"She's transgender, how dare you ask her to be your girlfriend?" The friend said in surprise.
In June 2014, on a beauty pageant in Thailand, a wealthy Chinese man, holding flowers in his hand, greeted a girl named Nisha and expressed his intention to date.
As we all know, "transgender culture" prevails in Thailand.
Nisha is also part of this group, and she won the "Miss Tiffany Universe" contest in Thailand and was named the champion, commonly known as the "Shemale Queen".
As we all know, transgender people themselves are male, take estrogens from an early age, slowly develop into external characteristics of women, and rely on performances to make money.
Gender change is very eye-catching in other countries, but it is very common in Thailand, where the number of such people is about 700,000 according to incomplete statistics.
These sex changers who engage in performance are often more sexy and feminine than real girls, and they are very popular in major entertainment venues.
Generally speaking, out of a normal mindset, few men will be really touched by them. Why does Nisha have such a charm that a Rich Chinese man can pursue her?
Nisha was born in 1992 in a remote city in Thailand to farmer parents, three brothers, and he was the second son.
For the lower strata of society, more boys are a burden on the family, so his mother wanted to be a girl when she was pregnant with Nisha, so when he was not born, she named him Noy.
However, it backfired, and after being born as a boy, his parents were disappointed. Out of a desire for girls, they raised Noy as a girl, wearing girls' clothes and combing girls' pigtails.
Circumstances can change people, and the parents' behavior gives Noy a psychological cue: You're a girl. In this way, Noy also slowly turned himself into a girl, like to listen to female songs, like to play with girls.
Even if you occasionally play with boys, you play the role of "mother". And when the boys played a war game, Noy never participated, thinking it was silly and scary.
Over time, his friends will treat him as a girl, play war games and no longer let him participate, and even when everyone urinates, they will intentionally let him wait far away.
As a child, Noy really thought of himself as a girl.
Dreams are beautiful, reality is cruel. As he grew older, he realized that even if he was like a girl, after all, he was physically different from a girl, but he couldn't go back.
He had a strong desire in his heart to make himself truly a girl, to show her charming style, to attract the attention of all men, and to win praise and applause.
It was then that he paid more attention to transgender people's news, and liked to watch their performances with full attention and bemented by them.
What is Noy's parents' attitude toward this?
From the day her son went to elementary school, the attentive mother noticed the change in her son, and he had to carry a flowery school bag and go to school with the girls.
In other words, Chinese parents will definitely be very anxious, trying to save and correct deviations, but in Thailand, where transgender culture is everywhere, parents are usually more open-minded and willing to let their children grow up according to their own wishes and interfere less.
The success of many transgender people tells them that changing their gender is not so terrible, as long as it is still their own children, leave him alone.
The acquiescence of the parents gave Noy invisible support. It just so happens that Noy's cousin is also transgender, and she encourages her cousin to actively move towards the transgender path.
From the age of 10, Noy began taking estrogens and changed his name to Nisha.
After several years of hard work, the neighbors slowly discovered that Nisha had become a young girl, not only with a thinner voice, but also a graceful waist and smooth and delicate skin.
The neighbors were also very open-minded and congratulated Nisha's parents. Nisha's parents know that the child has a long way to go to become a real woman, and there is still a big hurdle, that is, to rely on gender reassignment surgery, which costs a lot.
In Thailand, the cost of sex reassignment surgery is not high, as long as 60,000 yuan, but that is for high-income people, for a peasant family, such a cost is no different from the sky-high price.
Fortunately, the Thai government has set the minimum age for Thai men to undergo sex reassignment surgery to 18 years old, and parents have begun to save money when their son is 13 years old.
Nisha is also very sensible and wants to share it for her parents, and he goes to a bar every night to perform songs and dances to earn tips.
On holidays, he would also go to restaurants to brush dishes and save up for surgery.
On her 18th birthday, Nisha finally saved up enough for the surgery.
Sex reassignment surgery was a complex process in the past, requiring many steps, into the 21st century medicine has developed, in large hospitals, surgery can be carried out in groups, can be completed at one time, but the pain is unimaginable.
Men are transgender, first of all, many male organs must be removed, and then female organs will be created, and finally external surgery will be performed, and a series of projects such as breast augmentation, laryngeal knot reduction, bone grinding, and hair removal will be carried out in turn.
