Some people say that it is easy to fall in love, but it is too difficult to get along.
In this era of advocating self and flaunting personality, it is not a new thing for two people to fall in love together, but getting along is a big problem.
Many people often start with the appearance value, and each other has a heartbeat signal, but they leave in a hurry because of the three views, personality incompatibility and other reasons.
Obviously, in this impetuous era, it is not easy for a love to go for a long time.
Simply put, if you want to maintain a relationship, in addition to being sincere, you must also have enough wisdom in life.
For example, in the face of those who are easy to pamper and proud, blindly accommodating and paying does not guarantee that you can be cherished, and it is even more difficult to want to be white and not separated.
Today, we may wish to talk about which zodiac signs can not be used to love, the more you behave, the easier it is to lose.
Aries
In the eyes of many people, Aries looks gentle and kind, warm and generous, cute and sweet.
However, sheep and goats have two characteristics in love:
One is easy to spoil and petite, and the other is to like to lie in the nest.
Simply put, the Aries seen by outsiders is full of beauty, and the sheep in the eyes of lovers is beautiful and headache-
Generally speaking, Aries has the characteristics of three minutes of heat in love, and enthusiasm comes and goes quickly.
In the beginning, he tends to show a very good side, eccentric, playful and cute.
Before long, after the sheep regard you as their own person, they will reveal a more authentic self.
For example, willfulness, tantrums, disobedience...
In fact, most of these characteristics of Aries have one thing in common, that is, like a gust of wind, blowing it is gone.
To put it bluntly, when he is "sick", it is better to ignore him, and soon the sheep will become cute and loving again.
However, if you get used to these small problems of his, he gets used to it and feels taken for granted.
In the beginning, you thought it was fun for the sheep to play small.
But with habituation, small problems become stinky problems, and may even be critical of you, lack of respect for you, and be grateful.
This kind of love and killing life is really not good, gradually, everyone sees each other and hates each other, and finally has to say goodbye.
Your sighing back, leaving only one sentence floating in the wind: If you know today, why did you know it in the first place?
Sagittarius
In fact, young Sagittarius is often a presence that people love and hate.
On the one hand, his performance in love is too good, often allowing people to experience the happiness and sweetness of love.
On the other hand, he is too self-pursuing in love, pursuing the feeling of happiness, so that it is often torturous.
Some people say that if you fall in love with a passionate Sagittarius, if you have the idea of enjoying love, then he will not let you down.
However, if you want a stable and long-term love relationship, then you must carefully consider, see clearly and then choose.
To put it bluntly, when you sit with Sagittarius, don't let him get too egotistical, and prefer to let him get used to you than get used to him.
Especially in his playfulness, once you start, you are likely to lament that you are in love with a wild horse.
How many people know that young Sagittarius often lacks spiritual communication in love, in addition to enjoying playing.
For example, he only likes to listen to happy words and only wants to do happy things.
If you want to tell him about those painful things, he may listen to a few words and impatiently ask you not to say anything.
You may even think that you are pretentious, the meaning of life is happiness, and painful things are just fine forgetting it.
Obviously, the young Sagittarius lacks empathy, and it is difficult for him to feel your feelings except for happy things.
When you meet such a person, when you encounter such a situation, you must not be weak, you must be tough to suppress him.
Perhaps, in this way, you can still win his heart.
Otherwise, he will gain inches and become more intense, and use his reasoning to make you think wildly, suffer from gains and losses, and have no sense of security at all.
There is a saying that I very much agree with: if a person can't let you share the pain, then he may become your pain, not love.