Wang Jie once talked about a girlfriend. Once at dinner, in order to test her sincerity, Wang Jie said to her at checkout: "I forgot to bring my wallet." Can you pay for it? ”
The girlfriend hesitated slightly after listening to it, and finally paid for the meal.
Wang Jie was satisfied, and he said to his girlfriend: "You can rest assured, go home and get the money, and I will pay you back."
Unexpectedly, after a while, Wang Jie was not at ease and decided to test his girlfriend again.
At a party, he and his girlfriend spent 40,000 or 50,000 yuan, and Wang Jie said to his girlfriend: "At this party, my qualifications are the smallest, so I have to entertain." But I've been short of money lately and have trouble with cash flow. Can you help me pay again? ”
This time, the girlfriend hesitated. After all, forty or fifty thousand is not a small amount for ordinary people.
She was very puzzled and asked Wang Jie, "I see that your family only has four or five cars." How can there be a shortage of money? ”
Wang Jie lied: "Those cars are not mine, but the company has left them for me for the time being." Please help me pay first, and I'll pay you back later. ”
The girlfriend was half suspicious, and finally was persuaded by Wang Jie to help him pay for the meal.
Seeing that his girlfriend passed the test twice, Wang Jie felt that it was true love and was very happy.
Soon after, however, he said to himself, "Try again one last time." After that I will give all my savings to my girlfriend. ”
One afternoon, Wang Jie called his girlfriend, pretended to be crying, and said, "Recently, I spent all my money to make a record. Can you borrow me another $200,000 to get through it? I'll pay you back later. ”
As the saying goes, it's just three. This time, the girlfriend no longer helped Wang Jie like the previous two times.
Four days passed without any news.
Wang Jie I think it may be that the other party does not love himself enough, so he will no longer contact her.
Half a month later, Wang Jie met this ex-girlfriend on the road.
Seeing the expensive watch in Wang Jie's hand, his girlfriend excitedly ran over to chat with Wang Jie and asked, "This watch is very expensive." Is it yours? ”
Wang Jie told her: "Yes, the funds have turned around. ”
Since then, his girlfriend has been calling Wang Jie non-stop to inquire about his recent situation.
However, Wang Jie was not as enthusiastic about her as usual.
One day, he coldly said to his girlfriend, "I'm down again now." Don't come to me again. ”
The two severed contact.
Wang Jie was also full of sincerity and was willing to give everything for the object. However, after two failed marriages and several betrayals, he became sensitive to emotional issues.
This also led to a later romance, in which he questioned the other person: "Do you really like him or approach him for money?"
Human nature does not stand the test. Moreover, such repeated tests are undoubtedly challenging the bottom line of the other party.
No matter how deep your feelings are, such temptations can destroy your trust. Shallowness will undoubtedly only accelerate the end of emotion.
Repeated trials left him with only disappointment after disappointment. In the end it only deepens his distrust of himself and his women.
In fact, if Wang Jie changes his way, finds a girlfriend who is equal to him, slowly cultivates trust in the other party, and improves his self-confidence, perhaps his emotional road will be much smoother. #王杰 #