Individual men also need laryngeal surgery to gradually develop female characteristics.
In 2014, Nisha finally realized her dream, "on the inside", becoming a real "woman", no different from a woman from the outside to the inside.
She is no longer just a woman in appearance, but a woman who is physically and mentally consistent, can get married, and have a normal human life.
In order to become a woman, Nisha has suffered a lot and paid a great price, but her ideal is not just to become a woman, but to win the championship, to be famous, and to run to the road to success.
Otherwise, everything loses its meaning.
How did you become famous? It is to get social recognition and win the Tiffany Miss Universe contest.
The annual Tiffany Miss Universe Contest, which was launched in 1998, has a mixed fortune for the winners.
It is no exaggeration to say that the Tiffany Miss Universe contest is the "Oscar" of transgender people in Thailand, the "dueling ground" of transgender people, and a feast to show the style of transgender people.
It is definitely not an easy task to win the championship in a competition full of masters, and the difficulty is no less than the gold medal on the sports field. For example, In 2004, Miss Tiffany and champion Poy ( Poy ) , after the "sealing", she starred in or participated in the movies "Sweeping Drugs" and "Macau Storm 2", which was in the same frame as the star celebrities, and her acting career skyrocketed.
In order to achieve the achievements of these predecessors, Nisha worked hard and prepared for a whole year.
In the 2014 Miss Universe Thailand contest, Nisha beat all her opponents and reached the podium.
When Nisha stepped onto the podium, her parents, classmates, relatives and friends were all in tears, proud and proud of her.
In the final, Nisha's charming style conquered the hearts of countless men, including The Chinese billionaire Bao Xi.
Bao Xi, post-90s, Beijingers, parents are successful people.
Due to the good family environment, Bao Xi is knowledgeable and talented, after graduating from college, he did not study abroad according to the path designed by his parents, but entered the business sea, created a huge wealth, and was worth more than 100 million.
The family environment is superior, he is also a well-known entrepreneur, Bao Xi is proud, he has never considered, contacted transgender people, even after seeing it in the TV program, he feels that there is a natural rejection.
At that time, Bao Xi's career encountered a little setback, emotionally broke up with his girlfriend who had been in love for five years, he was in a bad mood, accompanied by friends, came to Thailand for sightseeing.
Coincidentally, the hotel where he was staying happened to be hosting the Tiffany Miss Universe contest, and under the influence of a friend, he went to watch the competition with curiosity.
It doesn't matter if you don't look at it, once you look at it, you can never forget Nisha's purity, feminine eyes, charming style, let him be fascinated, full of Nisha's shadow.
At that time, he felt that Nisha was his confidant in his previous life, that he had been born for himself.
Some people, who get along with you day and night, will not make a little wave in your heart; some people you have never known, but in an instant they will have a feeling of déjà vu with her, unless she does not marry. This is probably the so-called love at first sight.
He made up his mind to raise his courage to confess to her, and as Nisha's show was about to end, he quietly went out to buy a bouquet of flowers, bravely stepped onto the stage, and fell on one knee, hoping to be her boyfriend.
His actions surprised his friends and hurriedly dissuaded: "She is a transgender person, have you figured it out?" But Bao Xi ignored it and continued his confession.
Nisha is also a smart girl, since she has chosen this path, she has seen too many scenes, why not understand the common disease of these men, at first sight must be a male hormone outbreak, there is a sense of freshness, after a while it will naturally fade. But what she saw in the eyes of this Chinese man was a piece of sincerity, and she couldn't help but ripple in her heart.
How much courage does it take for this exotic man to dare to ask me to be his girlfriend? I'd like to see, what is so great about him?
Curious and competitive, Nisha decided that she would meet this Chinese man. However, she never expected that this "will" would never be able to separate the two again.
Nisha agreed to be his "temporary girlfriend", giving him a tour guide and offering a commission of ten thousand a day.
To this, Bao Xi gladly promised.
For the first time, the two spent three days together, and Bao Xi's humor and empathy and thoughtfulness left a deep impression on Nisha.
Three days later, Bao Xi's visa expired, and the two reluctantly separated, and before leaving, Nisha cried a lot.
Bao Xi left, hollowing out her heart.
