She is the "top pillar" of Wuxi TV Station, and she is known as the female host of "the most beautiful smile";
"60 Minutes Tonight", which she hosted, has a great influence in the local area;
She is the host Wei Xiao.
On December 17, 2008, Wei Xiao and Qi Ji, the boyfriend of "Qingmei Bamboo Horse", just got married with a license.
Who would have thought that on the way back to Wuxi from Wuhu, an accident suddenly came,
Qi Ji was seriously injured, and Wei Xiao died on the spot.
When the rescuers rushed to the scene, Qi Ji, who was already in a deep coma, still did not forget to hold his newlywed wife in his arms.
However, those who have already left will never come back after all.
You know, just two days before his death, Wei Xiao had just celebrated his 25th birthday.
Fifteen days of birth, sixteen days of marriage, seventeen days of "going west",
Wei Xiao spent just three days to complete her life.
But those who are alive are still trapped in endless nostalgia and pain.
Host Zhu Xun was at the scene of the memorial service
After Qi Ji woke up, he cried even more into tears,
He cried out over and over again,
If he had the choice, the one he wanted to leave more was himself.
Now 14 years later, that vigorous love seems to have long been drowned in the long river of years.
What kind of life is Qi Ji, who was almost on the verge of collapse after his wife's death, now living?
What did the newlyweds go through?
01 The "Glory" of Parents
In 1983, Wei Xiao was born in Wuhu, Anhui Province, to an ordinary working-class family.
Although the parents are not rich, as the "only daughter" of the family, the parents will still do their best to provide the best life for their daughters.
Wei Xiaoxiao is a beautiful billet,
Sometimes parents have conflicts,
She just needs to stand in the middle of the field, bend her eyebrows, squeeze her eyes, and innocently "smile slightly",
The anger of the parents disappeared without a trace in an instant.
The name "Wei Xiao" came from this.
Not only that, Wei Xiao will also infect everyone around him with a flawless smile.
Over time, she has gained the reputation of a "smiling angel".
Once, when passing by a musical instrument shop,
Wei Xiao, who was only five or six years old, suddenly looked at the guitar in the window and was stunned.
Once the girl has a heart, her legs can't be opened.
After Father Wei saw it, he instantly understood his daughter's intentions.
But glancing at the high label on the instrument, and then touching the "dry and emaciated" pants pocket, there will be some hesitation in my heart.
But even so, the father was still fierce, and spent a lot of money" to buy a small wooden guitar for his daughter.
This little wooden guitar is Wei Xiao's best "partner" when he was a child.
Even today, this guitar is still treated as a treasure by parents and carefully kept.
Occasionally, when he thought about his daughter, the second elder found the guitar, and then sat in front of the photo of his daughter and flicked the note of his thoughts.
Whenever this happens, the tears will always redden their eyes without a fight.
In the blink of an eye, school time has arrived,
Wei Xiao, who has been held in the palm of his parents since he was a child, did not "pamper and be proud",
In every exam, her grades were at the top of her class.
Because of the outstanding appearance conditions, excellent results, and the smile is very infectious,
After getting a little older, Wei Xiao was successfully recommended by his teacher as a "little announcer".
In order to do a good job in the tasks assigned by the teacher,
The dictionary replaced the guitar and became Wei Xiao's "best playmate".
Whenever after class, Wei Xiao would compare it with the dictionary and practice pronunciation hard.
Na Cheng thought, after practicing for a long time, Wei Xiao actually liked the broadcast host madly.
It is said that the famous host Wu Xiaoli is the idol in Wei Xiao's mind.
At that time, her greatest wish was to hope that in the near future,
You can also become an excellent program host like Wu Xiaoli.
Once you have a dream in your heart, you can often burst out of unlimited potential.
Wei Xiao worked harder and harder, and his grades became more and more excellent.
By the time she was in middle school, she was already a famous "announcer" at the school.
On the journey of chasing dreams, Wei Xiao did not dare to stop for a moment.
