Ma Sichun officially announced a new love affair!
A few days ago, rock singer Zhang Zhexuan sent a blog to celebrate her birthday, and by the way helped her promote the new film.
There is no mention of the title of the film, no poster, the accompanying picture is a semi-nude photo of himself, and only the "photographer" is used to refer to his girlfriend in the copywriting.
He replied to the blessings of many friends in the comment area, but skipped his girlfriend Ma Sichun.
After the topic was on the hot search, this relationship was not blessed by anyone.
Only because Zhang Zhexuan is really scummy!
He has been exposed to sleeping powder, cheating, domestic violence... Private life is very unruly.
But Ma Sichun obviously loves misery and has posted that he is very happy.
In February last year, some media photographed the two holding hands and pressing the road, which was very intimate.
In August, the two were photographed again at a gathering of relatives and friends, and Zhang Zhexuan hugged Ma Sichun's mother.
In November, Ma Sichun was exposed to be married in loose clothes and supported by his mother.
In April this year, some netizens met two people eating in a restaurant in the Uk, and someone broke the news that Ma Sichun was going abroad to give birth.
Nowadays, the whole network is shouting "don't find a partner in the trash can" and "wake up quickly", worried that Ma Sichun's life will get out of control.
However, from Ou Hao to Zhang Zhexuan, Ma Sichun loves "bad men", which is to some extent an inevitability.
After all, she had been under control for a long time.
Well-behaved women prefer "bad men"
Most rock singers are rebellious and uninhibited, and Zhang Zhexuan is no exception, and he is very self-contained.
On the show "Summer of the Band", peers commented on his music, and he replied: "That's because you didn't understand." ”
When it was the turn of others to perform, he pointed out the country offstage, "no talent", "what a thing", "this is my least favorite musical style".
Because he had studied in Manchester for two years, he always talked about the city, and he got a very mocking nickname: Zhang Manle.
Da Zhang Wei asked him if he knew that some people said that he was "pretending".
Zhang Zhexuan raised his head and replied, "There are a lot of people." ”
Later, Da Zhang Wei really couldn't look at it, and he damaged him with a gun and a stick: Your life will be very bumpy.
However, Zhang Zhexuan's "bad" is far more than that.
He once put his ex-girlfriend in the emergency room.
Have a girlfriend, but also often cheated on the gun, and do not do protective measures.
The other girl was obviously disgusted, but he said: "Is it bad to be pregnant with my child?" ”
And he used the chaos of his private life as a weapon to show off, once saying to a boy in front of a couple: "I slept with your girlfriend." ”
If these netizens broke the news that there was a suspicion of rumor-mongering, then what Peng Lei, the lead singer of the New Pants Band, said, it seems to be somewhat meaningful.
He and Zhang Zhexuan are in the rock circle and once said in public: "I hope that my daughter will see more bad people like Xiaole when she is a child, and she will not be abducted when she rebels in adolescence." ”
And it is such a "bad guy" that makes the 34-year-old Ma Sichun love deeply and return to the rebellious period of youth.
In fact, this is not the first time Ma Sichun likes this one.
Her predecessor, Ou Hao, came from an ordinary family and began working in high school. When participating in "Happy Male Voice", he stood out by relying on the image of a leper, was canonized by Haiqing, and later won the runner-up.
The two met because of "Left Ear", and when they met for the first time, Ou Hao said bluntly: How did you find such a fat Li?
Ma Sichun was not angry at all, but obediently followed his exercise to lose weight, and he had a long-term relationship.
Of course, Ou Hao was not "bad" for Zhang Zhexuan.
But it is undeniable that they have one thing in common - they have a rebellious spirit and are aggressive with people.
And this is precisely what the well-behaved woman Ma Sichun lacks and desires the most.
Looking for love? She was actually looking for herself
When he auditioned for "July and Ansheng", Ma Sichun wanted to play Ansheng more, because he liked the enthusiasm and wantonness of the character.
Chen Kexin rejected her because she was well protected from childhood.
She grew up in a very orthodox and solid family, and was brought up by her aunt Jiang Wenli to act.
