No one dared to mess with Qu Jiarui.
Why?
Cai Kangyong once replied: "Because she is crazy." ”
This answer was later concretized into 2 key words by Qu Jiarui:
One is spicy and daring.
"Kangxi Lai" once took the theme of cohabitation before marriage and invited 4 men and 4 women to talk about their experiences.
Who knows, the man will personally attack as soon as he comes.
Ma Guoxian complained that he would never live with a girl who wore false eyelashes.
Because after removing makeup, it will be sentenced to two people.
Tang Zhizhong added that makeup is a trick for girls to hook up with boys.
Bitter Ling concluded that you must not live together without seeing Su Yan.
To them, girls are like a cargo.
Appearance is the only criterion.
If you look good, you will earn, and vice versa, you will lose money.
It may be that no one dares to stand up and refute it.
But Qu Jiarui couldn't stand it.
Direct scolding: "Don't you see what you look like?" ”
As soon as this statement came out, the scene reaction was polarized.
The boy was embarrassed and lost his voice.
The girls cheered excitedly.
Qu Jiarui then said: "The little eyes that have removed the makeup must be beautiful." ”
The more she talked, the angrier she became.
He also sent out a soul torture question: "Why do you criticize her?" Save me! ”
Finally, she looked into the camera.
Tell all the girls: "Don't be swayed by these smelly men, if you want to live together, be bold, because if you love one person, you have to love all." ”
Take one against four.
World War I fame.
To this day, countless people have edited this video.
And sealed as "Kangxi" 12 years, the most worthy of collection of famous scenes.
Qu Jiarui also became the most popular female guest.
Because of her hit the nail on the head.
Regardless of the occasion, without mercy, so that you have no power to fight back.
And outside of Kangxi.
Qu Jiarui also showed another key word: perspective on people's hearts.
In 2012.
Qu Jiarui came to "Every Day Upward".
The program team deliberately made it difficult and asked her to recognize people with paintings.
Qu Jiarui gladly responded.
She gave 6 moderator propositions and drew out what she would do when she rested.
Soon, the painting was completed.
She dismantled them one by one.
She believes that Wang Han is pretentious.
Guess Ou Di's mind is active.
Asserting Qian Feng's life is full of lies and suspicion.
As soon as these words came out, the crowd reacted strangely.
Qian Feng frightened the legs soft.
He has been chasing Qu Jiarui and trying to defend himself.
The other hosts said in unison: "Teacher, I adore you too much, too accurate!" ”
Watching this episode now, everyone is shocked.
Because Qu Jia Ruiquan said:
When "Every Day Up" went downhill, Ou Di took the lead in leaving.
Qian Feng fell into the storm of sexual assault and his future was ruined.
Since then, Qu Jiarui has been a god.
It was as if no one in the world could escape her eyes.
But no one could have imagined —
When in love, her IQ will become negative.
Qu Jiarui's first love occurred during his master's degree in Columbia.
At that time, she had already made a name for herself.
Her boyfriend is her senior. Nobody.
But in this relationship, Qu Jiarui is extremely humble.
She supports her boyfriend.
Responsible for all expenses for both of them.
Near graduation, my boyfriend proposed to cooperate in publishing a book.
In a nutshell, the crystallization of love.
Qu Jiarui was deeply moved, painting, writing, and planning.
Who knows, in the end, the author column is only boyfriend.
Qu Jiarui was furious.
The boyfriend pretended to be pitiful, arguing that he was a single parent and did not want to live up to his mother's expectations.
Ordinary people feel ridiculous.
Qu Jiarui actually accepted!
I also feel very sorry for the other party and feel that I don't care enough.
The strange first love did not let Qu Jiarui get half a lesson.
She quickly talked about her next relationship.
The man has an object.
She waited in silence.
It took 3 years to wait until the day of ascension to the throne.
Who knows, this man is the super king of the sea.
There are many ambiguous objects.
After several years of love, Qu Jiarui was either being split legs or scratching legs on the road.
The neighbor kid said the man had another girlfriend.
She didn't want to believe it.
He also scolded the child.
Later, she found more and more evidence.
Love letters written by girls.
Pictures of girls.
