As the saying goes: a woman is thirty years old and difficult to marry.
In 2006, Shen Aojun, who was already 30 years old, watched his friends around him get married one after another and began to worry about his marriage.
With 2 million savings, she took the initiative to find her boyfriend Nie Yuan to propose.
However, Shen Aojun was unable to marry Nie Yuan as she wished, and instead Qin Ziyue, who was 11 years younger than her, took this position.
And Shen Aojun's final destination is a Manchu, who is also a descendant of the Qianlong Emperor, what kind of experience made Shen Aojun give up Nie Yuan, who had been in love for 6 years?
The actor's dream of "one hundred thousand pieces"
Shen Aojun is an authentic Northeastern girl.
She also has three older sisters, and as the eldest in the family, she has been the most favored since she was a child.
After the college entrance examination, under the advice of her eldest sister, she applied for the TV choreography major of drama.
At that time, the eldest sister was already a teacher on the theater, and she hoped that her sister could become a host instead of entering the entertainment circle.
But fate is sometimes so wonderful, 19-year-old Shen Aojun was selected to shoot commercials, and she worked with Aaron Kwok.
It was this experience that made Shen Aojun have the idea of entering the entertainment industry.
Originally, she thought that shooting advertisements was "not doing the right thing", and it was better to have this time to enrich herself and prepare for the development of the host.
But when she got the "100,000 yuan reward", the whole person was stupid.
100,000 pieces! In 1997 it was a "huge sum".
Shen Aojun took 100,000 yuan, bought a house for his parents in his hometown, and then began to change careers as "actors".
This girl, who had not studied acting for a day, actually developed into a similar look.
In 2001, she went to audition for "Princess Gaoyang", and was slapped by the director on the spot: "It's her"!
The young Shen Aojun is fresh and beautiful, and a mole in the heart of her eyebrows adds a bit of charm to her.
Gong Li's appearance and superb acting skills made her name "Little Gong Li".
Later, the "Sai Xi Shi" portrayed in "Divine Doctor Xi Laile" laid her position in the show business circle, and the film was soft for a while.
But compared with her career, her love life is very unhappy.
An infatuated woman falls in love with a flower heart man
When she first fell in love with Nie Yuan, the eldest sister was very disapproving, and she also deliberately asked someone to inquire about Nie Yuan.
At that time, Nie Yuan was a "rebellious boy", who fought and drank when he was a student, and was punished by the school many times.
Moreover, Nie Yuan is also a "prodigal son of the love field", his girlfriend has been one after another, the most famous of which is Huang Yi, during the love period, the two have also cooperated in "On the Wrong Flower Car to Marry the Lang".
And the "fight" that Nie Yuan refers to, including his girlfriend Huang Yi, the two fought on the set, Huang Yi ripped off his hood, and Nie Yuan, who is a boyfriend, did not show weakness and ripped off his girlfriend's head flower.
But Shen Aojun fell in love with Nie Yuan, and she stubbornly believed that love could change a person.
But I don't know, she is the one who makes the change.
Nie Yuan is a very macho person.
He asked Shen Aojun not to shoot intimate scenes, and he must first get his consent to take the scene, so Shen Aojun did it one by one.
After "Divine Doctor Xi Laile", Shen Aojun became popular all over the country with the role of "Sai Xi Shi".
But she still maintained the state of one drama after another year, in order to leave more time and accompany Nie Yuan.
However, what she exchanged for perseverance was "betrayal".
Shen Aojun, 30, began to plan marriage, but was rejected by Nie Yuan with a sentence of "no room".
Naïve, she secretly renovated her own house and wanted to give Nie Yuan a "surprise".
Even the panes of the house were marked by her as a big happy child.
After everything was in order, she took the 2 million yuan of savings she had saved for many years and took the initiative to find Nie Yuan to "propose marriage".
The result was a sentence: "I'm sorry, I fell in love with someone else."
Nie Yuan's "Rich Love History"
"Shen Aojun is simply a thunderbolt on a sunny day.
In any case, she could not imagine that the man she loved deeply would actually betray her, and her relatives and friends, including Nie Yuan's family, already knew everything.
And the woman who fought with Nie Yuan was Zheng Jun's current wife, Liu Yun.
At that time, Liu Yun was just a small transparent in the circle, and the two met because of their cooperation in "Sweat and Blood BMW", but Nie Yuan never admitted to this "girlfriend" who had been in love for 3 years.
Even the final breakup, there is no reason, even during the 2 people in love, Nie Yuan and Ah Jiao, Hu Ke and other people played hot.
