Every time I write about this twelve-sign why I am still single series, I feel like an elder who will urge marriage when I come home for the New Year. The emotional situation of contemporary young people is probably: when there is no love, bored and lonely and pitiful, I want someone to accompany, Uncle Alex, when will our constellation have peach blossoms. Trying to find some opportunities? Tired and don't want to move, good trouble or forget it. A little someone took the initiative to approach, immediately bounced away, save your life silly Mo Laozi. That's it? Really only single anymore. Every time I say that some zodiac signs are more prosperous, I mean that there will be some opportunities that can be grasped, not including falling from the sky and you push out hard and can't push away how to stick to your good sweet love opportunities. So the main purpose of my writing this topic is actually to hope that if you want to fall in love, you still have to make an effort, don't reply to me: sure enough, it is me, our constellation is like this, rushing to the duck for good luck, and then there is no then, everything is counted, and I wrote in vain.
Although the most consistent slogan at the moment should be that we work hard to make money by ourselves, we learn more skills, we become more beautiful and healthy, that is, the best, love does not have to be paid attention to at all. But I believe that most people still want to be loved in their hearts. With the increasing sense of mechanics and repetition in our work and life, being in love can give us a lot of magical moments. So I am still willing to seriously write some love strategies for everyone, hoping to come in handy.
But today I want to write about Sagittarius, I think they are quite adapted to this cool logic, can create a lot of fun for themselves, happiness comes from all aspects of life, there is love to talk about and no love to talk about, may not be a trouble. To say that being forced to be single really does not exist, they only have to choose between being in love and not being in love. According to my observation, Sagittarius love opportunities are not few at all, but Sagittarius themselves do not regard it as an opportunity, and they all control their own people called rotten peach blossoms. However, whether it is possible to talk about a stable and long-term relationship is indeed a problem. So for Sagittarius today, the focus of our discussion is not how to talk about love, but how to talk about this love.
Thinking of the impossible
I talked to my Sagittarius friend and asked her if she recognized Sagittarius, who had been in love for a long time, and provided me with some material. She said, I only know a lot of seamless Sagittarius, please ask the pro side need it? However, we do not deny that there are many Sagittarius who have not been able to think for a long time, so the first point we will first talk about Sagittarius's most famous jianghu rumor: only like people who don't like themselves. Tell everyone that the rumors are true. Talking about love, it must be to like each other, if one party likes first, then the other party must provide some opportunities to pursue, and finally reach two feelings.
It is difficult to get to the shooter here, like their can not go up to catch up, the more chasing Sagittarius feel more annoyed, those who are upside down, the shooter will also look down on each other. Those who ignore Sagittarius, they are interested, and the higher the difficulty, the longer their interest may last, and it is not even excluded that some people will just get into the tip of the bull's horn and run after the impossible person for many years. There can't be various reasons, the other person doesn't want to talk about feelings, the other person doesn't like the shooter, everyone is not in the same place, or the other party has an object. I can say that those Sagittarius who are not in love have a high probability of having someone in mind. They were "entangled" by someone they couldn't catch up with.
The reason why I use the word "entanglement" is because Sagittarius is really unlikely to paste a person upside down for many years, if this person clearly refuses, Sagittarius may be unwilling, but it is not likely to fall into the tangled bitter love in vain to delay themselves, or suffer some big losses, after all, in the matter of feelings, Sagittarius still wants to open. Afraid of encountering an ambiguous person, it will give Sagittarius positive feedback, so that sagittarius feels very happy in the process of getting along. If a person has always been good to you, willing to play with you, but not bound to you, and there is no possessiveness towards you, this kind of in the normal human emotional relationship is called no play, but Sagittarius will still feel that this is the ideal emotional state, indulge in it. Even if the brain is awake, it will still be addictive to this temporary pleasure, and the mind is either engaged in a crush or ambiguous. A Sagittarius is likely to be single on the surface, but not single in his heart.