At her boyfriend's house, there were also objects that did not belong to her.
For example, lace panties.
Well, eyelash brush.
However, even in the face of so much evidence, she still did not dare to ask and make trouble.
Even self-hypnosis —
If you don't catch the adulterer in bed, it's not the truth.
But soon, reality gave her a hard punch.
Boyfriend goes out early in the morning.
She couldn't resist stalking.
As a result, the boyfriend was in the café, interacting intimately with a girl.
Qu Jiarui broke down and shouted.
Rush into the café and make a big fuss.
The boyfriend immediately blocked in front of the girl, and the two immediately fled into the wilderness.
Speaking of this, everyone thought that Qu Jiarui would break up.
But she didn't.
She went back to Taiwan and pretended nothing had happened.
Keep in touch with your boyfriend.
No surprises.
The boy quickly cut off the relationship that existed in name only.
He also showed off his new relationship with Qu Jiarui.
The object is the third party who intervenes in them.
Qu Jiarui collapsed again.
Vow never to contact each other again.
In the end, she continued to stalk.
It was not until, when the other party announced that they were married.
In the days that followed, Qu Jiarui repeatedly fell into unrequited love.
Or, the other person is more than 20 years older than her.
Or, know three when three.
Even, knowing that the other party is greedy for his own money, he still continues to communicate.
He also pits his mother to support the man's business.
Looking at Qu Jiarui's behavior, it is difficult for me to associate her with the previous "human sobriety".
She really can't tell the difference between good and bad?
Really don't know, the purpose of the man approaching her?
No way.
She has mentioned many times that she knows the truth.
So why is she willing to be deceived?
In an interview, she replied, "It seems like he'll love me a little more." ”
At this point, I realized—"
The root cause is the lack of love.
And going deeper into her heart, I found that this lack had begun to accumulate since she was born.
Qu Jiarui's family is prominent.
His father was a wealthy businessman, and his mother was famous.
But everyone said that Qu Jiarui was the disaster star of this family.
The reason is that when she was born, her father had a problem with the business and almost went bankrupt.
When she is older, she is even more unfavored—
Sister Almighty.
Sister is pretty.
The younger brother is the son.
She was the only one who had no advantage.
In this family, the father has absolute power.
The mother obeys her orders.
Children are terrified.
Until now, Qu Jiarui's greatest fear is still the sound of his father dropping chopsticks.
Since childhood, Qu Jiarui has learned a way to survive:
Please the father.
When guests come from home, she will always jump out and perform.
Because this will be praised by the father.
She also anticipates her father's emotions.
As soon as you find out that something is wrong, stand up and play.
Although, she is extremely artistically gifted.
Learned piano at the age of 3.
In the 4th grade, he was suggested by his teacher to study in Vienna.
But her father saw her as a disgrace.
Because of her poor grades in culture classes, she was always ranked at the bottom of her grade.
After graduating from high school, she was sent to New York to study.
His father felt that her grades were too bad and had lost all his face.
The years of study in New York were the highlight of Qu Jiarui's life.
She became obsessed with painting.
Soon, he won the New York State Sketch Championship.
He was named "America's Most Outstanding High School Student in Painting" and won a full scholarship from Cooper College of the Higher Union for Science and Art.
During those years, she became a prominent figure on campus.
Countless people were fascinated by her.
Because of her works, but also because of her whimsical personality.
But in her father's heart, she was still a piece of garbage.
Art is useless.
Painting is a dead end.
Father believes that the best destination for a woman is to marry.
And Qu Jiarui's life has always gone in the opposite direction he envisioned.
At first, he thought his daughter was still young.
You can also play by nature for a few years.
Later, he watched his daughter go farther and farther away.
He no longer sat still.
Decided to intervene, and his daughter was out of his orbit for life.
It was 1977, and Qu Jiarui was 32 years old.
He is already a completely self-conscious adult.
At that time, she was living a leisurely life in the United States.
The income is not high, though.
But the heart is very rich.
In the end, a knock at the door destroyed everything —
Parents flew in from Taiwan.
Within 3 days, she was forcibly brought back to her hometown.
She cried.
He said he was reluctant to be separated from his boyfriend and had not said goodbye to his friends.
