do not eat or sleep is also a common thing.
Because in his view, only in this way can we give our wives and children a better material foundation and make family life richer.
However, just when he had to save time to pick up the child, he was at the door and was informed by his wife that she planned to divorce him.
Men wondered: Obviously, everything I do is for my family, why in the end, my family abandoned me?
The wife's answer was: "When you miss the agreement with your son again and again, when your conversation with me is only perfunctory, when the trivialities of life are all pressed on me alone, we are already finished." ”
Married life is two people living together. We all have to pay, no one pays more, who pays less.
As the saying goes online: 'The only difference between a housewife and an office worker is that she serves the family and has no salary.' “
Neither party's contribution to the family is taken for granted, not only those who go out to make money are hard, not to mention, more people are dual-career families.
3. How did you get disappointed in your marriage?
There is a question on Zhihu: "Why are some marriages not worth repeating the same mistakes?" ”
Someone told a story about himself and her ex-husband reuniting again after a long time. And its central idea is nothing more than a sentence:
"Some people, even if they haven't seen him for many years, when you see him again, you will find that he only has gray hair, and his temper and connotation are the same as usual." 」
Why can't I remarry? It's because when a person comes out of the fire pit with difficulty, no one is qualified to let her repeat the same mistakes.
It is true that when you observe with your own eyes, there will be many small pink bubbles in your life, but if you think about it, you will find that it is all your fantasy.
Life can not rely only on fantasy, it needs to be faced down-to-earth. Remarriage is more terrifying than persuading the person who broke up to repeat the same mistakes.
Because, couples who are back to good can break up again anytime, anywhere. Couples who remarry for a while will not easily let each other go again.
4. Having feelings can also be disappointing
Perhaps, some people will feel that since two people have feelings, then trying again is also a choice.
However, for others, it is just a choice, and for the person concerned, it is related to their daily life.
You can't make a decision that affects your life on impulse, and you can't cater to others and ruin your life.
All in all, again, marriage will always disappoint people, but if the disappointment is enough, leave, don't look back.
The problems that have not been solved, put there, will erupt again sooner or later, and everyone will be scaled and injured.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.