Wen 丨 虞白
Editor 丨 賴賴爷
"Kirito, you know what? When I heard that he had a child with another woman, do you know how broken I was? Do you know how I survived this year? ”
Looking at the woman in front of her pouring herself cup by cup, in pain, Meng Tong's heart was like being stabbed by a knife.
I think that when his friend brought this frank and dare to love and hate girlfriend to his bar, he had a different feeling for her.
Meng Tong patted her shoulder: "Ying Zi, don't be sad, it's all over." With me here, it will be all right! ”
Meng Tong secretly decided: He would never let her suffer any grievances again!
Meng Tong thought so, and did the same.
It is precisely because of the emergence of Meng Tong that Na Ying, who has a bumpy love road, has finally become a big winner in life.
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Born in 1967 in Shenyang, Liaoning Province, Na Ying has a fairly good family background, and the ancestors of the previous three generations are imperial doctors, which is a veritable family of traditional Chinese medicine.
His father, Na Hongsheng, was a famous Chinese medicine physician, and due to his busy work, he neglected to take care of the two thousand gold in the family.
After discussion, the parents decided to send their sister Na Xin to grandpa's house and sister Na Ying to grandpa's house in the countryside.
Since childhood, Na Ying has not been afraid of heaven and has escaped the character of a wild boy.
When she was in elementary school, Na Ying did not like to study, always liked to hang out with a group of boys, either climbing trees or climbing walls, and often fighting with those boys.
Na Ying's initial dream was to become an actor.
But because once, while climbing a tree, she accidentally injured her face, leaving a scar on her face, which made her dream of being an actor end.
At the age of 12, the teacher organized the classmates in the class to sing, the other children were very shy, could not open their mouths, Na Ying could not care about that set, ripped open his throat and sang, this singing, actually changed na Ying's fate.
Na Ying was recommended to join the Liaoning Youth Radio Choir and served as the lead singer in the troupe.
In 1983, Na Ying was admitted to the Shenyang Song and Dance Troupe, and at the age of 16, she began to earn money to support herself.
Young and carefree, Na Ying, who had just opened his love sinus, finally did not escape the throbbing girl's heart.
Na Ying fell in love with a boy who sang in the song and dance troupe.
The boy's family is very poor, and there is no way to accompany Na Ying to romance.
Na Ying didn't care, and when she had time, she would go to the song hall or bar to "go to the cave", and the money she earned would be given to her boyfriend.
At that time, the opera "Hitchhiking" was very popular, and Suri's tapes were also popular.
Na Ying used the name of "Su Ran" to cover Su Rui's songs, made tapes to sell, and the money from the sale was also used to subsidize her boyfriend.
But these did not keep the boyfriend in the end, and Na Ying's first relationship failed.
Can Na Ying, who is frustrated in the love field, gain something in his career?
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In 1988, Na Ying quit her job at the Shenyang Song and Dance Troupe and followed her sister Na Xin to Beijing to develop.
A song "I Found Myself" made Na Ying win the gold medal in the "Sunshine Cup" National Popular Song Contest.
Fortunately, Na Ying was favored by the famous musician Gu Jianfen and chose to enter his own vocal training class.
In this way, Na Ying and Xie Xiaodong, Su Hong, and Mao Amin became classmates.
Teacher Gu Jianfen specially tailored "Ravine" for Na Ying, so that Na Ying's voice characteristics have been fully reflected.
In 1990, with a song "Mountains Don't Turn Around", Na Ying won the National Young Singer Newcomer Award.
In 1992, Na Ying stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
Her singing "Good Big Tree" won the "Golden Bear Cup" Top Ten Young Singer Newcomer Award.
With the popularity of these songs, Na Ying's fame gradually expanded.
In 1995, Na Ying appeared on the Spring Festival Gala for the third time, and her albums "Seeing Flowers in the Fog" and "Black During the Day and Not Understanding the Night" were also released.
Na Ying became a household name in the singing world.
At the Spring Festival Gala in 1998, Na Ying and Faye Wong sang "Meet 98".
Her new album, Conquest, sold more than 2 million copies.
Na Ying became a diva-level figure in the Chinese music scene.
Compared with the smooth sailing of the career, Na Ying's feelings are full of twists and turns.
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Na Ying's first bold confession was to Cai Guoqing, the popular lover at that time.
That year, under the recommendation of teacher Gu Jianfen, Na Ying and Cai Guoqing cooperated in the MV "Wangchun".
In the shooting, there is no shortage of romantic and warm scenes.
After coming and going, Na Ying had an idea in his heart.
Na Ying was a rectum, and she never hid her words.
