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In 2017, He Jie was 29 years old, and although he was not very famous on the Internet at that time, he was an elite of strong generals with outstanding achievements in the army!
In November of that year, he was commissioned by his superiors to participate in a celebrity reality show, aiming to show the style of officers and men of the armed police through the perspective of celebrities training police dogs, and He Jie's task was to help the stars train as an instructor.
After the program recording began, He Jie lost his temper almost every day, he has always led the soldiers strictly, naturally can not tolerate the stars' giggles, willful and loose.
But I never expected that in the middle of this group of stars, there was a girl with a weak appearance, but He Jie was impressed.
During training, He Jie named the girl to direct everyone to sing military songs, although the girl was nervous, and even just opened her mouth was interrupted by the laughter of male stars, but she still overcame psychological obstacles and successfully completed the singing task;
When selecting police dogs, male star Jiang Chao was frightened by the aggressive Demu and retreated, but the girl stepped forward and took the initiative to try to conquer "Elvis", and finally she won the most ferocious police dog in the whole field!
Grappling special training, the girl was dropped by the instructor countless times, seeing the girl hurt to the point of tears The instructor could not bear it, but she said firmly with tears: I cry and cry, but I can persist, I must persist!
Because the hair is too long, He Jie scolded the girl many times, saying that her hair seriously dragged down the training progress, but she did not expect that the girl really looked for He Jie to borrow scissors to cut off the long hair after the training!
Later, He Jie accidentally found that the girl's legs were full of bruises, and only then did he realize that because of the constant struggle and biting of the police dog, the girl's body had long been scarred, but even so, the girl still gritted her teeth and did not say!
Finally, at the request of He Jie, the girl saw the doctor, and when she heard the doctor tell her that she must rest and can no longer train the dog, the girl "violated" the order for the first time, she said, I can't help but take care of my dog, since I chose it, I will be responsible for it to the end!
Perhaps, it is precisely because of the stubbornness and bravery in the girl's bones that she unconsciously touched He Jie, so that this soldier with a rock-like heart can't help but be tender.
Finally, 1 year later, He Jie married the girl he met in the show back home.
He said: I know that she is a female star, but in my heart, she is just a beautiful and kind girl, no matter what others say, I just want to use my life to care, never deviate!
It turned out that the girl who moved him was no one else, it was the goddess Zhang Xinyu.
Now, 5 years later, Zhang Xinyu and He Jie in 2022 are still happy and happy.
Some people say that since Zhang Xinyu became a glorious military sister-in-law, she seems to be reborn, not arrogant or impatient, and the years are quiet.
In He Jie's view, in fact, Zhang Xinyu has never changed, she has always been like a naïve child, but her former simplicity and beauty are now being realized.
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Before meeting He Jie, Zhang Xinyu was once very disappointed in love, when she was like a flower that fell into the dust, and she couldn't see the sun and blue sky at all.
Especially in 2015, Zhang Xinyu told herself countless times: Either my crush is a road fool, or I am doomed to be lonely for a lifetime.
For Zhang Xinyu at that time, love was like "poison", which not only ruined her career, but also almost ruined her life. In the shadow of her life, "honest man" Li Chen is probably the most intense stroke.
At the beginning of the encounter between Zhang Xinyu and Li Chen, one was a small actor who had just entered the industry, and the other had already broken out of the entertainment industry.
Originally, the two did not have much intersection, but the beautiful girl would always attract the attention of men, and Zhang Xinyu was no exception, and soon Li Chen fell in love with Zhang Xinyu at first sight.
In the 2012 Qixi Festival, Li Chen's confession weibo allowed Zhang Xinyu to see the sincerity of the "Big Black Bull" for the first time. In Weibo, Li Chen wrote:
"You work alone in this city, rent a small house, you often can't get a car when you go out, you like to live and work here, and you insist on working hard for it, you are real, love and hate, straight forward like a child, you make me believe, where, what you do, it doesn't matter, what matters is who you are with." 」
Although Li Chen and Zhang Xinyu are now separated by each other, Li Chen's confession is undoubtedly a light in life for Zhang Xinyu, who was in trouble at that time.
At that time, Zhang Xinyu did not have a senior background, nor was she a science class actor, the only resource she had was probably her beauty, and the stubbornness in her bones that did not accept defeat!
In the program, Zhang Xinyu once talked about his difficult "North Drift career".
