Xu Wei is a wealthy businessman, a financier, and the husband of Zhang Yining, a world champion in table tennis.
Xu Wei and Zhang Yining were very happy together, but before he met Zhang Yining, there was a very high-profile relationship.
At that time, Xu Wei fell in love with Yuan Li at first sight and spent a lot of thought in order to pursue Yuan Li.
After being together, Xu Wei pampered Yuan Li even more, and even gave up his principles so that she could.
Xu Wei always put Yuan Li first. Unfortunately, this relationship ended forever in the 12th year.
After separation, Yuan Li turned around and married someone else, while Xu Wei turned around and married Zhang Yining, reaping a happy marriage.
Now that 17 years have passed, looking at Xu Wei's two relationships, I understand why I separated from Yuan Li and married Zhang Yining?
Xu Wei had been developing abroad before he knew Yuan Li, and later chose to return to China to do business for various reasons.
After returning to China, Xu Wei started a business with his own mind, although he failed, he did not lack the courage to start again, and eventually owned a number of listed companies in Beijing and Hong Kong, and his family was very rich.
Over the years, Xu Wei delayed his personal problems in order to study and do business, but not long after returning to China, he met people who were impressed.
In 1993, Xu Wei was already a figure with a head and a face, and many people around him rushed to introduce him to the object, but none of them looked at him.
Until he went to a party and met the young and beautiful Yuan Li.
At that time, Yuan Li was 21 years old and was still studying at the Beijing Film Academy. But in order to enter the show business circle and pave the way for future filming, I know the characters with heads and faces in advance.
In this way, Yuan Li and Xu Wei met.
When Yuan Li walked in, Xu Wei, who greeted her inside, quickly noticed her, and was instantly attracted by her beauty, and was reluctant to take his eyes off her.
After Xu Wei simply said hello to others, he went to talk to Yuan Li. And her first time to participate in such a party is very restrained, Xu Wei saw her uneasiness and took the initiative to introduce herself to open the topic.
The two of them chatted like this. In this process, Xu Wei was very polite, which made Yuan Li feel very at ease and got along with him very easily.
After the party, they left contact details with each other. Xu Wei often sent messages to Yuan Li, and knowing that she was studying at film school, he went to the school to launch a fierce pursuit.
Xu Wei often went to Yuan Li and would also pay a high price for gifts. Yuan Li, who is in his early twenties, is full of beautiful fantasies about love and agrees to be with him regardless of his age.
After successfully catching up, Xu Wei was better to Yuan Li, as long as Yuan Li said anything, he would definitely do it.
After graduation, Yuan Li lived with Xu Wei, eating and drinking Lazar without worrying at all. But she didn't like this kind of life, and she wanted to break through the show business while she was young.
And Xu Wei supports all the decisions made by Yuan Li, if you want to shoot a scene, you can shoot, if you don't want to shoot, go home and I will raise you. Although it was touching, Yuan Li did not think so.
As a newcomer who has just entered the entertainment industry, he generally starts from a small role, but Yuan Li is different, directly plays the main role, and the works are one after another.
This is because of Xu Wei's light, we all know that she is Xu Wei's girlfriend, and the director has to give her some face. And Xu Wei used his personal connections in order for his girlfriend to have a drama.
At that time, the filming conditions were very difficult, and Xu Wei gave Yuan Li the best treatment and could not let his girlfriend suffer in the crew. Many people in the crew were jealous of Yuan Li, but they did not dare to do anything to her.
If Xu Wei knew, the consequences would definitely be very serious. At that time, Yuan Li was equivalent to Xu Wei's life.
It is precisely because there is Xu Wei behind it that Yuan Li has developed smoothly in the entertainment industry. Even if you say the wrong thing, you don't have to bear any consequences.
Therefore, Yuan Li often spoke wildly, because Xu Wei "wiped her ass" for her.
Yuan Li did whatever he wanted in the entertainment industry, filming when he wanted to, and did not want to enjoy life with Xu Wei.
It's just that when Yuan Li's career in the show business has reached a higher level, her thinking has changed, and she wants more in her career and wants to achieve better achievements.
Although Xu Wei supports her, it subtly affects the feelings between them.
In 1998, Yuan Li won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actress for the role of Ouyang Lanlan in "Never Look Away".
Since then, Yuan Li's career has flourished and he has become busier and busier, spending half of his time in the crew all year round. If Xu Wei wants to see his girlfriend, he can only visit the class.
Fortunately, Xu Wei has his own job and often goes abroad to talk about work.
Once, when Xu Wei was working abroad, he found that his girlfriend Yuan Li had a scandal with other male stars. He was very angry and left his job to go back to china to question her.