As a "child of someone else's family", Wei Xiao's parents would happily close their mouths almost every day.
Walking on the street, the neighbors will give a thumbs up to Wei Xiao's parents and ask them for advice on the experience of educating their daughters.
It can be said that from childhood to adulthood, Wei Xiao is the greatest glory in the hearts of parents.
With the blessing of the broadcast host's "public skill", Wei Xiao was successfully admitted to the city's key high school.
It was in this school that Wei Xiao and Qi Ji finally met.
02 The most beautiful time
Qi Ji is Wei Xiao's high school classmate.
At that age when the love sinus first opened, the students may not know the true meaning of love.
However, everyone has a nature to pursue beauty,
For example, Wei Xiao, who has a lively and cheerful personality and is versatile, always gathers a lot of "admirers" around him.
But among the many playmates, Wei Xiao only liked to talk with Qi Ji.
Although the school is heavy, the two innocent teenagers can always find endless topics to talk about.
In their eyes, love seems to be far away,
But even if it is just a casual look, a smile, both of them can be happy for a while.
After a long time, Qi Ji, who was flesh and blood, could no longer resist the feelings in his heart.
However, when he finally plucked up his courage, the girl in front of him just smiled and said:
I hope we can get into the same university, in fact, my heart is the same as yours.
A trace of the afterglow of the slanting sun sprinkled on Wei Xiao's face, brilliant as the morning glow, it was really beautiful.
She didn't seem to say anything, but Qi Ji completely understood.
Since then, studying hard and being admitted to university has become the biggest wish of the two.
As the saying goes, those who have aspirations, things can be done,
After the end of the college entrance examination, the two young people who were also motivated were admitted to the same university with excellent results.
The two finally fulfilled the unspoken promise with practical actions.
Entering the university's campus, Wei Xiao successfully became a high-quality student majoring in broadcast hosting, and Qi Ji was admitted to the journalist major.
The relationship between the two has also changed from a friend of the opposite sex who had nothing to talk about to a loving couple.
We have to admit that sometimes, love may not require confessions or empty vows.
Perhaps, in some season when the lotus flowers are in full bloom, when the knowledge is endlessly chirping in the treetops,
Love is quietly coming.
Once it comes, it will be a lifetime.
However, love is not the same as indulgence,
While dating and shopping with her boyfriend,
Wei Xiao never forgot the ideal in his heart.
In her opinion, entering the university is only the first step to success.
If she wants to go alongside her idol, she has to put in more effort.
At school, Wei Xiao did not want to let go of any opportunity to go out for an internship.
Even if it was a hard and tiring exterior scene, Wei Xiao had no complaints.
After graduating from college, Wei Xiao, who had excellent grades and a certain degree of hosting skills,
Successfully entered Wuhu TV station and became a trainee host,
At the same time, Qi Ji also passed the application and became a reporter for the TV station.
03 Break the cocoon into a butterfly
After entering the TV station, Wei Xiao, who had outstanding ability, soon became the "taiwan flower" of Wuhu TV Station.
The shows she hosts are also loved by local audiences.
Outside of work, Wei Xiao also had more free time.
She would ride a bicycle and wander aimlessly around the city with Qi Ji.
I also hold hands and walk and play in the park.
Life is plain, but it's good enough.
If this simple and peaceful life can continue, they may be able to live a completely different life.
However, wei Xiao's heart still had ambitions that had not been realized.
After working hard for so many years, how could she be willing to live an ordinary life only in this small place of Wuhu?
During his time as a host in Wuhu, Wei Xiao always wanted to go out and look at the wider sky outside.
The opportunity soon came.
In 2007, Wei Xiao first received the recruitment information of Wuxi TV Station.
That foolish heart was instantly awakened again.
After discussing with her boyfriend, the two came to Wuxi by car together.
This exam, both of them are bound to win.
But after coming to the TV station, the two finally understood how difficult the exam really was.
The number of people who came to register reached more than 2,000, and the admission rate was only one in a thousand.
