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Today, a piece of news rushed to the hot search, a child because of 3 rice dumplings, the mother's "excessive behavior" was announced to the public, requested the media to be tried, the discussion of the incident, instantly detonated the Network.
01, 3 rice dumplings, crushing a mother.
The cause of the incident is that the child's grandmother and grandmother have sent rice dumplings to the child's home, and the old man said that there are meat dumplings and egg yolk dumplings in the rice dumplings of various fillings, and the children like to eat the rice dumplings of these two fillings, so the children began to look for the rice dumplings of these two fillings.
After the child heats a rice dumpling, peels off the rice dumpling leaves, finds that it is not the filling he likes to eat, puts the peeled rice dumpling aside, and continues to heat the second rice dumpling.
Peeling off the second rice dumpling, the child found that it was not his favorite filling, so he put the peeled rice dumpling aside and continued to heat the third rice dumpling.
The third rice dumpling was peeled off, and it was not the filling that the child liked, and the child put the peeled rice dumpling aside again.
The three rice dumpling children did not eat, and the children did not have the patience to look for it again, so they heated the shrimp dumplings and prepared to eat.
Who knows, the child's mother saw the 3 rice dumplings peeled off and uneaten, and instantly became angry, loudly reprimanding the child: "If it is not delicious, don't eat it", and then the angry mother smashed the pots and pans.
The child felt very confused and aggrieved, so he put his mother's "atrocities" on the Internet for public trial, and asked: "Do you want to ask everyone about such a big fire?" ”
In fact, to answer the child's question, it is very simple, I want to ask this child a question: you peel off these 3 rice dumplings, you do not eat, who do you plan to let eat?
Plan one: Let the mother eat (a tradition in many families for thousands of years).
Plan two: Throw it away (very few mothers are willing to do this).
If the child's plan is one, has the child ever considered whether the mother likes to eat rice dumplings? Do you like to eat the filling of these 3 rice dumplings that have been peeled off? Can I eat these 3 rice dumplings at once? If the answers to these questions are all negative, empathetic thinking, a person is stuffed with 3 difficult to swallow rice dumplings in one breath, who can not be angry!!!
If the child's plan is two, throw away 3 rice dumplings, then please ask, who is paying for filial piety to the elderly in ordinary life? Who is getting up early and supporting the family? And who is saving money to maintain the family? If the answer is the child himself, then good, still 3, 10, who can handle! If the parents are giving it all, then, child, you don't even have the right to waste a grain of rice!!!
It can be seen that behind these 3 uneaten rice dumplings, the child's gratitude, random waste, shirking responsibility, and lack of understanding of parents have become the straw that crushes the mother's emotions.
02, let one person busy, is the whole family's life!
How can a child complain that his mother is grumpy, cause a heated public discussion?
Specific events aside, this problem reflects the cancer in traditional Chinese family culture for thousands of years: in many families, the people who give the most are often the most humble, the least recognized and respected.
Before, a girl told me about her personal experience, she and her boyfriend who had been in love for 4 years reached the stage of talking about marriage, the boyfriend took her to see her parents, and the boyfriend's family only had two meals, and she firmly broke up with her boyfriend.
Just arrived at the boyfriend's house, the boyfriend's father proposed that everyone go to the restaurant to eat, but the boyfriend's mother timidly said that the family has prepared dumpling filling, or eat at home.
The boyfriend's father immediately pulled down his face and reprimanded the boyfriend's mother for not understanding things, the daughter-in-law came home for the first time, and she was so poor and sour, it was a shame!
The boyfriend's sister also impatiently reprimanded the boyfriend's mother: "You, always upset when everyone is happy, when can you change!" ”
Even the girl's boyfriend was not happy: "Mom, can you please stop looking for trouble!" ”
The girl saw the embarrassment of her boyfriend's mother and excused herself that she was too tired to take the train and did not want to go out, so she ate at home.
The boyfriend's mother heard this sentence, as if she saw a savior, and immediately went to the kitchen to get busy.
At this time, the boyfriend's father and boyfriend began to sit down and watch TV, brush their mobile phones, drink tea and chat.
The boyfriend's sister hid in the bedroom, chasing the drama while reprimanding and supervising her children's homework.
The boyfriend's brother-in-law simply started playing mobile games.
Only the boyfriend's mother was alone in the kitchen with 7 people's dumplings and a table of dishes.
The girl used to help, and the boyfriend's mother's eyes were red: "For so many years, I have been busy alone!" ”
While picking up a fish, the boyfriend's mother was cut by the fish's thorn, and the girl went to tell the boyfriend, and the boyfriend said, "My mother knows where the Band-Aid is." ”
The boyfriend's father said: "Band-Aid doesn't work, and it's not good to work." ”
The boyfriend's sister and brother-in-law did not squeak.
