It was a winter afternoon, it was freezing outside the house, he was sitting in the bar, in front of him was a coke with ice, the ice melted very slowly, from time to time there was a "bang" sound, under the dim light, he was wearing a flowery and green dress, looking out of the window out of the god...
There is no cover, no defense, most of the time, Huang Jue is so quietly alone, he is like a person in the outside world, the appearance is cold and fierce, however, the inside is soft and innocent, always hiding a big boy.
Outside of the hustle and bustle, he was an ordinary man who liked to draw, loved photography, acted occasionally, and was the owner of a bar, but he didn't drink.
"I'm mediocre, but I'm not ashamed, I haven't won a big prize, I don't have a bodyguard in the supermarket, acting is just a job," Huang jue said.
Today, at the age of 47, he has a wife, two children, and a dog, half a life away, so ordinary, very good!
First, restless youth
In the barren wilderness of life, he went with the flow, wandering like a skeleton, following the guidance of fate to go to the place where he should go, as if in the darkness, he always felt that something should be done.
In 1974, Huang Jue was born in Nanning, Guangxi, the original name "Huang Jue", meaning immaculate jade, later, he felt that this name was too pretentious, so he changed it, his father was a local Yue opera actor, and his mother worked in the medical equipment unit.
Since he was a child, his parents have been very busy at work, and he has very little time to manage him, he was raised in the village, grew up eating hundreds of meals, influenced by the original ecological song and dance, slender hands and feet, he is also very good at dancing.
At the age of 13, Huang Jue stood out from more than 4,000 dancers and was admitted to the Guangxi Academy of Arts, specializing in classical and ethnic dance.
Entering boarding school, he began to live alone, and during those days, he loved and hated, immersed in the world of dance, intoxicated, but surrounded by a strong sense of loneliness, it was difficult to escape.
On the one hand, he is a good student with good talent and is valued by the teacher, while on the other hand, he is an out-of-place "school bully", leading the class and often fighting in the dark alley.
At that time, he wore a riveted leather coat, pierced his ears, rode a motorcycle that pulled the wind, listened to hot music, galloped on the highway, restlessness in his bones, and he always felt that he wanted to be changed by the world.
In 1992, after graduating at the age of 18, Huang Jue was assigned to work in the Guangxi Song and Dance Troupe and lived a stable life within the system.
Because the salary is not high, he often goes to the dance hall to accompany people to dance, and at 30 yuan a night, he dances very happily.
Later, there was a sudden "Black Panther" trend, he was fascinated by this heavy metal music, and immediately decided to look for it, go to Beijing to meet Dou Wei, and feel the scene of a Tang Dynasty band.
Therefore, he resigned and secretly went to be a "North Drifter" behind his parents' back.
In 1993, he "fried more" in major dance halls in Beijing, and two years later, he entered the modeling industry, making a living by shooting commercials and commercial performances, continuing his rock and roll dream, and began to arrange and score independently.
Although he often has no place to live, he feels that he has found a "home", in a Sichuan restaurant in the back street, everyone has long hair, wearing all kinds of dingdang things, he is no longer an outlier, and the loneliness is suddenly dissolved.
Gradually, he also mixed into the rock circle of the Imperial City, got acquainted with a bunch of old cannons such as old wolf, Dou Peng, and Gao Yuan, and lived as he pleased, without ambition, nor obsessed with fame and fortune, and devoted himself to music.
Renting a small apartment near Wangjing, the surrounding area is deserted, and with the help of musical instruments scavenged from friends, from day to night, all kinds of indiscriminate bombardment.
Emotionally, Huang Jue is also quite dashing, there has never been a shortage of girls around, according to his friend Liu Yiwei, he can change six girlfriends a week, and all are foreigners.
When the prodigal son of the love field, but also the horse lost its front hoof, he was once made by a Shanghai girl, originally thought that he met true love, but did not know that people were also "female sea kings", three or two efforts, occupied the dominant position in his circle of friends, and made himself everywhere.
Unable to pull down his face, he had to hide in the house, close the door and lick his wounds alone.
Second, the fourth feeling
For Zhou Xun, Huang Jue said that it is difficult to classify the relationship between the two in terms of relatives, friends and lovers, which is probably the fourth emotion and an indispensable existence in life.
In those days of running for his life, this clean and clear face made Huang Jue remember for many years, and also illuminated his frustrated life.
At that time, the two young people struggling in Beijing shuttled through the major dance halls, often rehearsed together, encouraged each other, and became each other's spiritual support.
For Huang Jue, Zhou Xun is the only person who can ask for warmth without scruples, and when Zhou Xun is depressed, Huang Jue will not hesitate to take her in, and the friendship between the two lasted for 28 years, consistently.
Huang Jue, who has a cold appearance, often looks like a child who has not grown up in front of Zhou Xun, will spoil and lose his temper, and she has become a "giant baby".