It is no exaggeration to say that thousands of troops and horses have squeezed the canoe bridge.
However, the fanatical obsession with the broadcast hosting industry still made Wei Xiao choose to insist.
In the first round of interviews, both of them passed smoothly.
Wei Xiao's achievements are among the best among more than 2,000 people.
After this exam, both of them had a bottom in their hearts.
As long as you do yourself well, why worry about the large number of competitors?
However, when the results of the re-examination were announced, Qi Ji's face was still half bright and half sad.
It turned out that Wei Xiao successfully passed the interview and was successfully admitted to Wuxitai.
And I regret to fall off the list.
If Wei Xiao chose to take up his post, the two could only live a life of separation between the two places.
Wuxi to Wuhu is actually not far, but for the two young people who are in love,
In just three hours, it seems that it has become an insurmountable graben.
Thinking of this, Wei Xiao's eyes were red, and he couldn't be happier.
After seeing the hesitation in his girlfriend's heart, Qi Ji said in a half-joking tone:
Be brave enough to chase your dreams, even if there is a galaxy in the middle, I can ride a cow to find you.
Wei Laughed and laughed,
After bidding farewell to his old colleagues at Wuhu TV, Wei Xiao officially became a host of Wuxi TV.
Qi Ji returned to Wuhu, and it wasn't long before he resigned from the reporter's "iron rice bowl".
He also found a job as a "project manager" in a private company.
On the way to chasing dreams, neither of them dared to have a slack.
When I first entered the TV station, in order to get the approval of my colleagues as soon as possible,
Wei Xiao called out to himself again.
She started from the most basic position,
Even if she is the most bitter and tired, and the work hours are very irregular, she has no complaints.
Although he is a newcomer, Wei Xiao's courage to fight is still loved by many local audiences.
In just a few months, she was promoted to the host of the ace column "News 60 Points" by the station.
Become the partner of the famous host Miao Kaiyuan.
At this time, Wei Xiao seemed to be closer to his dream.
But for some reason, her eyes were always full of melancholy.
She couldn't remember when she had last seen Qi Ji.
How many lonely and sleepless cold nights, two people who love each other deeply, but can only rely on the phone to talk about each other.
Just because of the busyness of work, even the small things of meeting seem to have become a luxury.
Many people are like this, in order to pursue the dream of the future, it is easy to ignore the humble happiness in front of them.
How long will such heartbreaking and lingering lovesickness last?
04 The Last "Blank"
In December 2008, just before Wei Xiao's 25th birthday, at a seemingly ordinary gathering of friends,
Qi Ji suddenly appeared.
He held a diamond ring in his hand, then got down on one knee and gave his girlfriend a birthday present that he would never forget.
"Will you marry me?"
Wei Xiao's heart was filled with great surprises,
She didn't have time to smile, too late to answer, and the tears flowed down without a fight,
Time has been standing still for a long time.
Wei Xiaocai tried to calm his mood and nodded firmly.
On that day, she was the happiest woman in the world.
The time soon came december 14th,
Wei Xiao deliberately took three days off, and they were ready to get a marriage license after their birthday on the 15th.
Good friend Wu Bilan also specially accompanied her to board the train back to her hometown.
However, they did not know that this hurried parting would be the last time the two would see each other.
On his birthday, Wei Xiao, who is about to become a bride, still does not forget to record the most beautiful blank in his heart in the notepad.
On December 16, witnessed by their relatives, Wei Xiao and Qi Ji officially received a license to marry.
The little home that the two worked together was on the 15th floor of the 33-story building.
The next day, two people full of joy boarded the bus back to Wuxi.
They were full of hope for a better future, and happy smiles overflowed the newlyweds' cheeks.
However, what is unimaginable is that the accident has come unconsciously!
On December 17, 2008, the bus full of passengers suddenly overturned unexpectedly.
Wei Xiao,who was sitting near the window, was severely injured all over his body, and before the ambulance arrived, he stopped breathing on the spot.
