In the early morning of August 9, 2021, major websites and social platforms were swept away by a piece of news, and Yu Yuexian, the actor of "Xie Bigfoot" in the "Country Love" series, was ready to take a car back to the hotel after a day of filming.
Maybe everyone was too sleepy in the early hours of the morning, or maybe the quiet and empty environment around them distracted the driver, and the accident suddenly happened at this moment, and the driver and the people sleeping in the car did not notice the four camels on the road.
"Boo!"
The unexpected came...
01, from childhood was abandoned, for the young brother to supplement the family
Looking back on Yu Yuexian's life, it is also very fateful, she was born in Chifeng, Inner Mongolia in 1971, is a child of the grassland, but Yu Yuexian does not have the confidence and freedom that grew up on the grassland, but is very inferior and fragile.
The reason for the formation of such a character is because Yu Yuexian's original family, from the beginning of her birth, was rejected by her parents because she was a girl: "The water that is spilled out is people's house sooner or later." Such words have accompanied Yu Yuexian since he was a child, and his parents who want a son have only given birth to a son after Yuexian has given birth to two daughters in succession.
However, after having a son, the parents could not afford the expenses of so many children in the family, so the eldest daughter of the family, Yu Yuexian, took the initiative to bear the burden of sharing the family costs, and went out to work to supplement the family at a young age.
Not only that, but when he returns home, he also has to take care of all the chores in the house and take care of his younger siblings. Even so, Yu Yuexian did not receive the slightest praise from her parents, and even scolded for doing something wrong.
Yu Yuexian's childhood was spent in such a constant dislike, after growing up, she successfully applied for a kindergarten teacher job, although the salary was not very high, but at that time it was also an "iron rice bowl", because in this way, her parents had a little change in Yuexian.
In the process of being a kindergarten teacher, Yu Yuexian gradually fell in love with singing and dancing, and felt that she could forget all her troubles and heartaches in song and dance, but after a long time, the boring work content made Yu Yuexian feel more and more that her life should not be just like this.
02, love talent at work, determined to change the status quo
This kind of thinking gradually took root in Yuexian's heart, she felt more and more that the work of kindergarten teacher was very boring, and the heavens also gave her an opportunity at this time, that is, the Central Academy of Drama began to decide to recruit students nationwide, so Yu Yuexian began to quietly prepare dances and songs for the interview.
However, what everyone can think of is that Yu Yuexian's parents will not agree at all, so Yu Yuexian, after several thoughts, resolutely and resolutely left his hometown where he had lived for more than twenty years with luggage and a little money a few days before the exam, and embarked on the road of chasing dreams.
However, because of the long distance and the fact that he had never been far away, Yu Yuexian got lost in the vast City of Beijing, and found the door of the school with difficulty, but was told that the exam had ended.
But fortunately, although the road was obstructed and the long let Yu Yuexian not catch the interview time, she met Ji Chonggong, who loved her very much, in the campus of the Chinese opera.
At that time, Teacher Ji Chonggong met Yu Yuexian, who was confused on the campus, and felt that it was not easy for this girl to come from afar, so he told Yu Yuexian to let her prepare for it and try it.
So Yu Yuexian immediately performed a dance, from the dance, Teacher Ji Chonggong saw the unique tenacity of this girl from the countryside, coupled with Yu Yuexian's very beautiful looks, instantly got the favor of the teachers present.
In this way, Yu Yuexian successfully got the "stepping stone" of Chinese opera, but if she wanted to really enter the academy, she still needed to have a cultural class score, so she returned to her hometown to seriously prepare for the cultural class exam.
But I didn't expect that Yu Yuexian, who returned home, was facing reprimands and insults from her parents, and Yu Yuexian could only carry the pressure of her parents while preparing for the exam.
However, in the end, she had already been admitted, and her parents still had to keep her at home, and finally the school teacher persuaded her to let her parents go to Beijing in Yuexian.
03, admitted to the Chinese opera, academic love double harvest
As a result, Yu Yuexian opened a new chapter in her life and began to concentrate on learning acting. It was also on campus that he met the love of his life, Zhang Xuesong. Because both people came to study after employment, and the age difference between them and the people in the class was large, the people in the class elected the two of them as "male and female class leaders".
Because the two people need to be together every day for various school matters, there is a spark, and the two people have very similar personalities and ideas, so they quickly fall in love.