Whether it is 50,000 pieces of headphones, or hundreds of thousands of motorcycles, as long as It is Huang Jue's eyes, Zhou Xun never refuses, will buy him, and this delicate relationship is naturally like breathing, without traces.
In 1995, Zhou Xun's surprise glimpse of Zhang Guorong in Chen Kaige's film "Wind and Moon" made her enter the world of movies.
Three years later, Zhou Xun became popular all over the country with works such as "Daming Palace Words" and "April Day on Earth", and also became the "heart treasure" of the owner Li Shaohong.
At that time, Huang Jue, who had been mixed in Beijing for several years, had a tight life, and had planned to admit defeat and go to work well, but he was pushed by a good girlfriend and accidentally entered the film and television circle.
In 2002, Li Shaohong was preparing to shoot the movie "Baby in Love", but she could not find the male number one who satisfied her, just at this time, Zhou Xun recommended her friend Huang Jue, and blocked the future of star luck, insisting on letting him star.
Li Shaohong, who couldn't help her, had to agree to let this newcomer, who didn't know anything, play the urban youth "Liu Zhi" and let Chen Kun match him.
Perhaps, Huang Jue was born to eat this bowl of rice, in the movie, he is like a piece of moss, thrown wherever he is, he can survive, tough and paranoid.
Later, during the filming of the movie "Letter from a Strange Woman", Huang Jue met Xu Jinglei, a "talented woman in the Beijing circle", "that is, from that second on, I fell in love with you", and the officer in the play fell in love with a strange woman.
In private, the two literary and artistic youth attracted each other and fell in love, and in 2005, the two were photographed by the media on a date, and the relationship was officially exposed.
The two held hands together to visit IKEA, kissed on the street, visited each other, and after living together for 5 years, the two once reached the point of talking about marriage, but in 2009, they suddenly announced their breakup, which caught people off guard.
This relationship made Huang Jue very hurt deeply, and even had the intention of not getting married, falling in love, having children can be, but never getting married.
In the next few years, Huang Jue devoted himself to his career, and successively starred in works such as "Out of the Cocoon", "Love in the City" and "The Last Night on Earth", and gradually entered the public vision.
During this period, he also had scandals with actresses such as Yu Feihong, Zuo Xiaoqing, Chen Shu, etc., however, emotionally, he was always inseparable and was rated as a "prodigal son" by the media.
"Looking back on every emotional relationship, I haven't done anything unbearable, and there's no one I can't look back on," Huang Jue said frankly.
Perhaps, this is the reason why Huang Jue is called "prodigal son", but it is not annoying, in the face of feelings, he seems to be more stupid than women, every relationship is very gentle, but also very caring for each other, so the ex-girlfriend's evaluation of Huang Jue is very good.
Even if they miss each other, it has been a good memory, and a decent breakup is the greatest respect for each other, and it is also the best proof of love.
Third, the woman who subdues the "prodigal son"
Before the appearance of a girl named Maizi, Huang Jue had always been "unmarried", he enjoyed this unplanned life, and he was not willing to break the state of freedom for marriage.
As the days passed, he was 36 years old, and under the constant temptation and urging of his parents to marry, he simply closed his ears, closed his eyes, and directly bought himself a pension house in Beijing.
He transformed a three-bedroom room exactly in the style of a single man into a large room, all of which had no doors, and even the toilets were unobstructed.
In addition to filming, he immersed himself in the online world, looking for something that was in touch with his spirit, and enjoyed it.
In 2009, Huang Jue met a girl on the Internet, only knowing that her pen name was "Maizi", as well as the movies, music and paintings she shared, all of which made her inexplicably like, and the words flowing between her brushstrokes could always warm herself and heal herself.
He frantically searched for wheat in the online world, and after having contact information, the two began to chat endlessly, from literature to film to art, there was always no end to the words.
He became more and more interested in this mysterious girl, so he asked for a picture of the wheat, a bright and moving face, which rippled in Huang Jue's eyes, and his heart was faintly hot, as if something had burrowed into it and could never come out again.
Mai Zi, formerly known as Meng Tiantian, a Shandong girl, 14 years younger than Huang Jue, studied directing at the French University III, not only an excellent playwright, but also a ballet dancer, and her writing skills are also very good.
In 2011, MaiZi returned to China for the summer vacation, and the two met "netizens running to appear", although it was the first time they met, but they seemed to know each other for many years.
After eating in a small shop, the two walked until the evening, and later, Huang Jue bought coffee and snacks, and the two sat in the car to chat, and the chat was until four o'clock in the morning, and they still felt unfinished.
23-year-old Maizi, the only daughter in the family, self-disciplined in life, excellent all the way, and Huang Jue is like a person with two tracks, and she is strong in her heart, sometimes more transparent than the cool handsome uncle in front of her.
Soon, the two people with similar souls fell in love, and Huang Jue also unabashedly lit up the bottom card, admitting that he could fall in love or have children, but did not want to rely on the law to restrict the relationship between the two.