Qi Ji's injury was also not optimistic.
However, in the last moment before falling into a coma, he still relied on instinct and held his wife tightly in his arms.
When the rescuers arrived at the scene, Qi Ji's arms were still so tight,
At this moment, the hearts of the two people seem to have been completely integrated, and they cannot be separated for a lifetime.
After hearing the bad news for the first time, the colleagues of the TV station were also stunned.
They couldn't believe that that innocent, smiling girl would actually have such a disaster in her life.
Colleagues have already prepared the "blessing of the newlywed" for Wei Xiao,
But unfortunately, the gift on the table, Wei Xiao could no longer see.
At 12 noon, looking at the empty office, nothing seemed to have changed,
But the mood of his partner Miao Kaiyuan is unspeakably sad and sad.
"Tonight 60 Minutes" was broadcast on time, and he broadcast Wei Xiao's accident to everyone at the first time.
In the tone of grief, every word was his nostalgia and mourning for Wei Xiao.
05 Deep nostalgia
After intense treatment, Qi Ji finally woke up,
The first thing he said when he opened his eyes was to ask about his wife.
As for his own injuries, he did not pay attention to them at all.
In the face of his inquiry, no one in the ward spoke,
But the heads of relatives and friends lowered their heads, or let Qi Ji find the answer to the question.
He felt his heart pounding and twitching!
The wound that has been bandaged has re-opened, but there is no pain,
When tears silently crossed the corners of the eyes, the eye sockets instantly turned red,
But for some reason, Qi Ji did not cry,
There is no greater pain in the world than this!
Equally sad were Wei Xiao's parents.
Father Wei, whose body has always been very tough, seems to have aged ten years overnight.
The news that the daughter had left, they did not want to believe it anyway.
No language in the world can describe their mood at the moment.
All we know is that even today, fourteen years later,
Wei Xiao's parents still regularly update their daughter's social networking sites.
And take a picture of her daughter and travel all over the country.
When Wei Xiao was alive, he always hoped that one day in the future,
I can put down my work, walk around, turn around, and look at the world.
When she was alive, she always had no time,
But when she fell asleep forever, her parents finally helped her fulfill her long-cherished wish for many years.
Not only that, the decorations in the home still maintained the appearance of Wei Xiao before he was born.
Maybe for them, the daughter never went away,
She is still as innocent as she was a child, the same love to laugh.
Qi Ji, who had only been married to Wei Xiao for one day, also lived in great self-blame and grief and could not extricate himself.
In his opinion, the thick thoughts were far more terrible than the loss of life.
Although Wei Xiao has been dead for 14 years,
However, Qi Ji, who is deeply in love with his wife, has always been reluctant to continue the string.
He also lived in the marriage room arranged by the two of them together, living a simple and simple life.
Not only that, Qi Ji would also regularly pay living expenses for Wei Xiao's parents, or go to his father-in-law's house to do what he could.
Because I can't bear to see this young and kind young man depressed day by day,
His father-in-law and mother-in-law even advised him, hoping that he would let go of the past and start a new life.
In the face of his father-in-law's kindness, Qi Ji always smiled slightly, and then shook his head indifferently.
Suddenly looking back, the wife's smile seemed to come to mind again.
Perhaps in his opinion, it was enough to be able to be married to Wei Xiao in this life.
Every year when Wei Xiao celebrates his birthday,
Wei Kaicheng would always look at the small wooden guitar left by his daughter when she was young and the "geranium" planted by herself.
Whenever this happens, Qi Ji will always come to his father-in-law and sincerely say:
You will always be my parents no matter what time you are.
After reading their stories, many netizens also advised him,
Life is still very long, and although the memories are unforgettable, people cannot live in the past forever.
But Qi Ji remained indifferent.
Why is he so persistent?
Perhaps, everything is as Wei Xiao wrote in his notes:
When happiness goes far, if you persistently watch, one day, it will come back to you.