When she first arrived in Beijing, she rented a house, and it was a bit of a brag to say that the place was a "house", it was just a few square meters of bedroom, next to the bed and the toilet, Zhang Xinyu optimistically ridiculed: it is very convenient to go to the toilet, and it will arrive as soon as you turn over.
But as Li Chen said: "Where and what to do, it doesn't matter, what matters is who you are with." "At that time, Zhang Xinyu was a hard-working girl, as long as she had a job and was with someone she liked, it was enough!
Looking at it now, Zhang Xinyu's feelings for Li Chen at that time, in addition to love, probably also had gratitude, after all, being liked by a person who was better than himself, everyone would feel "flattered".
In particular, this relationship has always been questioned, and even many fans of Li Chen are still "attacking" her in the dynamics, hoping that she can "let Go of Li Chen and don't hurt this honest person." ”
Therefore, in the face of Li Chen's "publicity", Zhang Xinyu was naturally overjoyed, even if the public opinion pressure she encountered later was greater, Zhang Xinyu did not give up.
During the time when she fell in love with Li Chen, Zhang Xinyu was like an ordinary girl, and she would feel extremely precious for any gift given by her boyfriend.
One day, Li Chen gave her a stone in the shape of "love", Zhang Xinyu felt that this was the world's most precious treasure, but he never expected that this "stone" was ridiculed by many of Li Chen's predecessors.
It turned out that this so-called "love stone" was sent by li chen almost every predecessor, and even one predecessor directly asked Li Chen: "Are you afraid that you have not wholesale a bunch of it"!
Obviously just want to share the sweet daily life with her boyfriend, but I didn't expect to harvest ruthless ridicule, for Zhang Xinyu, this huge psychological gap is simply a double heaven of ice and fire.
But even so, Zhang Xinyu's feelings for Li Chen are still very firm, and she also said in response to the media, I think as long as two people are sincere, it is enough, and it does not matter what others say.
Unfortunately, this seemingly "rock-solid" relationship only lasted for 3 years, but this short 3 years made Zhang Xinyu lose all his wealth in the future!
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In 2014, Zhang Xinyu played a series of "beauties", from Su Daji in "Fengshen List", to Li Moxuan in "Divine Eagle Hero", and then to Su Quan in "Deer Ding", although her acting skills are controversial, Zhang Xinyu has finally gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
However, Zhang Xinyu could never have imagined that the fame and reputation she had accumulated along the way had all disappeared after a year.
In 2015, "honest man" Li Chen finally found the love of life, he had a "small fan" to care for a lifetime, and once again raised the new height of the star official declaration of love.
That year, when Li Chen used the word "we" to publicize his new love, some people were shocked, some people blessed, and some people lamented that true love is not easy.
Even Zhang Xinyu seemed to let go of his hand in a dashing manner.
She said: Three years, time flies, no matter what the outside world thinks, you want to be happy.
However, no one thought that this "letting go" Weibo would actually become the beginning of Zhang Xinyu's nightmare.
Some people say that she is unwilling, obviously they have broken up, but they are still pretending; Some people said that she was red-eyed at the happiness of others, and was glad that Li Chen withdrew in time.
Finally, even the "Big Black Bull" himself said "what must be said":
"No one in this world can get happiness by hurting others, you have your means, I have my life, after today, no matter how Miss Zhang has a problem, we will no longer reply, may you go well, this life will no longer intersect." 」
When Li Chen's Weibo was sent out, thousands of waves were stirred up on the Internet in an instant!
Especially this "people will experience a lot in their lives, different experiences have different rewards, my biggest reward is to meet Bingbing, we are all people who know how to cherish, although she is very strong in her heart, I still don't want to wronged her." It is also a complete improvement of the "big black bull" to establish the image of a good man!
In the eyes of many people, "Big Black Bull" and "Little Fan" are true love, and Zhang Xinyu is just an undignified ex. What's more, she turned the spearhead of all evil to Zhang Xinyu, as if her sins were unforgivable.
But what exactly did Zhang Xinyu make? What ability does she have as a small actor to fight against the powerful "Little Fan", no one knows, no one cares, everyone only knows, "Anyway, she is wrong."
During that time, Zhang Xinyu was wrong no matter what he did.
In May, she went to the Cannes catwalk and wore a 4-day "Northeast Flower Jacket", which many people said was "Dong Shi Gong" and deliberately stole the limelight.
If you look at it now, since you are going to participate in the Cannes draft, in front of many media and predecessors, if a female star wants to "steal the limelight", how can she wear a "thing that rushes out in 4 days"?