That day, he directly confessed to Cai Guoqing: "That, or let's try!" ”
Cai Guoqing was also very direct: "I like your sister Na Xin like that." ”
Na Ying knew that this kind of thing barely came, and he would die of heart.
It quickly turned the page.
Next, Na Ying also favored his brother Xie Xiaodong, and often bought something to give to this brother.
At that time, Xie Xiaodong wanted to buy a car, but suffering from the lack of qualifications to buy a car, Na Ying proudly gave up his car purchase qualification to Xie Xiaodong.
Xie Xiaodong also once claimed that he and Na Ying had a special relationship.
Later, it was not until Xie Xiaodong had a public girlfriend that the rumors between him and Na Ying gradually disappeared.
In 1995, Na Ying fell in love again, but this relationship became her disaster.
At a cross-border networking meeting, a northeastern guy talked to Na Ying and asked her if she knew Mao Ning?
He also said that he and Mao Ning were classmates.
His name is Gao Feng, and he is the striker of the Chinese football team.
And so the two men began to talk.
Since the two people were from Shenyang, they quickly became acquainted, and before leaving, they exchanged contact information.
Both of them like to drink and play mahjong, so they often make an appointment to play together.
The feelings of the two people quickly warmed up, and soon the news of their love came out.
Everyone is not optimistic about this relationship, two hot temper people together, that can not open the pot.
Maybe it's really people who are in love.
The stubborn Na Ying did not listen to any advice and soon moved in with Gao Feng.
People in love are probably relatively low IQ, and they are more likely to be impulsive, Na Ying also deliberately asked for leave to follow him around in order to watch Gao Feng kick.
The relationship between them also seems to be stable, beyond most people's expectations.
One night in 2001, Gao Feng took Na Ying to Meng Tong's bar.
The first time he saw the Tianhou Buddha, Meng Tong was attracted by the straightforward and informal personality of the Tianhou.
But Tianhou is already his friend's girlfriend, and he only has a blessing.
In the 9th year of her relationship with Gao Feng, 37-year-old Na Ying became pregnant.
Gao Feng promised Na Ying that when the child was born, they would get married.
Watching the long-distance run of love for many years approaching the end, the god of happiness seems to slowly beckon in the distance.
But the accident appeared before the finish line.
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When Na Ying was 6 months pregnant, she learned of Gao Gao's ambiguous relationship with Wang Nawen, a barmaid.
The news was nothing less than a thunderbolt on a sunny day, but Na Ying, who was pregnant, did not have a seizure.
On October 15, 2004, Na Ying gave birth to a son, named Happy.
In fact, from this name, it is not difficult to see how sad Na Ying should be at that time.
When he was happy to be 4 months old, Na Ying resolutely decided to leave the peak.
Although she left, the damage caused to her by the peak made her heart ache more and more.
Na Ying, who has not yet fully recovered after childbirth, is almost on the verge of collapse.
Depressed all day, wash your face with tears.
Rushing from her hometown to take care of Na Ying's parents, she was very distressed to see her slumped, and thought of various ways to comfort her.
Fortunately, Heaven had a lot of compassion for na Ying, and arranged for a man who knew cold and hot to appear beside her in time.
This person is Meng Tong.
Meng Tong and Na Ying were born in Beijing in the same year.
Meng Tong studied in Germany in his early years, obtained an MBA master's degree, and opened a bar in Beijing after returning to China.
After Meng Tong and Na Ying met, they had been secretly paying attention to Na Ying's movements.
He knew that it was not easy for Na Ying to carry the child alone, and he also knew that Na Ying's heart must be very bitter.
He often took Na Ying to the bar, accompanied Na Ying to drink, chat, and listen to her confide, he wanted to use his love to heal Na Ying's wounded heart.
He began to pursue Na Ying, pamper Na Ying and be happy.
Under the careful care of Meng Tong, Na Ying's mood slowly stabilized and gradually returned to normal life.
But Na Ying rejected Meng Tong's pursuit because she felt that she was not worthy of Meng Tong.
She was pregnant before marriage and had a child, which was very unfair to Meng Tong, who has always been single.
On October 15, 2005, in order to celebrate his first birthday happily, Meng Tong proposed to Na Ying.
Na Ying expressed her concerns, worried that she would be wronged later.
Meng Tong said earnestly, "Ying Zi, you can rest assured!" Happy is my child, and I will treat him like my own son! ”
Listening to Meng Tong's heartfelt words, Na Ying finally nodded silently.
In 2006, Na Ying and Meng Tong got married in Canada in a low-key manner.
At the wedding, Na Ying could not hide her inner excitement and loudly declared: "The wisest decision I have ever made in my life is to marry a man who is dumber than me."