Less than 20 years old, she has played a number of female number one, and after winning the Golden Horse Film at the age of 28, it can be said that her life is hanging.
But behind this, she has been disciplined to meet the expectations of others.
Her parents taught her to be obedient and sensible. She has been a "good miss" since she was a child.
On the highway, she would keep going to the toilet for fear of bothering the driver.
In middle school, she was bullied in school.
Classmates poured rag water, chalk ash, mop water into her drinks, read her letters to friends in public...
She did not dare to resist, but became more and more inferior.
Later, Zhou Dongyu filmed "Young You" with school violence elements, and asked her what she would do if she was hit on the head by a basketball behind her back?
Ma Sichun still said that he was fixed there for a while, did not dare to move, and then hurried away, because "he did not dare to look directly at this person."
Rao Xueman, the original author of "Left Ear", also said that Ma Sichun would not lose his temper with people at all.
After becoming famous, Ma Sichun wanted to "satisfy" more people.
Because she is always said to be a resource café, she once told Jiang Wenli about her contradictions and incomprehensions in the show.
She is easy to fat physique, once almost lost the "left ear", played "the first incense" is also mocked like the tiger girl in "Camel Xiangzi", the figure of three days two hot searches.
She trapped herself in the dead cycle of weight loss and happiness.
When I want to shoot a scene, I am hungry and often do not eat a meal for 7 days.
For a long time, losing weight was the most important thing in her life. So much so that when asked the happiest thing about 2021, she blurted out that she was getting thinner.
Ma Sichun's inferiority and flattery are also used in love.
She once said, "When you love someone, you are humble to the dust and then blossom into a flower." ”
The first love spent three years writing love letters, sending gifts, and carefully chasing them.
When she was with Ou Hao, she often did her best to help him earn money. The sentence "July is Ouhao's" is simply full of emotion.
However, in the interview, he was asked", "Who is OuHao?" When the time came, Ou Hao blurted out: It is his own.
In this relationship, who is more confident can be seen.
Regardless of career or feelings, when she tried to cater to it, there was always no good result, and the "good girl" value system began to collapse.
Ma Sichun was depressed.
For nearly 200 days, she disappeared in front of people, not taking on variety shows and no new plays.
Later on the show, she said about her depression experience, but still stressed that taking medicine made her 8 pounds fat in 3 days.
Obviously, all the so-called problems, in the final analysis, are the problems with the way she sees herself.
During the time of "disappearing", she raised flowers, walked the dog, watched talk shows, and fell in love with Zhang Zhexuan.
At least in paparazzi shots, she now looks relaxed. As she herself put it, "the mental state is fine."
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Written at the end ·
The blogger said: After Ma Sichun officially announced his relationship, many mothers around him were very anxious.
Because when he thought that the baby he had worked so hard to protect and grow up might be abducted and bullied by bad boys, he was eager to personally go down and eliminate all the scumbags in the world for his children.
In the past few days, Ma Sichun has been on the hot search again because of traffic violations.
The Internet is full of two groups of remarks: "One nest can't sleep two kinds of people" and "save Ma Sichun".
I think of a psychological saying: give up the helping complex and respect the fate of others.
In our opinion, Ma Sichun, who has a good family and a good personality, is always looking for a lover who is inferior to her and completely polarized.
But for her, it's just her projecting an idealized version of herself. She herself is also very clear, "I especially like people who are very angry, I am a person with very little social experience... That kind of person is just complementary to me. ”
The former Ou Hao is like this, the current Zhang Zhexuan is like this, and so is his friend Zhou Dongyu.
As Yohji Yamamoto said, "I can't see this thing myself, and when I bounce back, I will really understand myself." ”
Maybe one day, Ma Sichun will draw enough energy from this relationship to become an ideal self, and he will no longer need each other.
Everyone can only cross themselves, and I hope that she can bear all these choices.
At the same time, I would also like to say that some of the missing things can only be found by themselves.
Finding one's own boundaries is much more practical than immersing oneself in another person's self. Instead of becoming obsessed with TA, it is better to become AN EARLY.
Ma Sichun's story involves women's self-growth and the concept of educating their children. Tell us in the comments section what you think of her feelings