But the father was tough.
He said he had spent all his patience.
It was also determined that there were huge problems in Qu Jiarui's life.
In the end, a terrible line was also put out: "We will be sorry if you do this, the patriarchs of the Qu family." ”
In fact, her father only wanted her to marry as soon as possible.
And you can't marry a foreigner.
Because the surname will change in this way, Qu Jiarui will no longer be a Qu family member.
Qu Jiarui knew that her father was wrong, but she dared to be angry and did not dare to speak.
On the one hand, she was extremely afraid of her father.
On the other hand, she couldn't help but please her father.
And this twisted mentality also led to her indulging in a deformed relationship.
She was always in love.
Also forever hurt.
Because being ignored and denied is the scene she is most familiar with.
After being escorted back to Taiwan by her father, her personality became more distorted.
Tell all the lies.
Only make poor boyfriends.
The more her father forbade, the more rebellious she became.
She thought —"
To fight against your father is to flee.
But in reality, she always lived in her father's shadow.
Extreme hate.
On the back is the love that cannot be obtained.
And her heart knot with her father needs a grand reconciliation.
This reconciliation will soon come.
I just couldn't imagine that the end was the death of my father.
That year, Qu Jiarui was 35 years old.
The day before, I was thinking about how to fight against my father, and the next day I received the news that my father was seriously ill.
She suddenly found out —
She had longed for her father's love.
So she took the initiative to find her father, and the father and daughter had their first embrace.
Qu Jiarui choked: "Dad, I really love you." ”
Later, Qu Jiarui packed up his father's things.
A bag was inadvertently found.
When I opened it, it turned out to be the red envelope she gave to her father every year.
Her mother told her that her father was never willing to use it, and always had to turn it out and see the auspicious words she wrote on the red packet.
At that moment, Qu Jiarui burst into tears.
The missing corner of her heart seemed to show signs of healing.
Later, her father allowed her to associate with foreigners.
Qu Jiarui was ecstatic.
Immediately looked for a long-cherished ex.
Unfortunately, it was too late.
Pictured: People
But the other party's words woke her up: "Why can your father decide when we start and when we end?" ”
She suddenly realized—"
Was it her father who had tied her up?
Or is she inseparable from her father's control?
She decided to live it all over again.
In the name of "Qu Jiarui", I only do what I want to do.
This awakening begins with self-perspective.
She painted countless self-portraits. Different occasions, expressions, emotions, gestures.
She stopped looking at others.
Instead, it is to fix your gaze on yourself.
She wants to learn to know, appreciate, praise, and trust everything about herself.
Later, she began collecting second-hand dolls from all over the world.
The first is in second-hand markets.
The dolls are mutilated and dirty.
Qu Jiarui said: "I heard it crying while calling to me and asking me to take it home. ”
One.
Two.
Until now, she has owned thousands of second-hand dolls.
All were abandoned.
Broken.
She said she wanted to give them a home and accompany them through the last moments of their lives.
And yet -
Aren't these dolls Qu Jiarui?
Her parents thought she was terrible.
I couldn't make friends since I was a kid.
The outside world thinks she is a freak.
But so what?
Qu Jiarui finally no longer needs to live with a mask on.
She can --
In the variety show, there is a lot of fun.
Wear the sexiest dress.
Do the most exaggerated styling.
Sing the funniest RAP.
She could even grab her mother live.
Make a grimace while making a face.
While teasing the mother.
In 2020.
Qu Jiarui was interviewed by "People".
She once mentioned that when she was 30 years old, she almost entered the marriage.
The object is fully compliant with the father's requirements -
Tall and handsome.
Door to door.
But in the end, the two broke up.
The reason is that the man compares her to a ceramic statue on a display shelf.
Qu Jiarui said: "I am so sad, in his eyes I am not even a person, just an ornament." ”
Like an abandoned doll on the wall, love and hate by people, involuntarily. What is the difference between such a relationship and the relationship that was controlled by the father?
She doesn't.
It is fortunate to have love. No love is also a blessing.
After decades of time, she finally figured out one thing:
Exhaust a lifetime.
She just wants to be alone.
An independent, distinct, authentic person.