But no matter how Zhang Xinyu explained it at that time, she still couldn't block Yo-Yo's mouth, so she said, I just know, cover my ears, run forward, and don't look back.
Later, because he was scolded too badly, people around him told Zhang Xinyu not to send Microblogs, so as not to blackmail himself if he said something was wrong.
But Zhang Xinyu was young in the end, and she was not willing to be ridiculed like this, so she began to explain desperately.
She said: "I am just an ordinary person, only write what I want to write, I really do not have high emotional intelligence, I have a lot of shortcomings, I do not have a perfect personality, there is no way to even speak seamlessly." ”
In fact, if it is really someone who knows Zhang Xinyu from the beginning, there will be no excessive interpretation of her words, because when she first stepped into this circle, she was a straight-forward personality.
She never had any idol baggage, dared to let people see any ugly photos, and did not care at all about what harm these casual words would bring her.
If not, how could the former "Big Black Bull" evaluate her: "True, love and hate, straight to the point like a child." Unfortunately, Zhang Xinyu's personality during that time became the reason for the "keyboard man" to attack her.
Slowly, perhaps too much explanation, or perhaps Zhang Xinyu was really tired, she finally learned to shut up.
Occasionally she emitted a state that was also becoming more and more negative.
She said: "If one day, I became what I hated, how would I see myself? ”
She said: "Looking at the walking dead, my biggest disappointment is not losing to zombies, but to people!" ”
Zhang Xinyu, who thought that she was silent, could slowly retreat from the sight of "Kuroko", but she did not expect that soon a voice appeared on the Internet, that is, "she, finally got the retribution."
With the deepening of the feelings of "Big Black Bull" and "Little Fan", Zhang Xinyu has finally changed from "a stalking predecessor" to an "ex who is sad to the point of powerlessness" in the eyes of the media, and in the eyes of some people, Zhang Xinyu is surrendering, this is confessing his fate!
In the face of overwhelming public opinion questions, Zhang Xinyu did not have much response, just a sentence: then let the storm come more fiercely.
04
Years later, recalling the most "unbearable" time in the interview, Zhang Xinyu has become very calm, she said:
"I think that when a person is very blackened, she will be wrong no matter what she does, but at the same time, a person's good will definitely be seen through time, and all we have to do is to do ourselves well and then wait slowly." 」
After struggling for a while in a repressive and suffocating environment, Zhang Xinyu decided to "save herself", and since the circle was too complicated, she let herself live a simple life.
She began to pick up her hobby again, painting, and when she picked up the brush, Zhang Xinyu found a long-lost peace.
However, when she posted her paintings, the "sunspots" began to "attack" her hobbies again, threatening that these works were not painted by Zhang Xinyu, but written by others.
There was no way, in order to block the mouth of Yo-Yo, but also in order to prove his innocence, Zhang Xinyu had to open a live broadcast when painting, and painted for 3 hours in a row, so that everyone could see clearly whether it was someone else who wrote the pen.
In addition to painting, Zhang Xinyu also began to travel, she used the scenery along the way to heal herself, so that her heart became more and more open.
After staying away from the hustle and bustle and public opinion, some people found that Zhang Xinyu really changed a lot.
She no longer complains about herself, nor does she complain about others, but actively strives to live.
When there is a job, she tries to work, and when there is no job, she stays at home, painting, fiddling with her little vegetable garden, teasing her puppy, and living leisurely and calmly.
Although there will still be misunderstandings and will still be attacked by the "keyboard man", Zhang Xinyu at this time seems to have become stronger.
She said, I will not give up, I will put it to death and live again.
One day, she said, you'll be thankful for those who are biased.
When she was almost at the end of her self-repair, she started to work out.
In 2016, she starred in the costume legend drama "Si Meiren", and the historical drama "The Legend of Ban Shu" appeared on CCTV, the number of works was not much, but Zhang Xinyu was very satisfied.
After her career gradually improved, Zhang Xinyu also slowly began to look forward to love, but she felt that her true destiny was a road fool, and she had not appeared for such a long time.
At that time, Zhang Xinyu, who was lonely, had no idea that her true destiny was already on the way.
In 2017, Zhang Xinyu took on a celebrity reality show, in which she met a police dog named "Elvis" and also met an instructor who was too strict to do it.