In the blink of an eye, the happy and romantic school life is fleeting, and there has always been a saying in Chinese opera that "graduation from acting is equal to unemployment", and the little couple of Yu Yuexian and Zhang Xuesong must also face it, so the two decided not to return to their hometown and stay in Beijing to pursue their dreams.
But life in North Drift is much more difficult than imagined, two young people without connections and connections can only run around in the crew interview and cameo, and come back at night to squeeze in a small rental house, even so, the two people pursue the purpose of "sentient drinking water", and have been very happy.
04, shocked to hear bad news, desperately make money for his brother
However, I didn't expect that Yu Yuexian had not yet waited for the turnaround of his career, but he had waited for the bad news of his brother first. That day, when Yu Yuexian was running the dragon set as usual, he received a burning phone call from home: "Your brother is no longer able to do it, and his illness is getting worse and worse, come back and see!" ”
Because Yu Yuexian's younger brother was diagnosed with scoliosis symptoms when he was 8 years old, but because the family did not operate in time, and now after getting bigger, this disease is more serious, and it has reached the point where it is impossible to survive without surgery.
Because the younger brother was brought up by Yu Yuexian, the feelings of the two people are also very deep. Yu Yuexian couldn't bear to watch her brother suffer from illness, so she began to make crazy money and take any drama.
Zhang Xuesong, who is a boyfriend, is very worried in his eyes, so he said: "You can earn more money when you are gone, but there is only one younger brother." And gave all his money to Yu Yuexian, this move completely touched Yu Yuexian, so the two decided to marry at this most difficult time.
The wedding was simple, no wedding dresses, no cars, no relatives and friends. It was just two people sitting together for a meal, but they had each other, they loved each other in danger, not only did not give up on each other, but strengthened their determination to be together.
But even if all the savings of two people add up, it is still a drop in the bucket in the face of high surgery. So Zhang Xuesong began to borrow money from his friends around him, almost all the people around him, and finally saved his life with the joint efforts of the two.
However, at this time, the crew of "Journey to the West" invited Yu Yuexian to play a very charming and feminine role, although Yu Yuexian was very resistant to this type of role in her heart, but in order to make up for her brother's medical expenses, she could only take it hard.
After that, as soon as Yu Yuexian finished filming, she immediately took the film remuneration, that is, her brother's life-saving money, and rushed to the hospital. In addition, the money borrowed by Zhang Xuesong finally made up enough for his brother's surgery and could be operated.
But although his brother's life has been saved, there is no money to maintain the follow-up treatment. At this time, in order to make money, Yu Yuexian thought of her cousin Ma Lijuan, and they learned that her cousin was married to Zhao Benshan, a very popular sketch actor at that time, so they pinned all their hopes on their cousin.
But asking for someone is a very difficult thing, Yu Yuexian came to the door several times without getting results, seeing that his brother was in urgent need of postoperative treatment, it made Yu Yuexian anxious like an ant on a frying pan.
05. Ask for help from his brother-in-law Zhao Benshan in order to raise money
However, at first, Zhao Benshan did not look at his cousin Yu Yuexian at all, thinking that she was no different from her relatives who wanted to go through the back door, but under the request of Yuexian again and again, Zhao Benshan finally agreed to watch the drama starring Yu Yuexian.
However, until the end of the play, Zhao Benshan did not see the figure of Yu Yuexian, so he asked Zhang Xuefeng: "Why didn't you see Yuexian?" At this time, Zhang Xuesong pointed to a disheveled beggar on the stage and said that the person was Yuexian.
Zhao Benshan was stunned, being able to perform in such a disregard of the image, and acting so well, Zhao Benshan immediately recognized Yu Yuexian's performance and spirit.
After the performance, Zhao Benshan went directly to the backstage and excitedly took Yu Yuexian's hand: "My sister is that I underestimated you, my brother-in-law apologized to you, joined my Zhao family class, and we are mutually beneficial and win-win!" ”
So Yu Yuexian successfully joined the Zhao family class and began the highest light in his career, and soon after, "Country Love" began filming, and the role of "Xie Dazu" was undoubtedly a well-deserved candidate for Yu Yuexian.
Because the acting skills are very close to the role, Yu Yuexian became popular with this role and gained a large number of fans. In order to perfectly present this role, Yue Xian deliberately gained more than 30 pounds, and even directly sacrificed his own beauty image.
