A very good song, only for people with stories

I really love you

Sentences are not easy

Eyes drifted

Always have a clear insight at a critical moment

——Tell the Five people "The Only"

Did you cry the saddest night you became an adult?

No

It was the night I couldn't hold back from crying.

I thought that love was a great thing,

Can climb over mountains and mountains, heaven into the earth,

Later I understood,

Not really.

It can't even make you happy.

Recently, I was listening to the song "The Only" by five people,

Some people say that this song is too defensive,

Like a confession, like a farewell,

Like us who can't afford to pick up and can't put it down.

Cangyang Gyatso once wrote:

How many secrets a person needs to hide

To be able to spend your life skillfully?

This shining plateau of Buddha,

Three steps and two steps is heaven,

But there are still so many people,

I can't walk because I'm too heavy on my heart.

01

30 seconds to make a wish

In the NetEase Cloud review,

One comment received the highest number of likes:

I asked him with tears in my eyes:

Thirty seconds after I made a wish,

You're worried that she's scared because of the library outage.

I still hope to spend my birthday with me every year in the future. ”

I learned later

This is a true anonymous love story on Zhihu,

Let countless people cry.

someday

The girl's boyfriend is asleep,

His phone was at the head of the bed, and it was lit up in the middle of the night.

The girl took it and looked at it.

Only then did she find her boyfriend

Over the past year,

Every day I was chatting with another girl.

Big Chinese New Year's Eve, when he asked her out to watch the fireworks,

She jumped up from the bed, and when she went out full of joy,

He's sending another girl:

"Happy New Year and good night."

He drove to school to pick her up on the weekend.

Gentle and attentive to look at her,

As I walked out of the school building,

He was also actively sharing a song with another girl.

Even, on her birthday,

Light a candle, close your eyes and make a wish,

When they can be together forever,

He was looking down,

A message from another girl:

"The library is out of power, I'm so scared."

The boyfriend is with the girl at the same time,

How to distract the message to go back,

She doesn't remember a lot of time.

But these few points in time,

The girls were actually incredibly calm.

It was the eighth year they had known each other.

Both parents have met,

and intend to get married,

Everybody was trying to persuade the girl and the boy not to cheat,

So many years of feelings,

In the end, because I chatted with other girls, I broke up.

It's not worth it,

But the girl insisted on breaking up.

After the breakup,

The boyfriend tries hard and tries to save the girl every day,

Every three or five to accompany her to class and eat,

But she never ignored him,

Until on her birthday,

He came looking for her.

That day she asked him, "Go to dinner?" ”

They came to the nearby soy milk shop,

During the meal she asked him:

"This time last year,

What were you thinking after I made a wish? ”

He didn't understand what she meant.

She asked him with tears in her eyes:

"It's because she's afraid because of the library outage.

Or do you want to spend your birthday with me every year in the future? ”

02

I believe in sincerity

But sincerity changes rapidly

This song is accompanied by this story,

After reading it, the momentum is too great.

Even when we're face to face,

That short 30 seconds,

A person's heart is also wandering.

The girl in the story says:

"What's the reason for the breakup?

Just because he has a verbal act,

Can't even be strictly defined as a cheating confidant of the opposite sex?

No, it's because he's in the cracks of our feelings.

Too many clips that belong to others are inserted.

His heart has wandered,

His feelings and even love are already divided in half to others,

He wanted to share the first person he wanted to talk to

A lot of time it's not me anymore. ”

I don't know when it started.

We don't chat much anymore,

No longer sharing daily life with each other,

Some people say that this is the beginning of the break.

I moved the thought of leaving you.

It's not because you're bad.

It's not because I don't love anymore.

It's your attitude toward me.

Make me feel like your world is not short of me.

03

I love you so much

But I don't like you anymore

"Start,

She frowns and you're panicked;

afterward

She shed tears and you are not nervous. ”

Intuition this thing is still quite accurate,

All the slack you can perceive,

All the dislikes you feel, no longer caring,

It's not because of sensitivity.

It's real reality.

I always thought,

I don't love because the disappointment accumulates a little bit,

Patience is consumed little by little, love is less and less,

Finally choose to let go.

But later I found out,

From the moment of first disappointment,

Just don't love.

It takes many years to warm a heart,

Cool a heart for a moment.

It is easy to forgive a person,

Just, once again, trust,

It's not that easy.

The heart, once it has folds,

It will never go back to the way it was.

In the love movie "One Day",

When the heroine Anne Hathaway,

Crying and hugging the man, he said:

"I love you, very deeply, very deeply,

I just don't like you anymore. ”

When I saw this,

I can't fully understand the meaning of this sentence,

But look back after many years,

only to understand,

It turns out that the real translation of this sentence is:

"I can't control my unforgettable nostalgia for you,

It's just, I have everything to you

There are no more expectations. ”

04

You really know the only definition

It's not as simple as breathing

The cruelest thing about love is that

It's been at its peak from the very beginning.

That kind of excitement,

The intense desire to harvest each other,

The kind of expectation that can't wait to reach the future,

All have been prepaid at the beginning of love,

From now on,

In how to go is downhill.

I like a quote:

"The mountains and seas have their own return date, and the wind and rain meet each other,

There will be reconciliation and everything will go as expected. ”

We are all people with stories,

It is never anyone's emotion that torments you,

It's an obsession that never lets go.

You know,

Not all feelings,

There will be a beginning and an end.

We live in the world,

You have to love some people,

Hurt some people, forget some people.

If one day,

Your love can't go on,

I hope you can touch your conscience and say:

"The effort I can do, I've done,

I can make concessions, I let go,

The changes I can make, I have changed.

I am worthy of the first Pingshui encounter,

It is also worthy of the final slash and slash. ”

May those who meet never be separated again,

May the scattered people,

Never meet again.