Entering a state of affection is very slow
As a fire sign, Sagittarius's emotional expression is usually direct and enthusiastic, and they are very concerned about instant gratification, so what they think in the moment, they may put into action. Today I think you are good, and having fun playing with you will produce good feelings and may not refuse to be together. But this state of good feeling is really very unstable and very unreliable, but also based on Sagittarius a lot of fantasies that are completely inconsistent with reality, and when the real contact comes down, reality will soon give Sagittarius a blow, and this kind of liking emotion will immediately disappear. Maybe it's just because of your words, maybe just because of one of your actions, Sagittarius will feel how this is, my previous judgment of this person is wrong, so boring, or forget it. Many people say that the shooter scum is because they did not think well, or they thought too well, completely put the other party into their ideal look, and then practiced this "like" emotion, but "like" can not last long, it comes and goes as quickly as possible.
I know a Sagittarius, rashly lost the confession, the result of the other party agreed, Sagittarius himself is confused, do not know what to do next - how to suddenly start to fall in love, is this real? Also because the other party's confession is too real, the nose is sour and the head is hot, and he agrees, goes home and lies on the bed and thinks about it, but he is unwilling, and immediately wants to retreat. There is also a need to break up with each other, after the division and can not forget, and even feel that they like others more. From the perspective of others, this is indeed very irresponsible and inexplicable, but there is a saying that Sagittarius feels like the moment is really liked, dislike them can not do anything, there is no play and deception. A major reason why Sagittarius can't talk about love may also include your bad reputation in the relationship, which is a situation that most people can't stand and run away when they hear Sagittarius's name.
Sagittarius may not be aware of itself, and that she is an emotionally slow-burning sign. In fact, the fire signs are like this, on the surface look enthusiastic, to give trust to a person and even rely on a long process. Many of the people I know who have walked with Sagittarius for a long time are green plum bamboo horses, and they may have been separated in the middle, but this accumulation of emotions is not broken. So for those who like Sagittarius, I suggest don't rush, even if Sagittarius says they want to be with you right away, you don't think they're ready. Sagittarius cares too much about having fun in time, and they may only be responsible for the mood of the moment. Only after constantly going up and down and going down and going through some things together can they see their feelings more clearly and understand what they want. Everyone in a more relaxed atmosphere, such as friendship relationship, can have more understanding, the emotions established in this process are not easy to disperse, and it is really unreliable to talk about passion with the shooter.
Unable to adapt to the shackles
This is actually a little related to the above reason, Sagittarius may have some misunderstanding of their adaptability, they may not be ready, the hand is out. Love is promised to talk, but there is no way to face the sudden change. What we can't avoid in our emotions is the bondage, two people can never be as free as one person, as small as what time to eat, eat or not eat, you can't do whatever you want, big enough to make a life decision, you also have to take each other into account. Sagittarius may have an ideal emotional imagination that feels good in relationships doesn't make people feel unfree. I also agree that we should work on this, but there is no such thing as always letting others adapt to it, and there is no need to compromise at all. Many Sagittarius are too sensitive to bondage, and the first reaction whenever there is pressure is to flee.
Falling into the wilderness and running away is really the most commonly used drama in Sagittarius. But love is to have a process of adaptation, from one person to two people to change who will have some discomfort, Sagittarius may not give everyone enough time, already have to retreat. If the other party blindly accommodates, especially if sagittarius can feel that it is forbearance, it will not make the sagittarius feel happy, it will only feel sad. They will live up to each other's bad imagination, Sagittarius may come again and anywhere, this sense of guilt makes Sagittarius feel bound, which is one of the reasons why they do not like people who always chase themselves, Sagittarius is definitely not a very scummy, do not pay attention to the kindness and emotions of others, on the contrary, they may also carry a heavy burden on their own, if the other party loves too much, they are afraid that they can not return will make others have more disappointment, they are afraid of carrying such expectations, this is an emotional pressure. Sagittarius can't bear to see others wronged, and of course they don't want to be wronged themselves.
I think Sagittarius wants to fall in love, in fact, what is more needed is to slow down, whether it is the initial understanding, or getting along, or even breaking up, you should remind yourself to stop and think about it. After all, the most crucial step in a successful relationship is not to be together. Talk a few times, get along with different people is indeed no problem, but the shooter should also be a little angry, to ensure a quality ah.
Written | Alex (Yang)
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