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Betrayed by his first love, he was ruthlessly exploited by the Jiang Hongjie family, who thought they were true love, and became a tool to make money.
"Genius girl" Ai Fukuhara was known as the hope for the future of Japan's table tennis industry.
However, her emotional road has been hanging all the way through her career, but she has frequently encountered walls.
In order to escape the clutches of her husband, she even decided to divorce and return to Japan at the expense of abandoning her two children.
However, he was accused and insulted by the Japanese people: misconduct, frivolity, and selfishness.
Now, after a year of divorce, looking at the situation of Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie, the gap is clear at a glance.
What did "genius girl" Ai Fukuhara go through that year?
01 The birth of a genius girl
Ai Fukuhara was born on November 1, 1988 in Sendai, Miyagi Prefecture, Japan, to a professional table tennis player.
When Ai Fukuhara was young, her mother took her to the gym to play table tennis and found that she was very talented in playing, so she had the idea of training her to become a professional player.
Other children can do what they love after school, but Ai Fukuhara can only practice table tennis, and the young Ai Sauce does not know how many times she has cried because of this.
In order to go out and play, I don't know how many times I spoiled my mother, but I was ruthlessly rejected by my mother every time.
Her mother told her that if she wanted to develop on the path of table tennis, then these trainings were just beginning.
Although the mother is very strict, she is also very sad for her daughter behind her back.
In March 1999, at the age of 11, Ai Fukuhara became a professional player.
From 1994 to 1996, she won the children's championship of the Japan National Table Tennis Championships for three consecutive years, and many people said that Ai Fukuhara was a "talented girl" in table tennis and the hope for the future of Japanese table tennis.
Because the development of professional table tennis in Japan at that time had been declining, the 12-year-old Ai Sauce came to Liaoning, China to exchange and study.
In 2000, he successfully entered the Japanese national team and became the youngest member of the Japanese national team in history. In the future competition, it has achieved good results.
In June 2005, Ai Fukuhara had reached 24th in the International Table Tennis Federation, the highest ranking of all Japanese players at the time.
In 2006, he played in Guangdong for another year and rose to 14th in the world rankings. It was also the highest ranking of all the Japanese players at that time. In September, she was admitted to the Department of Physical Education at Waseda University in Japan.
At the 2012 London Olympics, the Japanese team finished second in the women's table tennis team. This is the first medal won by Japan since table tennis became an official competition.
In 2018, Ai Fukuhara officially announced his retirement. Ended his career as a professional table tennis player.
However, Fukuhara Ai, who developed so smoothly in his career, did not develop very smoothly in love.
02 First acquaintance with love
After the Beijing Olympics, Japan's tennis prince Kei Nishikori appeared in the world of Ai Fukuhara.
Both are athletes and have a lot in common. The two exchanged great pleasures and quickly fell in love.
During the relationship, when Kei Nishikori was at the low point of his life, the older Ai Fukuhara often sent him some emails of encouragement.
Both have a lot of popularity in Japan, and their relationship quickly made headlines in the major Media in Japan. The love between the two became well known.
But love has a big impact on athletes, especially for competitive athletes.
Her father also told her that history has proved that there are countless athletes who have declined in their state due to love and their performance is not satisfactory.
Since Ai Fukuhara was the hope for the future of Japanese table tennis at that time, the Japanese masses feared that her love affair would affect the development of her career.
So in desperation, she stood up to apologize to everyone and promised that she would not delay her career and would definitely play the ball well.
After this incident passed, the love between Ai Fukuhara and Kei Nishikori soon ended.
The reason given by both parties to break up is because the two have more games and do not have time to continue to get along, so they cannot continue to maintain a romantic relationship, so the two choose to break up peacefully.
However, some Japanese media broke up not because they had no time for their busy careers, but because the man cheated. During their love affair, Kei Nishikori stole many times.
That's the end of her first relationship. I put all my energy into training.
However, what she herself did not expect was that she would meet her future husband Jiang Hongjie during dinner.
03 Into marriage
In 2014, Ai Fukuhara met her future husband, Jiang Hongjie. And the acquaintance of the two is also very interesting.
On that day, Ai Fukuhara delayed her meal time because she had to deal with some things, and she was very hungry and annoyed at the same time. After dealing with things, he hurried to dinner, and the jersey on his body did not have to change.
In this way, the two met in the restaurant, and Jiang Hongjie greeted her, saw that she was wearing a jersey, and asked her if she was going to the game.
And she actually said very annoyedly: What kind of game to play, I am hungry and I want to eat.
This contrast made Jiang Hongjie reacquaint himself with this girl, began to feel good about her, and began to pursue Fukuhara's love.
