Three years have passed, do you still remember the "Xie Dajia" who opened the Bigfoot supermarket?
On August 9, 2021, Yu Yuexian, the actor of "Xie Dajia", was in a car accident while passing through Alxa, Inner Mongolia, and died of his injuries and ineffective rescue.
As soon as the news came out, many celebrities posted condolences.
Seeing this familiar face, there are still many people who can't accept the fact that she has left.
A sudden accident took away Yu Yuexian, who was only 50 years old and had no children, and at the same time pulled her husband, who had been with her for decades, into a hell of sadness.
Although the two don't look like a good match, they can be called husband and wife models!
Now, three years have passed, is her husband Zhang Xuesong doing well?
【Stick to the love of a lifetime】
Yu Yuexian and Zhang Xuesong met when they were in college, and in 1992, 21-year-old Yu Yuexian became a student of the 92nd class of the Chinese Opera Performance Department.
Yu Yuexian, who entered the school at the age of 21, is basically two or three years older than the classmates in the class, but fortunately, there is also a Zhang Xuesong in the class, Zhang Xuesong is also the "big brother" in the class, because of being a soldier, Zhang Xuesong is not too young to enter the school.
In this way, two people of similar age came and went, and the two came together.
After graduation, the two chose to stay in Beijing to work hard, Yu Yuexian was not famous at that time, Yu Yuexian's earliest famous role was the girl "Jin Cuilian" who was rescued by Lu Zhishen in the Water Margin.
But over the years, Yu Yuexian has been tepid.
Until, as a brother-in-law, Zhao Benshan, was impressed by her superb acting skills when he watched Yu Yuexian's drama "Holy Well" in 2005.
In this way, Zhao Benshan invited Yu Yuexian to participate in the "Xie Dajia" in the story of "Country Love", and quickly became popular with the role of "Xie Dajia".
In fact, before this, Zhao Benshan's wife mentioned to Zhao Benshan that she wanted him to help Yu Yuexian, but Zhao Benshan is a very principled person, and Zhao Benshan mainly looks at ability here.
At the beginning, when Yu Yuexian was preparing to shoot the role of "Xie Dajia", in order to be more in line with the image of older women, she forcibly gained 5 kilograms.
The hard work paid off, Yu Yuexian finally succeeded in her career, but Yu Yuexian, who had a successful career, still did not have any children of her own after marrying Zhang Xuesong for many years, why is this?
It turned out that all of this was closely related to Yu Yuexian's younger brother.
【Yu Yuexian's childhood】
In 1971, Yu Yuexian was born in a very feudal family in Inner Mongolia, and her father's patriarchal thinking was very serious.
As a result, Yu Yuexian's childhood was not happy.
Although, since she was a child, Yu Yuexian could easily sing classic model plays such as "Sha Jiabang", but her parents did not discover her specialty due to vision problems.
As the eldest daughter, she not only has to take care of her younger siblings, but also helps with household chores.
After working hard, not only will she not be praised and loved, but she will even get some beating and scolding because of some mistakes.
"I've always played boys at home"
Yu Yuexian used such a sentence to describe her childhood.
But the already bad family environment was made worse by his brother's sudden illness.
When Yu Yuexian was 19 years old, his younger brother suffered from scoliosis, and soon there was no "surplus food" at home.
At this time, his father found Yu Yuexian, hoping that Yu Yuexian could drop out of school and help carry the burden of the family.
In this way, Yu Yuexian, who graduated from secondary school, became an art teacher at a local school.
Yu Yuexian, who thought that she was going to spend her life like this, learned the news of the enrollment of the Performance Department of the Central Academy of Drama by chance, and after some strong brainstorming, Yu Yuexian resolutely asked for leave, went to Beijing, and embarked on the road of art examination.
After learning the news, the parents were very angry, they didn't understand why Yu Yuexian gave up this stable job to pursue that illusory dream.
However, when the admission letter of the Chinese opera was delivered to his home, his parents did not stop him, and even said with relief, "My daughter is awesome".
In this way, Yu Yuexian embarked on the road of pursuing her dreams.
In order to treat her younger brother, Yu Yuexian does not pick scripts and roles at all, as long as it is not too excessive, she will participate, such as "Water Margin", "Journey to the West", etc.
During this time, she met her lover.
In the matter of his younger brother, Zhang Xuesong also did his best to help his wife.
As soon as he asked a spine specialist, he quickly made an appointment, and the cost of the surgery was taken out of his savings.
Usually busy with career and family, Zhang Xuesong until Yu Yuexian's suffering, in order to make his wife easier, Zhang Xuesong took the initiative not to have children.
It is precisely because of this that Zhang Xuesong and Yu Yuexian, who have been married for many years, do not have a son and a half daughter.
But just when his younger brother's condition was improving and his life was getting better and better, a car accident left only the grief-stricken Zhang Xuesong.
【Zhang Xuesong's current situation】
On August 26, 2021, Zhang Xuesong posted a message to commemorate his deceased wife, in which he said that he would fulfill his wife's wish and take care of his wife's parents and younger brother.
Zhang Xuesong was grief-stricken with Yu Yuexian's departure, and washed his face with tears all day long, however, in order to comfort the old man, he could only hold back his sadness, and visited Yu Yuexian's parents' house every once in a while, helping with everything he could, and doing his best to take care of the elderly.
It didn't take long for rumors spread on the Internet that Zhang Xuesong and Yu Yuexian's younger brother Yu Yingjie had a lot of trouble because of family property problems.
At the beginning, Zhang Xuesong scoffed at these rumors and didn't bother to clarify them at all, but it was under such ignorance that the rumors became more and more heated by everyone.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Xuesong was forced to stand up, saying that he would not compete with his younger brother Yu Yingjie for the family property, and promised to treat Yu Yuexian's family like his biological parents, and would not continue in the future.
Zhang Xuesong even carved his name next to Yu Yuexian's tombstone, preparing to be buried with Yu Yuexian in the future.
Now, three years have passed, and as usual, Zhang Xuesong sends his younger brother to the hospital every week for follow-up, and under the leadership of Zhang Xuesong, the public welfare fund established in the name of Yu Yuexian can help hundreds of poor women and children every year.
Whenever Yu Yuexian has a birthday, Zhang Xuesong will express his thoughts about his deceased wife on social platforms, obviously 3 years is not enough time to wash away Zhang Xuesong's thoughts about his wife.
From school uniforms to wedding dresses, the two have experienced countless years, and have gone through the trough together, and now life and death are separated, every memory, every thought, is a continuation of Zhang Xue's pain, and it is also a farewell to his deceased lover.