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When the shark in the American horror movie Jaws is steamed and roasted, what is this magical bridge?
On July 15, the video of Nanchong Internet celebrities eating sharks shocked the whole network.
The 1.7-meter shark, almost as tall as she was, was split into two sections by her, half for boiling and half for grilling.
To be honest, no matter what kind of fish, this kind of zombie meat-eating style is already uncomfortable.
What's more, a sharp-eyed science blogger found that she actually ate the international endangered wild animal "man-eating shark", also known as the great white shark.
Normal people know that they may have broken the law, at least they will apologize and review it.
However, in the face of netizens' doubts, the Internet celebrity did not take it for granted: formal channel purchase, artificial breeding, absolutely legal.
It's just that she didn't expect that netizens are not easy to fool.
As the video spread, police have stepped in and confirmed that the influencer and his relatives are suspected of killing wild animals.
Even if she insisted that it was a sharp-toothed shark, the law didn't matter whether you were really stupid or pretending to be stupid.
It can be said that her today is completely self-inflicted, because this is not the first time she has eaten strange animals to gain her attention.
60 pounds of golden mutant baby fish, 200 pounds of ostriches, and 30 pounds of large earth dragons, 20 pounds of large crocodiles, and even peacocks...
As long as she can earn traffic, it will become her meal on the plate.
Perhaps she knows that the more controversial the more she sucks powder, but although the effect is good, it is not necessarily a good ending.
The 7 million fans of the whole network cleared zero overnight, and they still had to face legal sanctions.
Man will eventually pay the price for his ignorance.
As a mother, I think that many children dream of being an Internet celebrity.
However, Internet celebrities are also divided into three, six, nine, and so on, some people cook with their hearts on the People's Daily, and some people challenge the bottom line to embark on the legal channel.
Thousands of years ago, Socrates said that sin comes from ignorance.
Because children don't really understand the cost, it's easier for the ignorant to be fearless.
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There is a term in psychology called the "Duck Effect."
It refers to the fact that people with lack of cognition and ability are often unable to recognize their own shortcomings.
The more ignorant a person is, the less he will know his ignorance, but will be eroded by ignorance.
The party sister of the internet celebrity up host zhi is a good example.
As a video blogger, she was liked by netizens for her high appearance and humor, and she was on CCTV at her peak.
As her popularity increased, she did not think about how to improve her work, but relied on various tricks to attract attention.
In the end, he actually wore Japanese and Russian elements and danced at the door of the Fushun Museum, which caused netizens to be indignant and had to withdraw from the network.
The ignorance of the party sister seems to be ignorance of culture, but it is actually ignorance of self-knowledge.
Her popularity on the Internet has made her despise the cost of her mistakes. I thought I only needed to apologize after making a mistake. People who do not sincerely reflect on themselves will only harm themselves in the end.
I once read a saying that a person can only earn money within cognition.
For parents, isn't this the biggest worry for an "ignorant" child?
When children do not avoid possible mistakes, or even recklessly and recklessly take risks, mistakes will eventually become big mistakes made out of ignorance.
There was such a news item in April this year.
When Shanghai's supplies were at its most scarce, a small Internet celebrity broadcast his own garbage.
Her so-called garbage is a precious material distributed by the community.
She didn't need to give it to someone else, but she complained that ordinary food didn't deserve her noble stomach.
As the news fermented and she suffered an Internet storm, she finally admitted that she used black as a means to become popular.
Darwin once said that ignorance is easier to be confident than knowledgeable.
This is not a fearless explanation for the ignorant.
Do not know the consequences, so fearless, success is a sign of courage, but this ignorant self-confidence should not be the standard of success.
Because bravery lacking wisdom is nothing more than a kind of stupidity in disguise, it is not only easy to be used by others, but also may humiliate itself and eventually go astray.
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No matter who it is, ignorance cannot be avoided, and everyone has their own knowledge blind spots.
Acknowledging its existence is the beginning of a child's curiosity and awe.
In order to help children better face their own ignorance, parents may wish to talk to their children more about these 3 topics:
Remember the actor Qu Tianlin's academic fraud incident?
Tangtang Peking University postdoctoral fellow, actually do not know what is the "CNKI" dedicated to checking papers?
Soon, his papers were plagiarized, the college entrance examination results were lied, and even academic misconduct was pickpocketed by netizens.
In the end, not only did the bully set up a rollover, but there is still nowhere to turn over in the entertainment industry.
In parenting, our children may also have this mentality.
Unwilling to face the inferiority and fear brought about by ignorance, after learning a little knowledge, he was self-righteous, until his head broke and he suddenly woke up.
The book "The Road Less Traveled" has already given us a solution:
To be free from the world of self-righteousness means to admit one's stupidity and to spend one's life learning.
Teach your child the best way to avoid ignorance, first let your child face his ignorance.
A person can find out their own shortcomings, is the beginning of active learning.
Dr. Mining Copper in Psychology once said: If a person does not have the ability to think critically, then he is easily deceived.
Cultivate a child's critical thinking, give him the courage to question, and we can consciously guide him in daily life.
For example, when a child asks us a question, this is a good opportunity to train the child's ability to think critically.
A child brushed the video and heard a point of view: when you grow up without reading, you have to pick up the rags.
He ran to question his mother, who seriously guided him to understand:
Picking up rags is not a lowly job, there is a profession called resource regeneration, that is, the rags are collected, disinfected, and then made into the clothes and bags we need through high-tech means.
It's just that the really advanced picking up the rags needs to be read well to achieve.
Parents can answer their children's questions well, which is conducive to enriching their own knowledge and cognition.
The child understands the causal connection of a thing, has his own judgment logic, and his eyes are full of confidence, so that his life will not be swayed by others.
Once watched a video.
Several children went down to the reservoir to swim, and a boy dissuaded fruitlessly, and decisively called the police for help.
We can't say that children who have gone into the water, parents have not educated them, but education has not prevented children from taking advantage of their ignorance.
To distinguish these children, the boy who called the police obviously had a good sense of self-protection.
The cultivation of these protective consciousnesses is the common sense of life that parents pass on to their children.
Children with common sense of life can not only protect their own safety at all times, but also avoid their own unconscious crimes.
Parents can intersperse life knowledge education into their lives.
For example, if we see news such as safety hazards and children being deceived, we may wish to let our children also look at it, use the time before eating or going to bed, and discuss more with the child, if it is you?
We can let the child say his answer first, and then think with the child about "what else can be done" with the child.
Parents can make their children aware that life is full of knowledge, so that children are not easy to fall into the trap of ignorance.
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Nobel laureates in psychology Dunning and Kruger once used a curve to reveal the meaning of ignorance.
A person's self-confidence peaks with ignorance, he misses the opportunity to learn and grow, tastes the bitter fruit of suffering losses, realizes his own deficiencies, and finally climbs the slope of knowledge.
Those ignorant Internet celebrities can realize the absurdity of their actions, apologize and correct them in time, and learn some real skills.
Traffic can help a person, not drown a person.
We should also be vigilant about our children's education.
The punishment of ignorance is not the ultimate goal of education.
The curiosity brought about by ignorance is the key to achieving children.
The Ming Dynasty philosopher Wang Yangming has a saying that deserves to be remembered by all children for a lifetime: self-knowledge and ignorance are seeking knowledge, and self-knowledge is fearless to fight.
Where a person is lacking, learning is where it is.
Every step of life is always responsible for the foot, and life will guide the right direction.
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Author: Tao Ruosu
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