Jiang Hongjie once ran all the milk tea shops because Fukuhara ai said that he liked to drink milk tea, just to buy a cup of milk tea she liked.
Ai Fukuhara, who had been focusing on training, was suddenly attacked by such a fierce sweet attack that it did not take long to give up resistance and choose to "surrender".
After the two confirmed their relationship, they had a very sweet time during the relationship.
The relationship also developed quite rapidly, two years later Jiang Hongjie proposed to Fukuhara Ai and gave her the key to his Taiwanese house, Fukuhara Ai also did not have the worries and fears of marrying far away before, so he agreed to his marriage proposal.
Before the Rio 2016 Olympics, the two decided to get married after the Olympic games. However, the masses in Japan and Taiwan remain skeptical of this decision.
In terms of the popularity of the two, Ai Fukuhara is much more famous than Jiang Hong, and it can even be said that he was dumped a few streets.
The income gap between the two is really unacceptable, and some media have revealed that Fukuhara Ai's income before marriage is 25 times that of Jiang Hongjie.
The Japanese media even broke the news that the Japanese Table Tennis Association did not agree with Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie to marry. They believe that this is a "bad marriage", and the gap between the various conditions between the two sides is too large.
And after all, the two are not from the same country, and cultural differences and living habits are definitely hidden dangers for future breakups.
However, the two loved vigorously and ignored the voices of the outside media, and Fukuhara Ai still resolutely chose to marry Jiang Hongjie.
The two were married in September 2016. The following year, on New Year's Day, the wedding was held in Taipei.
They were a model couple in the sports world at that time. After the two people got married, their love has also been maintained in the state of premarital love.
The two participated in the variety show "Happiness Trio", in which the two frequently sprinkled sugar, which was very sweet.
In the show, it is said that the two once knew each other at the age of ten, and at that time, the two had been looking at each other since they participated in the competition, but they only confirmed the relationship three years ago.
In the future, the two interacted frequently on social platforms and showed their love in a high profile. This transnational love does not seem to be as everyone guessed before.
Later, Fukuhara Ai also gave birth to a son and a daughter for Jiang Hongjie, and finally had the crystallization of love.
Just after everyone thought that the two of them would have a sweeter and happier life in the future, a turning point suddenly appeared.
Happiness and sweetness finally came to an end, and the contradictions between the two were exposed.
04 Marriage ends
After marriage, Ai Fukuhara brought her mother to live in Taiwan, and the gap in the family's living habits was obviously contrasted.
Jiang Hongjie's family is accustomed to eating Chinese food, while Ai Fukuhara and his mother prefer to eat Japanese food. This results in two different portions of food often to be prepared for a meal.
The biggest difficulty of transnational love is that the two sides slowly run into each other, and each other adapts to each other's living habits.
Yet Mr. Jiang doesn't seem to have the patience to bridge the life gap created by the differences between the two cultures.
He began to become impatient, macho, and unwilling to accommodate his wife in small things.
During Fukuhara's pregnancy, the two quarreled during pregnancy because they wanted to drink grape juice and orange juice.
However, their emotional discord has also begun to be discovered by netizens.
The interaction between the two is much less, and there is no photo of the two during the New Year's Festival, and even the two sides do not interact on Valentine's Day.
On Jiang Hongjie's birthday, Fukuhara loved to post blessings, but the photos posted were the previous single photos, not the photos of the husband and wife.
Jiang Hongjie himself did not respond to his wife's blessings on social platforms, but posted on FB to thank everyone for their blessings.
On other social platforms, many other people's blessings were also forwarded, as well as photos of themselves cutting cakes.
Netizens also found that in all recent photos, the two did not wear wedding rings on their hands.
On March 3, 2021, some Japanese media reported that Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie had divorced, the woman had filed for divorce in January, and friends said that when she was pregnant, she was angry with the man's family and listened to many ugly words.
However, in Japan, some media have photographed Ai Fukuhara going to Yokohama with her five-year-old apprentice, and the two are holding hands and shopping intimately, looking like a couple.
Ai Fukuhara then said that he was a very close friend.
His mood and mental state have been greatly affected by the divorce scandal, and he is one of the friends who supports him.
And it is clear that the husband and wife will discuss this matter well before making a decision.
Jiang Hongjie had already filed a divorce lawsuit with the court in April, and he did not expect that the two would fight for custody of their children.
After the two exchanged views on the divorce, they finally decided to agree to divorce.
Ai Fukuhara thanked her husband for agreeing to divorce, hoped that he could choose the best solution for the children, and hoped that everyone could protect the children.
After three months of communication, the two issued a statement on July 8 saying that the two had officially ended their marriage.
