To be able to lay down people is to have aspirations, the Yue King's practice of lying down and tasting courage, the restoration of the great cause, the humiliation of Han Xin's crotch, ten years of sharpening the sword, and finally meeting the Lord, as long as he is determined to be sincere, he can restrain his selfish desires.
A person with a broad vision and ambition can always bend and stretch, not only can go forward bravely, but also knows how to cultivate obscurity, can bend and stretch, and can lower people.
Whether it is Liu Bang, Li Yuan, or Zhao Kuangyin and Zhu Yuanzhang, there are fragments of their being in the "micro-time", and how do these founding emperors who later became the Ninth Five-Year Emperor behave in the "micro-time"? It is to be patient for a while, to bend over and act.
If Liu Bang was unyielding, then he would be defeated by Xiang Yu; If Li Yuan did not yield, he would be killed by the Sui Emperor; If Zhao Kuangyin is unyielding, the yellow robe will not fall on his body; If Zhu Yuanzhang is unyielding, the world is not necessarily his. It is precisely because they have the "bending" of patience before that they can "stretch" in the future.
Therefore, whenever one of our postures is not tolerated by the environment, we should bend when we should bend, and when we should give up some things, we should give up some things, and only temporary bending and giving up can be exchanged for long-term extension and gain.
Encourage more appreciation of the child, the child's heart is rich, will be confident, the child's own mentality is peaceful, in order to see the advantages of others, humbly improve themselves.
Can tolerate people, is a big instrument, the sea is a hundred rivers, there is tolerance is big. The wall stands on a thousand feet, and the desirelessness is rigid, and how broad a person's heart is, how big the stage is.
The ancients had a couplet: "Water can only form a sea below, and the mountains are not condescending to the sky." "The mountain moves because of the shape, the shape of the situation, and everything is tall and steep because of it."
The mountain shows its majesty from the thousand peaks, the ten thousand valleys, the waterfall of the sea of clouds, and the winding and undulating; Mountains, from the clouds steaming xiawei, smoke or clear purity, exude a vast and ethereal beauty.
Therefore, we must do things like mountains, have the mind of the mountain, the wind and bone of the mountain, the character of the mountain, the connotation of the mountain and the principle of the mountain, do things like a mountain, be down-to-earth, be as stable as a mountain, and give people a sense of reliability like a mountain!
As the old saying goes: "The small amount is not a gentleman, there is no degree of husband, measurement, not only as one of the standards of a gentleman, but also an important cornerstone for people to live in the world, there are big measures, only then can there be a big pattern, there is a big pattern, in order to achieve great things."
As Li Si once said: "Taishan does not let the soil, so it can become bigger; The river and the sea do not choose the thin flow, so it can be deep. ”
People who really have a high degree of height have an extremely humble attitude and a broad mind, in life, the strong are calm and calm, know how to tolerate all things in the world, the weak are irritable as tigers, only know how to blindly vent anger and dissatisfaction, really smart people, know how to use their brains and do not move their anger, incompetent people, will only be angry and do not use their brains.
In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, it is said: "Do not be angry, anger will reduce your wisdom; Don't hate, hate will make you lose judgment! "How to deal with anger is the watershed between the weak and the strong. The weak love to send out nameless fire, and the real strong often know how to restrain themselves.
As the saying goes, "If you can tolerate a villain, you can become a gentleman." "The size of a person's heart determines the height and width of life, the larger the heart, the broader the road of life, the broader the person, will spend time on improving self and strength, will not be emotionally calculated, and will not be a slave to emotions."
Knowing that emotions are out of control, it will only make people lose their minds, lose themselves, and control emotions in order to keep people calm and achieve themselves.
Confucius once said: "Gentlemen are not compared to each other, and villains are not compared to weeks", and truly excellent people can not only face up to their own talents and accept their imperfections. Facing people who are better than themselves, inclusive, united, learning, facing people who are inferior to themselves, they respect, help, do not belittle, do not discriminate.
If you want your child to understand the way of tolerance, not only do you need verbal teaching, parents should lead by example, do not use excessive harshness to suppress children, children are richer and calmer in their hearts, and their hearts naturally become broad.
Whoever is a man in the heart; A good heart is a good man, and a bad heart is a fierce one. For example, the fruit of the tree is the ti; Ti ruo will fall if it is bad.
The old saying goes: "Moral heirlooms, more than ten generations, cultivation and reading heirlooms are secondary, poetry and books are second, rich and noble heirlooms, but three generations." Just like the fruit on the tree, the conscience is ti, the ti is broken, the fruit is lost, let the children and grandchildren be good people, is the root of the prosperity and continuation of the family, parents, is the child's first teacher. And the best family style is the parenting of parents.
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