Can Meng Tong, who finally got his wish, fulfill his promise and regard Happiness as his own son?
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Meng Tong is indeed a good man with a broad heart.
In addition to tolerating his wife's fiery temper, he is also as loving as his own father.
In 2007, Meng Tong and Na Ying's daughter Little Apple was born.
But Meng Tong never favored one over the other, and the things of the two children were doubled as soon as they were bought, so that the two children felt that they were equally important in their father's heart.
After I was happy to go to elementary school, I suddenly fell in love with sweets for a while, often drinking Coke and eating chocolate.
Meng Tong knew that after eating too much of these things, the child would not be good for his health, so he strictly controlled the happy diet.
Once Happy hid some Coke and chocolate in his room and hid in his room at night to eat secretly.
Unexpectedly, it was discovered by Meng Tong, and it was directly confiscated, and it was also given to the security guard.
Happy to feel very wronged, he cried and went to find his mother.
As soon as Na Ying heard this, she shouted at Meng Tong: "Isn't the child just eating some sweets?" As for? Give something to your child! ”
Meng Tong said that he had already sent someone, and Na Ying had no words, but his heart was very unhappy.
Another time, Happy asked Na Ying for three pieces of change and went outside to buy a cone.
The aunt of the commissary asked him whose child it was, and he said that his mother was Na Ying.
Who knew that the aunt was a fan of Na Ying, and when she heard that it was a child of the Na Ying family, she not only did not ask for money, but also gave him an extra cone.
After I was happy to return home, I proudly told my sister that when I bought something in the future, I would say that I was Na Ying's child, so that I wouldn't have to spend money to buy things.
After hearing this, Meng Tong said to Gaoxing very sternly, "How can you do this? To buy something is to give money. Go get the money to that aunt! ”
Na Ying listened disapprovingly: "Son, why take it so seriously!"
That night, the father enlightened Na Ying: Meng Tong disciplined the child so much for the sake of the child's good, if his nature did not care, today's greed is small and cheap, tomorrow will be greedy and cheap. He has a bad body in the future, how can this child still be an adult?
Na Ying thought about it, and it is true that children need constant discipline in the process of growing up.
Since then, when Meng Tong disciplined the children, Na Ying hid and stopped interfering.
After I was happy to go to junior high school, one day my classmates in the class suddenly asked him: "Your father's surname is Meng, but your surname is Gao, you are not your father's own child, right?" ”
The development of the Internet has made today's children different from the children of the past.
In the past, children would ask their parents first if they had problems, but now children will go online first if they have problems.
Since internet access was not allowed at home, he ran to the Internet café to check it out.
This investigation made Joy feel like falling into an ice cave.
Since then, Happy has become less talkative, and when he comes home, he hides in his room and is no longer as active as before.
At first, Na Ying thought that the child had reached puberty and was a normal manifestation of rebellious behavior, so she didn't care too much.
It wasn't until the happy biological father Gao Feng appeared again and contacted Na Ying to see the child, that Na Ying realized that the child had grown up and should tell him the truth.
When Na Ying told Happy that he had two fathers, the child could not accept it for a while.
Meng Tong advised in a timely manner: "Other children, only one father, can only have one father's love, and you have two fathers, have two father's love, you are happier than them." ”
Not only that, Meng Tong often took him to climb the mountain, go swimming, and tell him various life principles, so that he could broaden his mind and become a real man.
Happy slowly accepted the reality and agreed to meet with his biological father once a week.
And Meng Tong's work, every week has one more content, that is, to pick up and drop off happy to see the peak.
For Meng Tong, Na Ying's parents are also very appreciative, especially in dealing with happy things.
The mother once praised: "Meng Tong treats this stepson happily, even if it is not one in a thousand, at least it is one in a hundred." ”
Today, Na Ying and Meng Tong have been married for sixteen years.
Sixteen years later, happy to grow into adulthood, about to step into the gates of the university.
Sixteen years later, Na Ying was favored by Meng Tong as the treasure in his hand, and it was still glorious.
For sixteen years, Meng Tong used his man's bosom to tolerate Na Ying, heal Na Ying, and also heal Happiness.
There is a Chinese saying that "a fool has a fool's fortune."
And Na Ying, who was once known as the "silly big sister" of the singer, finally exchanged his "stupidity" for his own "blessing".
And Meng Tong, a man who is more "silly" than "Silly Big Sister", uses great wisdom and foolishness to explain what is true love and what is the responsibility of men.
Finally, let us bless Meng Tong and Na Ying, a "silly" couple: the afterlife is infinite!