The girl returned to the kitchen, and her boyfriend's mother had put on her rubber gloves to continue to collect the fish, and while cleaning up, she said: "It is better to tell them than not to say!" ”
03, leftovers on the table are the evil of family culture.
When the wine and dishes were already on the table, the family sat down at the table, except for her boyfriend's mother, who had to cook dumplings for the whole family.
The boyfriend's mother first fished out a dumpling and asked the boyfriend's father: "Is it cooked?" Is it salty or light? How's the stuffing going? ”
The boyfriend's father tasted it while disgusted, stopped chopsticks and said: "I have cooked dumplings for most of my life, and I don't know whether it is raw or cooked?" Faded, no taste! You can't figure it out for the rest of your life! Can you cook better than a restaurant meal? ”
The boyfriend's mother was very embarrassed, her face instantly turned red, and she said apologetically to the girl: "I'm sorry, there are many people today, and the grasp is not good." ”
After saying that, I went to catch dumplings.
"A few cloves of garlic!" The boyfriend's dad shouted.
The boyfriend's mother immediately put down the spoon in her hand and immediately went to peel the garlic.
"Mom, come and make a dish of vinegar!" The boyfriend's sister shouted.
The boyfriend's mother put the garlic on the table and immediately went to pour the vinegar dish.
"Mom, I'm going to put sesame oil and MSG in my vinegar," the girl's boyfriend said.
The boyfriend's mom immediately went to get MSG again.
At this time, the dumplings in the pot were opened, the soup spilled out, and the boyfriend's mother hurried to turn off the fire, or the spilled hot soup was scalded by the hand, and she cried out.
Who knew that the boyfriend's mother was burned, in exchange for not the concern of the family but the reprimand.
"Work is always only fast, rough in the hair, not careful at all!" The boyfriend's dad reprimanded.
"Can't you turn down the fire before you get MSG?" The boyfriend said to his mother.
When the boyfriend's mother brought out the last bowl of dumplings with her hot red hands, the people at the table had already eaten almost everything.
"Mom, children like to eat fried dumplings, you pack us a bowl of dumplings, we take home and fry them in the evening!" The boyfriend's sister said to her mother, who had just sat down.
So, the boyfriend's mother began to pick dumplings, separating the dumplings without broken skins and broken skins, and the dumplings without broken skins were brought back to her daughter, and the broken skin dumplings were left to herself!
After packing dumplings for her daughter, the boyfriend's mother sat down with peace of mind, ate the family's leftover meals, and when they were full, put the leftovers in the refrigerator.
At dinner, the boyfriend's father insisted on going to the outside restaurant to eat, but when he went to the restaurant to order, there was a dish that was ordered according to the head, and the boyfriend's mother insisted on ordering less, saying that she did not eat, which immediately attracted the disgust and boredom of the whole family.
"You, you've been poor all your life, and you can't get on the table!" The boyfriend's dad said angrily.
"If you eat less, our family will be rich?" Shame on you! The boyfriend said to his mother.
"You're like this, you might as well eat leftovers at home!" The boyfriend's sister said angrily.
At the end of the meal, the boyfriend's father called the waiter, and waved at the leftovers on the table: "Pack." Then he said to his boyfriend's mother, "Enough for you to eat for three days!" ”
Back home, the boyfriend's mother sorted out the refrigerator alone, while tidying up, worried: "So much, how to put it down, throw it away and it's a pity, husband, children and do not eat!" In fact, if I were myself, I would rather drink a bowl of cornmeal porridge than eat these leftover fish and meat! ”
The next day, the girl left her boyfriend's house and insisted on breaking up!
"If you don't call out to her mother, I think she is your nanny, and as far as I know, even a nanny is exchanging her labor for remuneration, respect and future, and your mother?" With no pay, no respect and no future for most of my life, I don't want to walk into a family where my wife is less like a nanny! "It's the girl's reason to break up with her boyfriend.
04, write at the end.
Whether it is a child who angers his mother because of 3 rice dumplings, or a girl who insists on breaking up because her boyfriend's family does not respect her mother, behind it is the disapproval and disrespect for women in thousands of years of culture.
Who eats the leftovers at home? Mom!
Who does the dirty work at home? Mom!
Who in the family is the most incompetent and undignified? Mom!
Who brings the children at home? Mom!
Who tutors your child's homework? Mom!
The elderly are not well cared for, who is the least filial piety? Mom!
Who is responsible for the chai rice oil and salt at home, washing and sprinkling? Mom!
Whose fault is it that the child's education is not good? Mom!
To whom are the goodies, drinks, and clothes at home? Husband and husband!
If the answers to the above questions are replaced by other family members, where are so many angry and anxious mothers?
May we in life reflect more!
May the above words be encouraged by my readers.
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