Regarding these, in an interview with Nie Yuan, there are already traces to follow.
"Why is it easy to have feelings in the actor industry?"
"You want to be together for two or three months, and the two of us are playing each other again and falling in love again"
"Every day together, every day to eat, every day to chat, how can there be no emotion"
On the one hand, Nie Yuan is macho with his girlfriend and restricts his girlfriend from shooting intimate scenes;
On the other hand, he is "tolerant" of himself and indulges himself and his female partner to have feelings, which is simply "double standard".
Later, Nie Yuan chose an "obedient" wife for himself.
In 2008, Nie Yuan married the newcomer actor Wang Hui, a macho man, and asked his wife to marry and teach her children at home and quit the show business circle.
At that time, Wang Hui, who was newly married to Yan'er, readily agreed.
However, a person's life is too boring, coupled with Nie Yuan's filming and busy, there is no time to accompany her, Wang Hui came up with the idea of returning to the show business circle.
Later, with the help of Nie Yuan, the two entered the "Journey to the West" crew together, with Nie Yuan playing "Tang Monk" and Wang Hui playing "Chang'e".
Wang Hui successfully made a comeback with this play, but also "lost" her husband Nie Yuan.
In this play, there is a woman who attracts Nie Yuan's attention, she is the "jade-faced fox" Qin Ziyue.
Not long after the scene was filmed, Nie Yuan signed Qin Ziyue to his company, and later proposed a divorce to Wang Hui and married Qin Ziyue.
Regarding the reason for the divorce, he did not say much, but frankly said that in order to make up for Wang Hui's youth, he left the house and the car to his ex-wife.
Nie Yuan, who remarried, still practiced "machismo" to the end.
In the variety show, Qin Ziyue wanted to dress up beautifully in front of the camera, but he was very domineering:
"Don't wear this, tell you again, don't be deliberate, Qin Ziyue you listen to me"
There are many more things like this:
For example, when his father-in-law and mother-in-law are at home, he sleeps until noon and does not get up;
The family waited for him to get up to eat, and instead of appreciating it, he said, "What's so good about waiting, eat when you're hungry"?
Thank you for the grace of not marrying in the past
I would like to ask, if Shen Aojun saw such a Nie Yuan, would he come to say, "Thank you for not marrying in those years"?
In fact, Shen Aojun did have a period of depression after the breakup.
The feelings of 6 years are not long, nor short, but they almost occupy the most youthful time of Shen Aojun.
During that time, Shen Aojun refused to film and hid in the "new house" she prepared for Nie Yuan all day and cried.
The mother really felt sorry for her daughter, so she went around asking relatives and friends to introduce a reliable boyfriend for her daughter.
In 2007, Shen Aojun met a diplomat through an introduction, and the two began formal exchanges.
It is worth mentioning that the boyfriend is a Manchu, a descendant of the Qianlong prince Yong Yao, who is a true descendant of the royal family, and in ancient times, he was "Wang Ye".
With the support of her boyfriend, Shen Aojun began to make a comeback filming, and a "latent" made her career reach its peak again.
While harvesting her career, she also harvested love.
In 2009, the boyfriend used the salary saved for 2 years to buy a 2-carat diamond ring to propose to her, and the two entered the marriage hall hand in hand, this year, Shen Aojun was 33 years old.
After marriage, Shen Aojun took the initiative to quit the entertainment circle and teach his husband and children at home, but was opposed by her husband:
"Women are not an appendage of men, you are at ease to do what you like, I support you"
Because of her husband's work, the two have been separated.
Even the wedding was handled by Shen Aojun, and the husband only came back once when taking the wedding photos, when the wedding was held
Come back once.
But Shen Aojun was not "angry" about this, but was very supportive of her husband's career.
The two occasionally quarrel, but they are on the phone, and after meeting, the two always stick together and cherish the time together.
After becoming a mother, Shen Aojun gradually gave up his acting career and concentrated on taking his children at home.
And she is also carefully preparing a "big gift" for the child.
Shen Aojun has used all the money and gift money for charity since the birth of the child, and she has kept these invoices well, and is ready to give them to him on the day of the child's coming-of-age ceremony.
epilogue
When she was young, she was willing to "upside down" for Nie Yuan, but in exchange for a "betrayal".
Later, she met her diplomat husband, a man who knew romance and took care of people.
This man not only gave her marriage, but more importantly gave her love and respect.
He has no machismo, can create romance, and is loyal to marriage.
He would encourage Shen Aojun to shoot a scene, wear his favorite clothes, and do everything he wanted.
And these were things that Nie Yuan couldn't give her.