Yuan Li patiently explained to Xu Wei that it was because of filming, and in real life, the two people had no relationship at all. Xu Wei chose to believe in his girlfriend, but he had a knot in his heart.
Later, Xu Wei proposed to Yuan Li and wanted to have his own home with her, but Yuan Li did not want to enter the marriage hall and refused on the grounds of career.
When Yuan Li's career was successful, Xu Wei once again knelt down on one knee to propose to Yuan Li, and what he got was still a negative answer, and she still did not want to get married so early.
You must know that Xu Wei is 11 years older than Yuan Li, Yuan Li is 33 years old, he is already 44 years old, and he is willing to wait for the day when Yuan Li agrees.
Unfortunately, Yuan Li did not think of entering the marriage hall with him at all. Maybe I loved it before, but maybe I didn't love it later.
In 2005, Yuan Li, who was busy with work, had very little time to meet with Xu Wei. Without a boyfriend around, Yuan Li and other male actors spread gossip, basically playing a drama to spread a gossip, and each time it was very big.
Xu Wei was very angry when he saw the news, and he never quarreled with Yuan Li, and directly quarreled, resulting in the contradiction between the two people getting deeper and deeper.
He reconsidered that he could not continue to be with Yuan Li, and finally the answer given in his heart was no.
Yuan Li also did not have any retention, and thus ended his 12-year relationship with Xu Wei.
After separating from Xu Wei, Yuan Li was not so sad and quickly threw himself into work. However, without Xu Wei, people in the entertainment industry are not accustomed to her, and her career is affected.
However, Yuan Li didn't care at all, and she would definitely be concerned about her ability, but her idea was wrong.
Because she has offended many people with her outspoken heart, no one to shelter needs to bear the consequences herself. Fortunately, her acting skills are not bad, and there are a very few directors who are willing to cooperate with her.
In 2007, Yuan Li was invited to shoot "The Colonel's Daughter", in which she and Zhao Ling played a couple. They have feelings because of the drama, and bring the feelings inside the play to the outside of the play.
They had only known each other for a few months, and Yuan Li had determined that Zhao Ling was the one who had spent her life with her, and they were quickly married at the end of the shooting.
You must know that Xu Wei has spoiled Yuan Li for 12 years, but he is not as good as Zhao Ling, who accompanied her to shoot scenes for several months. Unfortunately, Zhao Ling did not love Yuan Li as much as Xu Wei did.
After marriage, Zhao Ling often lost his temper with Yuan Li and also drank heavily, making Yuan Li intolerable and proposed divorce.
Later, Yuan Li met Lin Bowen, who is Canadian and still knows for 4 months and enters the marriage hall.
She thought she would be happy to find a foreigner, but the marriage lasted only 3 years before it came to an end. After marriage, Yuan Li was very miserable, and Lin Bowen was not good for her at all.
Xu Wei had already spoiled Yuan Li to heaven, and no one could do better than Xu Wei, and Yuan Li would not meet a second Xu Wei.
Later, Yuan Li kept a lot of low profile, and in 2019, he once again entered the marriage hall. This time her married life was low-key and she didn't know if the choice was right or wrong.
Yuan Li's marriage is so bumpy, on the contrary, Xu Wei's feelings for leaving Yuan Li are very smooth.
After breaking up with Yuan Li, Xu Wei was very sad, especially when he saw Yuan Li marrying other men, he completely understood that Yuan Li was not unable to marry, but did not want to marry him.
Xu Wei turned grief into motivation, focused all his attention on his work, and his career was prosperous. Usually, when he is fine, Xu Wei will play table tennis, and he likes this project very much.
There are competitions at home and abroad, and he will watch them and admire Zhang Yining very much.
At the 2008 Beijing Olympic Games, Xu Wei has been paying attention to the table tennis competition and cheering for Zhang Yining in his heart.
What he didn't know was that after the game, he actually knew Zhang Yining and chased her.
Zhang Yining is 27 years old, and her sports career has also won a Grand Slam, and the only thing the family is worried about is her marriage event, hoping to meet the right person.
Through the introduction, Zhang Yining met Xu Wei. After the meeting, Xu Wei took the initiative to open the topic, coaxing Zhang Yining to be very happy, and especially took care of her during the meal.
Xu Wei left a deep impression on Zhang Yining, and after separation, he fell in love. Xu Wei is 20 years older than her, and she doesn't mind the age of boldly pursuing her lover.
However, Zhang Yining's parents were still worried about whether their daughter would be deceived, and Xu Wei used practical actions to make his father-in-law and mother-in-law accept him.
In 2009, Zhang Yining and Xu Wei entered the marriage hall and invited relatives and friends to attend the wedding ceremony.