This instructor, in the case that everyone is not familiar with, suddenly named her to sing a military song in front of everyone, which made her feel flustered;
This instructor, seeing that her long hair affected her training, criticized her mercilessly, but when he cut off her long hair, he gave her a song called "When Your Hair Brushes My Steel Gun".
This instructor, who would criticize her for not conforming to the norms on weekdays, found out at the first time after her legs were injured, and insisted on taking her to the doctor.
After getting along bit by bit, Zhang Xinyu suddenly found that the person who was really right was around.
He is not a rich businessman, nor is he an entertainment peer, but he is greater than these people, because he is a soldier, a real hero!
This person is her instructor in the show, He Jie!
05
On August 5, 2018, Zhang Xinyu posted her marriage certificate.
She said: "I am a wayward person, this way stumbled along, found that there are many places to learn in life, I once thought that if I marry, it must not be because of age, not because of each other's conditions, there is only one reason, that is, marry him, marry love." ”
Seeing her crisp and neat feelings, many people expressed shock, it turned out that Miss Zhang would be so decisive after encountering love!
Soon, they held a wedding, the wedding scene is not luxurious, but very warm.
Zhang Xinyu, who was dressed in white veil, emotionally preached at the wedding:
After meeting you, with you holding my hand, no matter what happens, I will no longer be afraid, thank you for appearing, let me see my blue sky.
After the wedding, life quickly returned to flat, and Zhang Xinyu, who became a military sister-in-law, was a perfect transformation, she became more free and stronger.
It was only at this time that everyone saw what Zhang Xinyu, who had lived under the questioning of many public opinions, was really like in life.
It turns out that this girl really can draw, although her works are not everyone's handwriting, but full of spirituality and thinking, the most rare thing is that Zhang Xinyu often takes her works to do public welfare and help people in need.
It turned out that this girl's personality was really straight forward, and the remarks she occasionally made were really like a simple child.
It turned out that she really did not have the horror of the "black material" on the Internet, and met the right person, but it was appropriate to room IKEA.
In order to take care of the habits of He Jie's northerners, she, an authentic southern girl, learned to make Lanzhou ramen;
Because of He Jie's work, the two could not often meet, and Zhang Xinyu, who became a military sister-in-law, did not complain too much, but was extremely considerate and proud of her husband's career.
She said, you go to protect the country and the people, I will protect you.
When He Jie rested, they traveled together, went to taste food everywhere, and cherished the time of reunion like all ordinary couples;
When she was at home alone, Zhang Xinyu was not idle, and she began to fiddle with her own small vegetable garden again, planting flowers and fruit trees in the house, and planting greens and melons and fruits in the open space.
When she had time, she also went to remote areas to work as an art teacher for children in the countryside and teach them to draw.
Seeing Zhang Xinyu like this, some people think that she has become "Buddhist", and even some people think that she may have to "withdraw from the circle".
In fact, she didn't, she just had a person in life who had a bottom for herself, and she was free to do what she liked.
She said that if I come across a job I like, I will still try.
In 2021, Zhang Xinyu accepted the invitation of the second season of "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" and completely released herself on the stage, which was once ridiculed by netizens: from the goddess to the "female nerve".
In the face of the ridicule of netizens, Zhang Xinyu was not angry at all, but felt that this evaluation was very pertinent, because she did not feel that she was a goddess, and a big grin was the most true self.
In 2022, Zhang Xinyu still did not arrange her work too full, looking at her dynamic daily life, almost raising flowers, planting vegetables, studying cooking, accompanying her family and so on.
Perhaps it is to see Zhang Xinyu not come out for a long time, some fans urge her to quickly engage in career, do not "continue to mess up", and even when she occasionally opens a live broadcast, enthusiastically give her "gifts".
But unexpectedly, she encountered Zhang Xinyu's refusal, she told fans, do not give gifts, time and energy should be dedicated to the family.
In fact, in 2022, Zhang Xinyu also has several works to be broadcast, such as "The Great Detective of the Republic of China" and "The Hidden World".
It's just that no matter what kind of things she encounters, she has become light and cloudy, so she seems a little lazy.
Seeing Zhang Xinyu like this, I can't help but feel happy for her, because she finally lived out her truest self and lived the most comfortable life.
Finally, I would like to end with a passage from Zhang Xinyu:
"God has a knife out of you, maybe a cake hidden behind him, and as long as you are hopeful, the right person will come."
Mordaunt Sang Yu evening, for Xia Shang full of heaven, please never give up hope, to believe in the most beautiful things, if not yet coming, it is on the road!