Go south to Cambodia to start a business, fall in love, break up, and business is dismal. Until I met him, everything seemed to be moving in a good direction. But who knows, the real nightmare has only begun.
Controlled, placed under house arrest, betrayed, subjected to domestic violence. And if there is a first time of domestic violence, there will be a second time.
Reporter: Han Xin
Editor: Xie Shanlong
Travel, stay, start a business
Love is coming
In 2020, Lu Shuya (pseudonym) traveled to Cambodia alone, but not long after she arrived in Cambodia, the epidemic broke out in full swing, and she was trapped in Cambodia and could not return home.
During her stay in Cambodia, she found business opportunities here, so she decided to give up the domestic clothing industry and start a business in Cambodia.
After her own investigation, she found that what she could do was her old clothing industry, so she mailed the inventory of domestic clothing to Westport to sell; she also borrowed money from her parents and relatives to expand her storefront.
At first, the clothes sold well, and it was impossible to make money, at least to support themselves.
Even more fortunately, she also met her own love. From meeting and getting to know each other with her boyfriend, to determining a relationship, this is a just right comfort for her to work alone overseas. She said: "At least he is no longer alone, because he is in the face of great difficulties." ”
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But not all love will have good results, and some people walk and walk, and they disperse. 1 year passed, and their love came to an end without any problems.
His departure left Lu Shuya devastated, immersed in the lost love all day, unable to extricate herself. And the hard-working clothing business has also plummeted, which is undoubtedly worse for her.
Under the double blow of feelings and career, in desperation, she chose to close her own clothing store, a clothing store that she borrowed money from relatives and family to develop, but now it is a mess by her own operation.
It was a wasted period of time, even if there were some savings, but there was no financial resources, and in the long run, it would certainly not be able to support her daily life. She wanted to close herself off and heal her painful feelings, but her financial strength did not allow it, not to mention that there was still foreign debt to be repaid, and she had to re-plan her future.
Love has been lost, but life has to go on.
A clinic dispute
A sinful fate is born
Lu Shuya began to look around for a job, hitting the wall in the east and the wall in the west, and eventually found a job in the clinic, and she was mainly responsible for the cashier.)
After having the last emotional experience, she no longer has expectations for feelings, and she is focused on work, hoping that work will make her forget her emotional wounds and reinvigorate.
Heaven does not go according to people's wishes, and they are often afraid of what comes. For Lu Shuya, she is not afraid of being in debt, the only thing she is afraid of is to fall into feelings again.
The acquaintance with Lin Dong (pseudonym) became the beginning of her nightmare.
For this relationship, Lu Shuya sighed: "It also makes my trust in men no longer exist, and I respect feelings." Any man, no matter how much he loves you with his mouth, is a demon the moment he punches you in the face. No matter how repentant he was, he knelt down on his knees and wept bitterly, and you have to think clearly that the Virgin's Heart can never redeem a domestic abuser. ”
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Lin Dong, a native of Fujian, has his own industry in Xigang. They met at the clinic where Lin Shuya worked. At first, Lin Dong had a dispute with the clinic, was injured by the clinic, and began to pestering the other party to demand compensation. During this time, he met Lu Shuya and began a crazy pursuit.
But Lu Shuya has not yet come out of the previous relationship, and will only feel disgusted by this behavior, not to mention that Lin Dong is not the type she likes, so she has rejected his pursuit again and again.
However, during the time that Lin Dong claimed to the clinic, Lu Shuya had to meet with him often, and could only turn away Lin Dong, who pursued her, again and again. And Lin Dong is as tenacious as the undead "Xiao Qiang", and pursues her more fiercely.
"The spirited girl is afraid of pestering lang", in the end, Lu Shuya still resisted lin dong's love offensive and accepted his pursuit.
However, the two reached a consensus: agree to be together, but not to marry. This is also known as the Cambodian lover relationship.
Controlled, placed under house arrest, domestic violence
She only wants to get back the $100,000 she borrowed
At first, Lin Dong was obedient to her, whether it was the previous emotional history or work, he knew everything about her and said everything.
But the appearance of a woman completely broke the happy life that Lu Shuya had thought. She is Lin Dong's ex-girlfriend.
Lu Shuya recalled: "At that time, Lin Dong mentioned this woman, and he himself said that there was no way to forget this ex-girlfriend, but now he will treat me sincerely, so I didn't think about it so much." Anyway in Cambodia, he can only have me as a woman. ”
Lin Dong's desire for control was very strong, and after agreeing to associate with him, the two lived in Lin Dong's residence, but only when Lin Dong was accompanied, he could leave their residence. Her strong desire for control made her feel frightened, but after all, she was someone she really liked, so she didn't think much about it at the time.
But after this woman appeared, Lin Dong began to lie, and his temper became more and more grumpy, insulting her at every turn, and even punching and kicking each other, beating her, and even injuring him until he could not get out of bed for ten and a half days.
Lu Shuya said that at that time, she seemed to be confused by the ghost, and after the other party sincerely admitted her mistake, she thought that this was nothing.
This is not uncommon in marriage and love relationships, and the payment of feelings makes many people fall into a gambling mentality, and if they do not lose to the last step, they will think that they have the opportunity to turn the page. Therefore, it is difficult to break when it is broken. In the process of forgiveness again and again, it will fall into the quagmire of continuous concessions, making the perpetrators worse. This is a large part of the reason why domestic violence is only 0 times and countless times.
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Fortunately, in the end, Lu Shuya still woke up and chose to leave the man who had tormented her.
But whenever I think of the sweetness of the beginning of a relationship, how painful it is now. When Lin Dong is addicted to gambling and has no money to pay the debts of gambling, Lu Shuya will give him a small amount of savings.
Lu Shuya, who left Lin Dong, thought that she had poured out her heart and lungs for him, but in exchange for physical and mental torture. Is it all worth it?
Now, Lu Shuya only wants to get back what belongs to Lin Dong: 100,000 US dollars lent to the other party in three installments.
Lu Shuya hoped that Lin Dong could remember his old feelings and return his money, because he was a woman who was helpless in a foreign country and still owed debts to relatives and friends, which was really pitiful.
In Cambodia, there have been many love stories in which lovers eventually become dependents and have been together for decades, but there have been more emotional stories that have caused economic disputes and even legal disputes. Love is sweet wine, but many poisons can also be disguised as fine wine to confuse people.
When investing in feelings, be sure to polish your eyes. If the other party has contact with "pornography, gambling and drugs" and there is violence, they should immediately turn around and leave to protect their physical and mental and property safety. Don't fantasize that you will be the last to move the other person and make their prodigal son turn back.
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