A few days ago, when I went to the parent-teacher meeting for Guoguo, the teacher praised Guoguo, and Guoguo's midterm exam results this time were very good, and the teacher said that Guoguo was very smart and had strong concentration, and let me go to the podium to share the experience of taking children.
On the way home, I met the mother of the same table, the mother at the same table looked very unhappy, she sighed and said: "Why is our daughter not good at the test, every time the test is not good, the child is very down-to-earth and hardworking, it seems that the IQ thing is born, not smart is not smart, this is no way." ”
I comforted Guo Guo's mother at the same table, but I disagree with her statement, in fact, the child's IQ is really not completely "destined", the child's life, brain development is actually three times to become smarter.
My husband and I are not very smart people, ordinary college graduates, engaged in ordinary work, Guo Guo inherited our genes will not be so smart, the reason why she is so smart now, is entirely because of our nurturing.
More than a year old fruit is actually a little stupid, fruit and my little niece is about the same age, when the little niece learns to call Mom and Dad, the fruit will only "aaaaah", she does not like to move, all kinds of signs point to, our family fruit is not very smart.
For this reason, I specially consulted a child expert, asked her how to make the child smarter, I even wanted to buy some brain supplements for Guoguo, the children's expert said: Supplements are not necessary, if you want to make the child smart, in fact, it is enough to seize the child's three periods.
Which of these three periods are these three periods?
Harvard university professor said that the brain development has only 3 peak periods in a lifetime, also known as the "golden period"
The first golden period of development is 6 months to 3 years old
When a child is born, the weight of the brain is a quarter of the weight of the adult brain, but by the age of three, the weight of the child's brain has reached 85% of that of the adult, so this period is the golden period of the child's brain development.
Neurons are brain cells in the brain that receive and transmit signals, and there is no connection between the neurons in the newborn's brain, but when stimulated by the outside world, the child's brain neurons will produce connections.
In the golden age before the age of three, neurons in the brain formed connections with other neurons at a rate of every 700-1000.
Parents in this period can communicate more with their children, tell stories to their children, guide children to play with some small toys and the like, stimulate children's brains, and promote children's brain development.
The second golden age: 5 to 7 years old
5 to 7 years old children's brain development has tended to mature state, but has not yet taken a qualitative leap, children in this period will enter the order sensitive period, they will have a sense of order for their own things placement, parents must remember not to disrupt the placement of children's things.
At this time, parents can systematically guide their children to receive some brain training, such as buying some picture books for brain training for children, cultivating children's interest in learning, improving children's concentration, observation, and thinking ability, stimulating children's brain development, and making children smarter.
The third stage is 7-10 years old
The third golden period of children's brain development is when they are 7 to 10 years old, that is, the child's primary school period, and the child's brain development level at this time is almost the same as that of adults, and this period is the outbreak period of children's logical thinking.
Medical research has found that this period is a critical period for the development of synaptic tissue in the brain, and the richer the neuronal connections in the brain, the more complete the child's brain development and the stronger the logical thinking ability.
I was very impressed by the children's expert's statement, and when I got home, I found some stories on the Internet to read to Guoguo, and talked to her every night, and after a while, Guoguo really became lively.
When Guo Guo was more than two years old, I found a set of "The Strongest Brain Left and Right Brain Potential Development" picture book sold to Guo Guo on the Internet, this set of books has a total of ten volumes, I did not expect to buy back the effect is particularly good, Guo Guo very like to play, often can concentrate on playing for a long time, mother-in-law said that with this set of books, she has more free time to do housework.
This set of books is very interesting, the colors of the pictures are bright, the children will like it, and the content of the book is in line with the child's psychological cognition and can attract the child's interest.
For example, here to the same color of the bottle cap and fruit connection, do not underestimate a connection question, here can cultivate the child's thinking ability, observation ability, concentration, etc., here you can teach parents a small trick, after the child has done the connection problem, you can find relevant vegetables or items from home, introduce the child, increase the child's knowledge reserve.
Each book of this set of books is aimed at cultivating different abilities of children, parents who want to be smart babies can start a set, this set of books I also recommended to my sister-in-law, the little niece was particularly lively when she was a child, completely ADHD girls, with this set of books, the concentration has improved a lot, and has been praised by the teacher. A set of books can make children better, so why not enjoy it?
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The efforts of the day after tomorrow can also become the key to the child's counterattack, and parents should grasp the key period of these 3 brain developments, so that the child's future road is getting wider and wider.