And Ai Fukuhara posted through the brokerage company that after the divorce, the two will raise two children together.
I also thank you for your recent concern, and hope that you will not pay too much attention to the two children and give the children some personal space.
However, after the divorce, Fukuhara Ai returned to Japan, the two children have been raised by her ex-husband, and she has never gone to Taiwan to see the children and ignores the children.
At this point, the married life of the two has come to an end.
However, after the two divorced, real public opinion began to pounce on them.
05 The difference between heaven and earth
In this marriage, both partners have done something wrong. But after the divorce, some strange phenomena emerged.
On the mainland, most people are on the side of Ai Fukuhara. Everyone believes that it is because Jiang Hongjie's attitude towards his wife has changed after marriage that he has gradually led to such results.
After the marriage, Jiang Hongjie's family took advantage of Fukuhara Ai's popularity and brought them a lot of benefits.
Jiang Hongjie himself rarely participated in competitions after marriage, and has been using his wife's popularity to receive advertisements and participate in activities.
There have been Japanese media reports that Jiang Hongjie's sister often exposes the private life of the two to the media.
Ai Fukuhara was embarrassed. More reports pointed out that Jiang Hongjie's sister made her debut by virtue of the popularity of Fukuhara Ai.
Some netizens said that Jiang Hongjie has been playing for so many years, and the title he finally got is "Fukuhara Loves Husband".
In a recent interview, Jiang Hongjie expressed his blessings to Fukuhara Ai and explained that he would not start a new relationship within ten years and wanted to give his children a relatively good childhood.
Looking back at the Japanese masses, everyone is saying that Fukuhara loves not.
The Japanese media "Weekly Women Prime" recently surveyed 1,000 housewives and concluded that "regardless of artist" ranking, Fukuhara Ai became the "champion" with more than 100 votes ahead of the second place.
Everyone's remarks are also very fierce, "I can't imagine that a genius girl is such a frivolous woman", "what is it to leave her child in Taiwan and have an affair of herself", "purely a selfish woman".
Some people even strongly recommend deleting the inspirational story of Ai Fukuhara in Japanese textbooks, for fear of affecting the three views of children.
In China and Japan, there are two extreme comments about the same relationship.
The comments of the two are very different, and the lives of the two are also a clear gap.
After Ai Fukuhara returned to Japan, she began a relationship with her little boyfriend. The media broke the news that the two have begun to live together.
The girlfriend said that Ai Fukuhara already had plans to marry her current boyfriend. And bought a luxury house at a high price, and has now moved in.
However, the media revealed that the man did not have the corresponding economic strength, and the daily expenses of the two people's lives had to be borne by Ai Fukuhara.
The little boyfriend chose to quit his job and take care of Ai Fukuhara's life at home.
Ai Fukuhara was also affected by this new relationship, and she lost a lot of commercial endorsements, participated in many fewer business activities, and her income was greatly reduced compared with before.
Most people in Japan already think that the fukuhara ai that used to be is no longer there.
In terms of table tennis, he also improved, and was nominated by Liu Guoliang in January this year as the general manager of the World Table Tennis Federation Japan, and his career was back on track.
Jiang Hongjie's life after the divorce was not so good.
He moved out of his mansion in Kaohsiung and returned to his hometown of Hsinchu with his children.
At the beginning of the divorce, I called a friend for help, and I didn't know how to go down, saying that I really couldn't hold on.
After the divorce, in order to make money, there is no bottom line of their own, and when they were just divorced, they participated in many variety shows in order to make milk powder money
Even began to hype cp scandals. On Tanabata, he took a photo with another female athlete and asked for blessings with a text.
Again and again, he uses his identity as Fukuhara's ex-husband to gain heat.
He himself rarely appears at commercial events or participates in sporting events.
It is completely opposite to Fukuhara Ai's current state, and even about to become a state of seclusion.
Jiang Hongjie's best result in the world ranking is 79, but now it is impossible to find Jiang Hongjie's name in the world rankings, and his table tennis career has stopped.
His fame is not as good as before, and his future life has been full of uncertainty.
06 Be well with each other
The pair, who were once the golden children of the sports world, did not break the prediction of the public before marriage in the end.
I don't care about small things, the gap in attitude before and after marriage, and there are many trivialities of life.
Little by little, these disappointments accumulated, and finally accumulated to the point of divorce.
They were once a happy couple, but the end of the two was to go their separate ways.
Everyone has the right to choose feelings in pursuit of love.
Whether it is Jiang Hongjie who chooses not to start a new relationship within ten years, or Fukuhara Ai immediately begins a new relationship.
I hope that the two can find their own destination in life and spend the rest of their lives in peace.