Wang Qian is a girl living in a poor family, when he was only four years old, he had to take on the responsibility of taking care of his brother and mother, because his brother and mother were both cerebral palsy patients, unable to take care of themselves, and his father who worked outside the home did not have time to take care of the two, and only four-year-old Wang Qian took up this job.
He not only cooked for his mother, but also changed his brother's diaper, put his arms around his brother to sleep, the younger brother's intelligence was only like that of a 2-year-old child, Wang Qian repeatedly coaxed his brother over and over again, it is precisely because of such a family, Wang Qian 25 years old does not dare to get married, for fear of dragging others.
1. Old things
China's feudal thinking was to favor sons over daughters, every household wants to have a big fat boy to inherit incense, so that for girls, most families do not pay attention, if it is extremely poor families will directly lose girls, continue to give birth, until the birth of boys, such a practice, so that until today's male and female ratio is still an imbalanced social situation.
In this way, many poor rural families are not able to marry a daughter-in-law, the father of the protagonist of the story is like this, their family is not rich and wants to have a wife to inherit the generations, have children, this can be described as more difficult, the mother's family who married the daughter originally held me to raise a daughter, hoping that he could earn a sum, when he met such a family that had nothing, naturally did not want to marry.
Wang Qian's grandmother saw that her son was already so old, and she could not marry her daughter-in-law until she was older, and no woman was willing to marry him, so she began to actively find someone to kiss, but one after another, as imagined, no one was willing to marry his family, at this moment Wang Qian's father had no illusions about marrying a wife and having children.
Until one day Wang Qian's grandmother brought a young woman back to the house, Wang Qian's father smiled happily, but after a careful inquiry, he was poured a basin of cold water on his mother's answer, it turned out that this woman was picked up by her mother from the market, and when her mother saw him, he was rummaging through the garbage heap for food, so he directly led people back to the house.
This mentally ill woman gave birth to nothing wrong with her, and first gave birth to a big girl to the Wang family, but in the countryside, the daughter was not pleasing even if she was sensible, so she gave birth to a big fat boy to the Wang family, so that Wang Qian's father and grandmother were finally satisfied, but a bigger problem fell on Wang Qian's father.
Although Wang Qian is healthy, but his brother inherited his mother's disease, life can not take care of themselves, which makes their already difficult family worse, originally need to support a can not take care of themselves, now become two, with the brother can not treat the mentality to go to the provincial hospital to consult, but the result is to spend a lot of treatment costs.
Twenty thousand yuan was about to crush the family, and had to give up treatment, but the sensible Wang Qian stood up at this moment, he knew his father's hard work, every day to work in the field, so he took on the task of taking care of his mother and brother, saying that the poor children had long been in charge, and it was true that it was the young Wang Qian who stood up to this half of the sky.
2. Accidents
Because the family is not rich, Wang Qian's father has not read books, and even the big characters do not know a few, he considers the current family, once she is old, Wang Qian, this little girl can not work like him, so he thought of another way out, reading, so he painstakingly sent Wang Qian to the academy.
Wang Qian grew up slowly, she can also do some odd jobs to subsidize the family when she was studying, and her life seemed to be getting better day by day, but a sudden thing made the family breathless, Wang Qian's father unfortunately fell during the period of farming in the field, and he could no longer do heavy physical work, at this moment all the burdens of this family were on Wang Qian's body.
Third, do not dare to marry
Wang Qian does not have any diploma, nor is there any position willing to want him, can only do the bottom of the sales, which is already a good job for him, but he is not only satisfied with the current position, he continues to work hard, improve his knowledge system, determined to make his parents and brother live a happier life.
Even if the time is tight, he will squeeze out time to study, and now he is better than most people, but even so, he does not dare to get married, because marriage will involve two families, no one wants to marry a daughter-in-law or drag the family, life after marriage, not as free as before marriage, her love has been overloaded, and she has no ability to contribute to others.
Wang Qian is a self-supporting girl, he does not want anyone to bear this pain with him, so he chooses to sacrifice his happiness to maintain this already broken family, his work is very hard, and the family also gives him a lot of pressure, whenever he takes a lunch break, he will rush home to make a hot meal for his parents and brother.
After a busy day of work, Wang Qian returned home, but also for his mother and brother to bathe, this is not a small workload, even if Wang Qian has been busy every day like a top, he still treats life with a warm attitude, this unlucky family did not erase his enthusiasm for life, but let him know the meaning of life more clearly.
What Wang Qian can't give up is the bondage of her family, even if his parents don't give him the best everything, even if their selfish desires, the idea of wanting a son makes Wang Qian's decades of extreme hardship, but Wang Qian still loves their family without any complaints, facing his mother and brother who have no ability to take care of themselves.
Wang Qian's difficult life experience has made him forge a tenacious personality, he can fall again and again in setbacks, but also get up again and again, each ordeal is to promote him to grow up, he knows more than his peers that life is not easy, the importance of family.
summary
Wang Qian is the same as ordinary girls, he does not have any innate tenacity, he will also be aggrieved and tired, but he is the pillar of this family, if he can't stand it, then this family really does not exist, even if his family is not perfect, even if his family can not shield him from the wind and rain, he will become his umbrella.
Wang Qian's spirit is what contemporary young people need to learn, he has a kind of strength not to accept defeat, and this feature of not giving up lightly also makes him go more and more smoothly in the future life path, and gradually become his ideal appearance.