Unexpectedly, Mai Zi nodded his head and said, "I don't care what you want!"
Throwing out a word without light or heavy, it made this "veteran of the love field" a little overwhelmed, and his heart was itching.
In the eyes of others, Huang Jue, who has a cold appearance and a rich love history, does not look like a good person, but in the eyes of Maizi, he is a big boy who is about to grow up, and his heart is kinder and softer than anyone.
Two months in love, Huang Jue's thoughts took a 180° turn, completely pinched to death by a little girl, deeply fallen, unable to himself, Baba bought a wedding ring, and chased to France to propose to Wheat.
In the middle of the summer of 2011, the two officially received the license, no wedding, no wedding photos, and went to love without hesitation, firm and warm.
At the end of the year, the son "Little Walnut" was born, two years later, he ushered in his daughter "Xiao Jujube", and there was a dog called "Appetizer" at home, so happy, Huang Jue could not help but sigh: It is good to get married!
Fourth, this is more or less love
"After getting to know Teacher Huang (Huang Jue), he replaced sweets and solved my anxiety. Teacher Huang spends most of his time on smoothing my hair, and I am convinced that he is the only one in this world who has this ability," says MaiZi.
In life, Maizi's personality is not gentle, and when he encounters things, he will even be anxious to catch fire, and Huang Jue can always use his method to coax his wife to be happy in a second and spoil his wife into a princess.
After marriage, Huang Jue became more and more in love with his family, except for the occasional filming, that is, staying at home, accompanying his wife and children, he liked to put the sleeping baby on his stomach, and then he also didzed off with his eyes hanging down.
This small and warm day made him feel cherished.
"If it wasn't for this marriage, maybe he didn't realize that he was so suitable for married life", in Maizi's view, Huang Jue's mood is very stable, stable, responsible, and a good father.
What is even more rare is that Huang Jue is very supportive of his wife's career, in addition to Mrs. Huang's identity, she is also the independent and free wheat, shining in her own field.
Over the years, she is passionate about writing, loves to read, has read 847 books, listened to 1300 records, and watched 2284 movies, and she uses this self-discipline to love life and positively influence children.
At the same time, as an independent director, she has directed the short film "Goodbye Baby", the short documentary "Nanjing Girl", and the short film "EI TANGO" has also been shortlisted for the Cannes Film Festival.
Mai Zi also unlocked the identity of the actor, playing "MingMing" in the drama "Rhinoceros in Love", participating in the movie "Love Song 1980" and the TV series "Living Quietly in an Uneasy World".
A few years ago, Mai Zi also appeared on the program of "City of Illusion", cooperated with Dou Qiantong, and independently created the work "Magic Moon" in a very short period of time, and his talent made Faye Wong praise.
I think that this kind of wheat is the reason why Huang Jue really loves her, sober and independent, rich and self-sustaining.
Now, after 10 years of marriage, the relationship between the two is still as sweet as ever, and Huang Jue once said firmly that only wheat can keep himself from being distracted and has always been attracted.
After all these years, Huang Jue and Mai Zi still had endless conversations, just like when he first saw her.
No matter how late it is, Huang Jue will stay at the door of the theater, waiting for his wife to leave work together, often waiting late at night.
Even if you are traveling in other places, as long as the work is over, Huang Jue will video with his wife, and the screenshot of each call, like an invoice, accumulates into a huge amount of money, which exists in the bank of the years.
On social platforms, Huang Jue has become a "wife-showman", and most of the works in photography have appeared in the figure of wheat, and the best painting is also made for wheat...
I think this is probably love, two lonely souls are adopted by marriage, healed by it, and then become two better people.
As Huang Jue said, "Marriage has nothing to do with children, it is not a responsibility and obligation, nor is it a left hand holding a right hand, I love you, just because you are you."
Fifth, live with your nature
Over the years, Huang Jue has been living with his nature, playing while working, and living a good life is his most simple wish.
In addition to photography, painting and opening bars, he travels with his wife and children, stopping and going, enjoying slow hours, leaving most of his time to his family.
As a person in the show business circle, he rarely participates in dinner, and he will not participate in reality shows in order to increase exposure, do not compete, have no desires, and keep himself intact.
For the acting thing, he attaches great importance to it, and the word "actor", he never allows anyone to ridicule and touch the dark, although he debuted for 20 years, his works are not many, but most of them are fine, and his acting skills can also be remarkable.
Last year, a poverty alleviation drama "Mountains and Seas", let geng zhi kind "Professor Ling", he, touched countless audiences.
At the beginning of this year, in the "annual conscience drama" "Beginning", the bus driver "Wang Xingde" played by him made the audience hate and pity, and it was also another popularity.
Recently, the TV series "The Story Under the Lion Rock" cooperated with Hu Xing'er can be called the Hong Kong version of "The World of Man", and the "Laojin" played by Huang Jue is also very much expected.