06, starred in "Country Love" to open a new chapter in life
With this role, Yu Yuexian also won the honor of the best actress in the rural theme category of the 4th Huading Awards in 2010, and then Yu Yuexian also firmly established her acting route, which is the direction of rural comedy.
After that, she starred in the country comedy "Fiery Days" almost a lot of applause, and Yu Yuexian officially opened her own popular "star path".
Yu Yuexian also finally earned enough medical expenses to allow her brother to receive treatment with peace of mind. In order to take care of her brother, Yu Yuexian decided not to have children for the time being, leaving all her time except for filming to take care of her brother.
Later, in 2010, Yu Yuexian's brother and girlfriend walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, and Yu Yuexian, who attended the wedding, was very pleased, but in his heart he felt that he was always sorry for one person, that is, his husband, Zhang Xuesong. 、
07, looking back on life, regret to the husband
In order to take care of his brother who has not had children, Yu Yuexian has now passed the best age to have children, and the two people who have been middle-aged do not have a child of their own, Yu Yuexian also knows Zhang Xuesong's love for children, so his heart is very guilty.
Zhang Xuesong, who faced his wife's guilt, said directly: "We can not have children, as long as we have each other, this life is enough." Such sincere feelings made Yu Yuexian very moved, and the two people embraced together movingly. It is really very happy that people can have such a person who is both a confidant and a lover in this life.
However, when I thought that my life would be happy and happy, an unexpected arrival completely broke the family that had experienced years of ups and downs.
That is, in August 2021, when Yu Yuexian was filming in Alxa, after a car accident, the rescue was ineffective and left the world.
When Zhang Xuesong learned of this news, he fainted several times on the way to the scene, and when he arrived at the scene, he needed to be supported to walk.
08, the accident struck, the happy family fell apart
He really couldn't accept his wife who was still intimately embracing him before he left, and in the blink of an eye, he was separated forever. Such an impact is unacceptable in any way.
Zhang Xuesong rarely appeared during that time, and this accident almost destroyed all his willpower, even when he was in debt due to Yu Yuexian's brother's illness at that time, there was no such despair and pain.
As soon as the news of Yu Yuexian's death came out, her friends in the circle before her death were remembered, and many people could not accept this bad news, and did not understand why such an accident would occur after such a difficult life.
However, in this case, there are still malicious speculations on the Internet that Zhang Xuesong and Yu Yuexian's brother are fighting for Yu Yuexian's inheritance, which is undoubtedly an insult to Zhang Xuesong, who loves Yuexian deeply.
Originally, Zhang Xuesong did not intend to pay attention to these rumors, but he did not expect to be rendered more and more intense by some marketing numbers, and he had to force Zhang Xuesong to stand up with a sad mood and respond: "I will live well with Yue Xian's share, and I will also take care of Yue Xian's family, and I will not want a penny for the inheritance." ”
As soon as this rumor came out, perhaps people would forget it like a cloud of smoke in the blink of an eye, but for Zhang Xuesong, this was already a serious blow, so Zhang Xuefeng did not appear in the public eye after that.
Outside the public eye, Zhang Xuesong is still alone in the memory of Yuexian, and he will arrange Yuexian's tomb in Beijing, not her hometown, because Beijing is the place where the two of them know each other and have experienced the wind and rain together.
Moreover, on the tombstone, Zhang Xuesong also specially added his name to the tombstone, using practical actions to show his sincere feelings with Yu Yuexian's "life can not be the same bed, death is the same cave".
On April 5 this year's Qingming Festival, Zhang Xuesong posted an old photo of his deceased wife Yu Yuexian on social platforms, and the Yu Yuexian in the photo danced beautifully, his face was rosy, and he looked confident and beautiful.
And Zhang Xuesong also accompanied the text to say: The rain during the Qingming Festival is a thing that has to be faced, thank you to all the fans and friends of the Moon Immortals.
Between the lines, you can see Zhang Xuesong's nostalgia for his wife, the two people have been together for so many years, the two sides have already walked through most of their lives together, and the feelings have long been integrated into the bones and blood.
epilogue
Now that Yu Yuexian has been dead for 5 months, the nostalgia and sigh for her on the Internet have gradually decreased, but for Zhang Xuesong, this is still an indelible pain in life, I hope he can come out of grief as soon as possible and live a good life.
I also hope that the most beautiful "Xie Bigfoot" Yu Yuexian can go all the way, and in the next life, some people will hurt and love, and they will not be able to live so hard anymore.