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Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?

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Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?

The recent slow variety shows have almost all hit the street, boring to the point of being sleepy.

Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?

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Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?

The first episode of the second season of "Fifty Kilometers of Peach Blossom Wood" contributed a series of famous scenes, among which the "pinnacle work" 9-minute collective meeting was able to compete with the top famous scene of internal entertainment", "Flower Less 2". The expressions throughout the process are as follows:

Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?
Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?

This season continues to invite several old guests before, in addition to Danjie, there are Wang Sutaki, Li Xueqin, Spicy Yoko, Mengziyi, they were even the core characters in the last season, the main output of laughter and slots. It's just that without Guo Qilin, who is witty and highly emotionally intelligent, many scenes seem strange.

Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?

First of all, as the only "elder" in the show, even older than the parents of many guests, Teacher Song Dandan still insisted on her "suffocation and continuous questioning": "Have you found a partner?" "How old is this year?" "What kind of one are you looking for?" The juniors are in respect for her and often play haha, and when they meet Guo Qilin and Wang Sutaki, who are happy, they can still have a little spark.

However, this time, Teacher Song did not even let go of Dong Xuan, who had just ended the marriage of the scumbag, and directly exposed "you are forty-three", followed by an indoctrination of the concept of love, but the whole car fell into the embarrassment of extreme discomfort.

These are just the precursors of this episode, and that's what we're going to focus on later.

Li Xueqin "bar" on Song Dandan, how many people resonated with the suffocating "elder social"?

This season's Peach Blossom Dock has a new rule, every few days to vote for the person with the lowest contribution value and exile to the desert island. So everyone guests began to work hard in the first issue, whether there was work or not, as long as they wanted to do it, they could always make up points.

The unfamiliar guests, each bored with their own heads, is painful. In other slow variety shows, you can directly lie flat, and here it is almost like an office. Originally, the focus of the variety show is the natural interaction and reaction between people, which is good, just work and no one plays, naturally there is less interesting part.

And this show is also the most favorite program to open the conference, the meeting is already very annoying when eating, and the meeting will continue to meet after eating.

At the last collective meeting of the day, Li Xueqin proposed that everyone should even the workload and not rush to work. This was originally a very pertinent and friendly proposal, but Song Dandan grabbed the point of "grabbing life" and chased after it.

It can be seen that after being unable to explain, Li Xueqin was really angry, although she had to endure a smiley face, she still hung up, she smoked her own mouth... The picture is so heart-wrenching. (But at this time, Wang Sutaki next to her is a good man, a hug around her, the big brother protects the little sister that fan ah ~ )

But in the end, Song Dandan still understood Li Xueqin's meaning under everyone's explanation, and said that he was sure, "no need to work hard", but the next second, she insisted on finding a job for everyone - to hold a party.

After hearing this news, the expression on everyone's face began to become very exciting, emmmm in short, did not think much.

Wu Dajing proposed either half a games, and suddenly got a warm response from everyone. However, under the various "coercions" of the predecessors, the party that Song Dandan wanted was held as desired.

Then she went on a more aggressive offensive, organizing group dances and scheduling shows for everyone, whether you wanted it or not, like it or not. Dan Jie proposed that pianists are not allowed to play the piano, they must reverse the string, either singing or poetry recitation, pianist Wu Muye replied: "How stupid", but still had to surrender to join the collective dance.

At the beginning, the young people who had a face full of rejection could not resist, lost the battle, and half pushed and half agreed. At the moment when the whole army was about to be destroyed, Song Dandan did not dream of kicking an "iron plate" - Wang Chuanjun.

Wang Chuanjun, who had been silent, said, "I have already answered, I don't want to." "

"In the middle of this process, I'm a very sensitive person, I have a strong feeling, the feeling of being pushed away, I don't like this feeling very much, I feel like I have to say it." 」

Everyone around listened to him quietly, and frequently nodded silently in support. He made a simple and direct remark, not only the voice of the people present, but also the voice of many people in front of the screen.

How bitter are the young people now, obviously want to say no, but hindered by the dignity and inferiority of the elderly and young, afraid of being said to be "ignorant" can only be silently endured, obviously the elders are very arbitrary, even some unreasonable, completely disrespect the will of individuals, but still have to smile and greet.

Expressing his true thoughts like Wang Chuanjun in such a humble way is enviable because it is becoming more and more difficult. Conformist = gregarious = nice, while rejection = unsophistication = low emotional intelligence.

But the best way to face pressure from strong elders is to say your refusal with a calm and firm mind. Otherwise, you will fall into a vicious circle of "social rejection incompetence" and it will be difficult to summon up the courage to say no.

Compared with the lively embarrassment of peach blossom dock here, the independent purity of Xu Zhiyuan's legacy in "Longing for Life" on the other side has also become a topic. By the sixth season, the show was already full of burnout, and what had been a desirable life had become a tiring life.

Until last week, Xu Zhiyuan appeared. He always likes to stay alone - a person watching the sea walk, a person sitting and drinking coffee, a person walking and chatting... In short, he safely avoided scenes that required deliberate socializing and business.

I thought that such a state would cause disgust among netizens, and even diss his lines were thought out. However, not only did it not, but it made countless people envious from the bottom of their hearts. A person can be so self-consistent, live comfortably, and live not flattering others. Just like at the end of the show, Huang Lei, who has been busy all day, just wants to sit quietly in the courtyard with a coffee, "go and be Xu Zhiyuan for a while."

Many people said that today's young people are very individual and know what they want, but when they really enter society for a while, most people will be domesticated. Perhaps Xu Zhiyuan's life and way of doing things is the life that many people yearn for.

It is not an easy task to truly express one's thoughts in a relationship with people, and this expression must not be wrapped up in emotions, nor can it be suppressed by unspoken rules. On the road of how to correctly express ourselves, we still need to cultivate a lot.

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