The wedding day was very lively, and many friends in the sports world sent them marriage blessings. Zhang Yining married Xu Wei in a beautiful way, and also confessed to each other, which was very touching.
You must know that Xu Wei does not want to continue to toss and turn when he is old, only wants a stable family, and Zhang Yining is willing to give up some things for him.
Don't look at Xu Wei, who is 20 years older than Zhang Yining, and has experienced an unforgettable relationship, but since he is with Zhang Yining, he must be good to her.
After marriage, Zhang Yining suspended her sports career and was willing to come to Hong Kong with Xu Wei to live.
Although Zhang Yining has come to Hong Kong several times before, it is because of work, and she is still very unfamiliar living here. And Xu Wei took her to familiarize herself with everything here.
Usually, when there is nothing to do, Xu Wei leads Zhang Yining out to eat and knows the people around him. When she's not at home, she can go and play with friends.
Zhang Yining's parents live in Beijing, and they could not see each other when they competed, nor did they see each other several times a year after marriage.
Xu Wei was worried that his father-in-law and mother-in-law would miss their daughters and would take them over from time to time to live together. And they are not used to it at all, afraid of adding chaos to their daughter and son-in-law, and will go back after staying for a few days.
If Xu Wei went to Beijing to work, he would also see Zhang Yining's parents. He knew that Zhang Yining had given up a lot for him, and he should also reciprocate.
In 2011, Zhang Yining became pregnant, but Xu Wei was very happy, and he was considered to be an old man. Afraid of accidents, he stayed with his wife all day, and he also tried to find a way to supplement her nutrition.
Zhang Yining is an athlete, she is not so squeamish, she can also do housework with a big belly, Xu Wei is still a little worried. But under his careful care, Zhang Yining gave birth to a daughter.
Xu Wei was very happy and gave Zhang Yining a high amount of pocket money, as well as a courtyard. However, Zhang Yining does not have the appearance of a rich wife.
Zhang Yining and Xu Wei are not because of money, but because of love. So living in Hong Kong, although there are nannies, drivers, cooks, she tries to do these things herself.
Usually, when she is fine, she goes to buy vegetables by herself, and cooks herself, making a table of food for her husband.
After the birth of the daughter, the nanny can take care of it, but Zhang Yining does not do it, and everything about the child is done by herself.
There is Zhang Yining at home, and Xu Wei is very relieved that he can work outside with peace of mind. However, back at home, he looked for his wife for the first time, and he was a little uneasy when he couldn't see his heart.
Zhang Yining is very important in Xu Wei's heart, even if he has a daughter, he has not changed.
After having a daughter, Zhang Yining also announced her retirement, but she did not stop, went to college for further study, and also had a career that she loved.
Xu Wei is supportive, he did not trap Zhang Yining because of his career success, and will be her strong backing, will not drag her back
But in 2019, Xu Wei is 58 years old, and he still wants another child, and Zhang Yining has some worries and disagrees, but she can't bear to refuse when she sees her husband's happy look.
When she thought about some of the problems behind her, she was very determined not to have children. Xu Wei did not give up, went to tell his mother-in-law about this matter, and let her mother-in-law be a peacemaker.
Zhang Yining gave birth to a son for Xu Wei, a family of four children, and a happy and complete life.
Xu Wei loved Zhang Yining even more, and also loved Zhang Yining with his two children. And they live very low-key, as if they were like ordinary people.
Yuan Li could not give Xu Wei's marriage and children, Zhang Yining gave. Moreover, Xu Wei also especially understands and takes care of Zhang Yining, which makes her willing to enter the marriage hall with Xu Wei.
Now Xu Wei and Zhang Yining have been married for 13 years, still happy as ever, with both children and daughters, and can be called winners in life.
Xu Wei should thank Yuan Li, because she let go of her hand, in order to meet Zhang Yining's such a good wife. When he and Yuan Li broke up, it was the right choice.
In fact, Xu Wei and Yuan Li are not the same people.
Although Xu Wei loved Yuan Li very much, he wanted to have a stable family in his heart. Yuan Li is young and vigorous, full of hope for the future, and does not want to be bound by marriage and family.
Xu Wei thought that after a long time, Yuan Li would change such a thought. Unfortunately, Yuan Li had the idea of getting married, and that person was not Xu Wei.
It can only be said that Yuan Li does not love Xu Wei enough and is not willing to give up everything about himself.
Zhang Yining is different, she loves Xu Wei, is willing to give up everything for Xu Wei, and more importantly, she and Xu Wei want to have a stable family, and have been paying for this family.
Although she looks very strong outside, in fact, at home she is also a bird.
In fact, marriage is a grave for those who are unwilling to give, and a paradise for those who understand the meaning of love.