Many people often say that no matter what they do, they must grasp the initiative, so that they can grasp the law and direction of this matter at any time, especially in the feelings, being able to grasp the initiative is the most important way to avoid being hurt.
Some people's personality is more strong, so it is very easy to do this, but some people may be more gentle and introverted, they are not good at expressing their own ideas, everything has to be the other half to push them forward, so it is more passive in this regard, everything must be shown to the other party before they dare to go to the next step. The following boys are like this, extremely passive in love, and missing a person again is only hidden in the heart.
Taurus: Rarely initiate contact with the other half
Taurus men are not very good at expressing, they hide their thoughts very carefully in the bottom of their hearts, even if they sometimes meet someone they like, Taurus men also hide and dare not say it, for fear that their sudden confession will scare each other.
In fact, they are so passive also have certain personality defects, Taurus men generally feel more inferior, they are not as sunny and energetic as some other boys.
No matter what the heart is, Taurus men like to hold in their hearts, will not tell others, even if they are good buddies of Taurus men, they will not talk too much to each other, and slowly will cause Taurus and the surrounding personalities to be incompatible.
Taurus in the relationship, if the other party does not point out the direction of the next action, Taurus is never afraid to move any decision, even if they miss each other in their hearts, as long as the other party does not take the initiative to find Taurus, they will only be silently missed in their hearts, and rarely take the initiative to contact the other half.
Gemini: Open-minded and not preoccupied
Gemini men's personality is generally very gentle, no matter what they face, they are not impatient, as if nothing around them can make them anxious to catch fire. The same is true in the relationship, Gemini men give people the feeling that they are very passive in the relationship, they always look at each other's mood and face to act, and rarely take the initiative to make any decisions.
In fact, this is just Gemini feels that there is no need for two people to distinguish whose status is high or low, after all, who has the upper hand and who has the upper hand, it is an insignificant matter, and compared with the feelings of two people, it does not matter. So they won't dwell on this kind of thing, as long as they can make their loved ones happy, better than anything. Therefore, the so-called passive gemini is only because they are more open-minded in their hearts and do not bother with people, so people have this feeling of indisputable with the world.
Cancer: Don't impose your own ideas on the other person
Cancer men in life always make people feel that they have a loss, they are careful about what they care about, especially for their own feelings, judging whether Cancer is really attached to a person, you can see whether they are willing to bow down for each other. Cancer men are very passive in front of the people they really love, they dare not and will not make decisions in a willful way, for fear of provoking the other party's disgust.
And Cancer guys don't let any of their own ideas be imposed on each other, they will give each other enough personal space, and they won't let others feel very depressed with them. In love, Cancer is the type that pays more, and often even self-sacrifice, but fortunately, in the end, they will generally get the other party's return.
These zodiac sign boys are actually very concerned about feelings, but also very willing to pay the type, they are not born without opinion, everything must obey the arrangements of others. It's just that for the people they really like, these boys can't bear to ask them to do something. They take each other's opinions into account in everything they do, so in general, as their lovers, they are very able to experience the feeling of being respected.
But we also need to know that we can't blindly go down to the bottom of the matter, because everything is too late, in the relationship, respect for the other party is a good thing, but if the other party regards your sincerity as a kind of cowardice, then there is no need to do it again in this case.
The purpose of respecting the other party is to make this relationship smooth and smooth, rather than letting the other half go to the inch, so there must be a degree in their hearts, otherwise, too passive, but will achieve the opposite effect.