Do you want to live after the age of 30? Is it to be a housewife who works all year round, or a strong woman who struggles in the workplace, or a wife who lives a good life, does not have to work, does not have to see that the child has a nanny to take care of at home, and spends luxury afternoon tea every day. If I choose myself, I may want to beat myself at work, because work can bring me a sense of fulfillment, and money can give me a sense of security.
Thirty years and only the heroine Gu Jia, not only has academic qualifications, white-collar workers in foreign enterprises before marriage, from her handling of the relationship with Mrs. Wang, I think she once had first-class work ability, and she is very sophisticated, high emotional intelligence, good figure, yoga and baking, including first-class English level, and artistic taste, if you pick out the fault, it is too brilliant, in the luxury wife circle also because of her appearance has a different feeling. Although it was opened by p, Gu Jia used the money to return the insurance to buy a package. Earned back and got back business for her husband.
In this family, her husband Xu Huanshan is her own dependence, and she opens up many perspectives for her as the heroine, and the strong force behind xu Huanshan's career has made Xu Huanshan's career smooth. And when the husband suffers from customer difficulties, the husband who has no sense of enterprise retreats, but the wife Gu Jia is determined to go, even if it is difficult, because there is no loss in the dictionary. And didn't give up. In Gu Jia's experience, there was once a happy family, but everything that her mother died was on her own, she relied on herself from middle school, and because of the relationship between her daughter and her father, she still relied on herself for some things that were difficult to say.
01 The maintenance of marriage requires the cooperation of two people.
Gu Jia marriage is a lot of their own reasons, perhaps over the years of independent habits to rely on their own to win, but also used to take care of others, husband Xu Huanshan was once an excellent fireworks designer, he lacks the shrewdness and sophistication of the businessman, more is the artistic atmosphere, for this in the choice of entrepreneurship is Gu Jia proposed, because Gu Jia yearns for life is high quality. She did not allow Xu Huanshan to stand still. She wanted her husband to fly farther than herself. In such a family atmosphere, it looks happy and beautiful, but behind the prosperity of life is Xu Huanshan's helplessness. Xu Huanshan's lack of decisive ability to deal with things, in the case of unequality in marriage, going downhill, a person living in the comfort zone for a long time, no fighting spirit and no feathers can not fly.
02 Xu Huanshan is still childish and impulsive, and the man who has been protected behind Gu Jia, a weak woman, has gradually lost his sense of responsibility.
The contradiction between them is that after her son Xu Ziyan went to the noble kindergarten, Xu Huanshan felt that life was very sufficient and did not need to work hard anymore, but Gu Jia did not think so, she hoped that the company would become bigger and stronger, and could live in a bigger house, hoping that her son could study abroad in his teens to broaden his horizons. And there is such an idea is to go to the top floor of Mrs. Wang's home for her son's study, and see the luxurious decoration of the top floor of the large flat-floor duplex, even the elevator is the property card to enter. Because in her eyes, life is a never-ending effort, hoping to go one level further, across classes into high society. Xu Huanshan did not approve of such a life, but he could not dissuade himself. There was no way to communicate with Gu Jia, and there was harmony on the surface, but the inner rebellion did not know when it was ignited.
Gu Jia walked into the circle of wives, for a single business, but her husband cared about his own design works.
Gu Jia is working very hard for the home here, and she has integrated into the circle of wives for her own fireworks company, for her own company, and hopes to spend every day in worry. Xu Xiangshan is handsome in appearance, and has a high pursuit of art in his heart, and he cares about spiritual wealth. And not the material basis. Because of his introverted personality, he compromised with Gu Jia again and again, and Xu Huanshan, who had ideas in his heart, felt that he had no status, but his ability was limited, because of infidelity, he lost everything.
Roses look beautiful, hurt others, but also stab themselves.
Thirty years old, not too big or too young at this age, need to think about not only yourself, but also the family behind you. Because of marriage you have children and wives that you want to protect. Because of the dim marriage, two people are naturally drifting apart because their hearts are not together. Gu Jia is indeed a better wife and mother, she is perfect, has a lot of taste in life, pursues high-quality and exquisite charm women, can go to the hall, get the kitchen, can talk about customers, and can also educate children.
A happy family, money is the backbone of the economy. It also needs to be surrounded by love. A lifetime is not just two people with the same three views and the same point of view. What is more needed is that the two people are in harmony with each other and agree with each other. It is true that there are two people who have problems in marriage, but it is also because of the loss of self in marriage. Overly dependent on him.
Life is like this, there are many regrets, their own companionship is very short, the companionship of their families is long- and companionship is the longest confession of affection.
First of all, you can achieve yourself and make yourself better, and then you will achieve others. Turn yourself into a perfect look, he will be a charming diamond king old five.
We look at the beautiful love of 20 years old, the marriage of 30 years old, no longer childish, romantic ideas, in order to pursue a good life, we can only move forward, no matter what we have experienced, what has happened. Only by looking forward can you see the most beautiful scenery. Gu Jia's marriage broke down, but stopping the loss in time was also a gift to the thirty-year-old self.