"When you really fall in love with someone, you will naturally forget your own pain and pleasure and gains and losses, but will only care about each other's pains and pleasures and gains and losses." 」 - Roland
Everyone's encounter is driven by fate, and everyone's separation is also because of the fading of fate. Fate brings people in love together, and also makes the wrong people drift apart from each other. To a certain extent, love has the "fueling" of fate.
When you meet true love, your whole person will change dramatically, and you will have a different perspective on the world. True love, the real right person will always come to you and tell you how beautiful the world is.
Just like the actor Zhang Fengyi, his separation from his first wife is because their previous fate no longer exists, and only by leaving each other and leaving the wrong person can they wait for the right person who belongs to him. And Zhang Fengyi and his first wife are now living their own happy lives, which is enviable.
The encounter of "mistakes"
Zhang Fengyi is a famous actor, born in a well-to-do family, and grew up in Yunnan due to family factors. Zhang Fengyi has been a typical person who does not have so much "talent" in learning since he was a child, which is a door that God has closed for Zhang Fengyi, but God has also generously opened another window for Zhang Fengyi.
At that time, Zhang Fengyi took the examination for recruiting actors in the Dongchuan City Cultural and Labor Troupe and successfully entered the Cultural and Labor Troupe. Since then, Zhang Fengyi has opened a new chapter in his life and started his own performance road.
Zhang Fengyi first studied Peking Opera, because the practice is a martial arts student, every day need to carry out basic skills training, and then Zhang Fengyi has carried out dance, drama, sketches, cross-talk and so on practice and study, these different fields of continuous learning for Zhang Fengyi's future acting work laid a solid foundation.
Later, Zhang Fengyi was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, and because Zhang Fengyi's own external image was very good, he received a job when he did not graduate. Zhang Fengyi is an excellent actor who has starred in many plays, and when he starred in the play "Officer of the Year of the Dragon" in 1988, he met his first wife, Lu Liping.
Lu Liping is also a very good actor, born in a relatively wealthy family, the family background is relatively good, has been shortlisted for the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award, and won the best supporting actress award. She plays the heroine in this play, Zhang Fengyi's external image attracted Lu Liping when they first met, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping played a husband and wife in the play, outside the play, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping both took good care of each other.
The long time of filming and the release of feelings in the play, so that Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping slowly have secret feelings for each other in their hearts, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping can be said to be in love because of the drama.
Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping's brother are classmates, which means that they have more understanding of Lu Liping. Lu Liping was completely impressed by Zhang Fengyi's temperament when filming, so Lu Liping took the initiative to start chasing Zhang Fengyi and confessed to Zhang Fengyi.
And Zhang Fengyi considered his own practical factors in Beijing, and after marrying Lu Liping, he also had a self-contained person around him, and he could also have a home of his own in Beijing. So Zhang Fengyi accepted Lu Liping's confession, and the two also went to the palace of marriage after the film was filmed.
The separation of feelings
Due to Zhang Fengyi's personal and economic situation, Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping did not even get wedding photos and became husband and wife. And Lu Liping did not quarrel with Zhang Fengyi because of this, but was very satisfied with Zhang Fengyi to live their own life.
But running a marriage is not as simple as falling in love, life is chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, soon two people walk sweet and sweet to chicken and dog pieces, will often quarrel. Later, Zhang Fengyi and Lü Liping's son Zhang Boyu was born.
In order to give her son a good living environment, Lu Liping chose to teach her husband and son, while silently supporting her husband Zhang Fengyi's acting career. But the feelings of the two people who were originally in love because of the drama were almost not too stable, and Lu Liping no longer contacted the acting career, so that the two people had nothing to talk about.
The feelings between the two people gradually fade, and the distance between the hearts is slowly widened. After three years together, Lu Liping was also aware of all this, and her pride prompted her to take the initiative to file for divorce.
Each of them is okay
After the two divorced, Zhang Fengyi threw himself into his work wholeheartedly, and even starred in Chen Kaige's "Farewell to the Overlord". After the broadcast of "Farewell to the Overlord", Zhang Fengyi instantly absorbed countless fans. It was also this play that brought him another fate, and Huo Fan had an indelible impression of Duan Xiaolou, played by Zhang Fengyi in the play, and found Zhang Fengyi's contact information through various channels.
It is also because Huo Fan asked Zhang Fengyi to meet in the later period, so that the fate between the two of them began, although Huo Fan is a dance teacher, he wants Zhang Fengyi to teach himself acting. Zhang Fengyi has been in the entertainment industry for many years, knowing that it is not easy, he has a desire to protect Huo Fan, although the difference between the two is 12 years old, but also in the slow contact of each other to double their good feelings.
But at this time, Zhang Fengyi needed to go to Xinjiang to shoot a film, and due to the filming arrangement, there was no contact between Zhang Fengyi and Huo Fan for a long time. Huo Fan had no sense of security for a while, perhaps Zhang Fengyi had already sensed it, so he called Huo Fan every day to contact his feelings, and the relationship between the two people was getting better and better, so the two entered the palace of marriage.
The wedding was very grandly arranged, which was in stark contrast to the first wedding. After this marriage, Zhang Fengyi changed the "normal" of the first marriage, became very gentle and considerate, and also gave his wife Huo Fan a sense of security, so that his wife Huo Fan knew his dynamics in real time.
At the same time, Zhang Fengyi's career also ushered in a peak period. And Lu Liping also found her real other half, this person is called Sun Haiying. They met while filming the play "The Burning Years of Passion", and Sun Haiying took great care of herself and her son Zhang Boyu.
The feelings between the two people are also getting deeper and deeper, and they naturally walk together. And Sun Haiying also took great care of Lu Liping after marriage, took care of everything, and gave Zhang Boyu plenty of "fatherly love", and the two people were also very happy.
epilogue
Love is what everyone wants to have, and what we should understand is that love may be late for a certain period of time, but it will not be absent. Sometimes, only by daring to miss the wrong people and things can we have the opportunity to meet the right fate, but at the same time we should be grateful for our past experiences.
The relationship between actor Zhang Fengyi and his first wife Lu Liping is lamentable, and now that he is 65 years old, he has now found his true belonging, and he can be regarded as a happy and happy life, as the audience we should send our sincere blessings.