Girlfriend laughed at her too seriously, now men, especially local tycoons, surrounded by beautiful women like clouds, who will take feelings seriously?
Just a month later, Bao Xi reappeared next to Nisha.
At the moment of this meeting, Nisha understood that there was no longer any power that could separate the two of them.
When Bao Xi came, he was alone, and when he left, he was already in pairs.
When he arrived in Beijing, he did not dare to take Nisha home, but arranged for her to be with his cousin, who had already accepted the cousin's girlfriend.
Nervous, he returned home and carefully proposed to his parents that he wanted to make friends with Nisha.
Previously, from their son's mouth, the parents had already learned about Nisha's experience, and in Bao Xi's view, the family would definitely set off a storm.
Sure enough, my father said with a straight face: "You are a person with status and status, looking for a girlfriend in Thailand, or that kind of identity, you are not afraid of losing people, we are still afraid." ”
Hearing this, Bao Xi was silent.
The mother's next statement was unexpected, and the mother said to her father: "What kind of girlfriend to find, that is the child's business, let him decide for himself." ”
After saying that, she turned to her son and said, "We don't interfere in your business, but there is one thing, you boy can't start to mess up and give up, and fail other girls, otherwise I won't finish with you." ”
Listening to his mother's words, Bao Xi was relieved.
He knew that although his father was the nominal head of the family, it was his mother who was really in charge.
Under normal circumstances, the mother has the final say in the affairs of the family.
After getting his mother's "Shang Fang Sword", Bao Xi was unscrupulous, and Nisha received a marriage license, simply living in Thailand, and accompanied his sweetheart in a million-dollar mansion.
To tell the truth, at that time, the mother was not optimistic about her son's love affair, because of the different cultures and language barriers, it would definitely affect the communication between the two, and the son Da Nisha was nine years old, and when he was at home, his son was spoiled and habitual, would he adapt to such a "little ancestor"?
It turned out that the mother's worries were superfluous, cultural and linguistic differences that did not affect their feelings.
Although Bao Xi is nine years older than Nisha, he loves nisha like a father loves his daughter, saying one after another, and he loves Nisha.
So much so that when Bao Xi joked, "Will you leave when I'm old?", Nisha said humorously: "You don't think, where do I go to find such a good 'father'?" ”
Nisha's mother also asked without worry, "Do you love this Chinese man?" You guys are so different in age, will you leave him? ”
Nisha replied, "I and Xizi (Nisha's nickname for Bao Xi) not only have love, but also family affection, which is double insurance, can we separate?" ”
In order to express her love for her husband, Nisha also covered the song "The Loyalty of the Demon", which was specially written on the record: I would like to send this song to my dear Chinese husband.
Knowing that the shemale queen has fallen in love with a wealthy Chinese merchant, people suspect that Nisha has impure motives and covets the wealth of the other party.
At least so far, it turns out that their guess was wrong, and Nisha's love didn't mix too much with copper stink. Bao Xi's family is rich, if it is for wealth, Nisha can completely enjoy its success after marriage.
Nisha did not choose to be a vase at home after marriage, the honeymoon was not over, began the road to entrepreneurship, signed a contract with a company, and did children's clothing design, which is her strength, when she went to college, she studied clothing design.
Outside of work, Nisha is not idle, and the home is designed to be intricate and spotless, so this rich house does not spend money to hire a nanny like other wealthy Thai merchants.
Nisha said that it is not that we can't afford it, but that if we think so, we will lose the love of home.
Bao Xi's mother later visited her son in Thailand and was very relieved to see that the two were so affectionate, but she also had a regret, that is, although Nisha had reconstructed female organs, she could not ovulate, could not have children, and could not pass on the generations.
Bao Xi comforted her mother and said, "Rest assured, we can hold the child, this will not affect you holding your grandson and being a grandmother." ”
In addition to the problem of fertility, the mother is also worried that the two are not a country after all, each has its own career, and it is inevitable to separate, so will it make their feelings in crisis?
As it turned out, this worry of the mother was still superfluous.
During this period, the two had a brief separation, but after each separation, the love for each other was stronger than the new marriage.
Today, after seven years of ups and downs, their flower of love is still so delicate and full of life.
The reason why Bao Xi and Nisha's relationship has attracted much attention is because Nisha is transgender. With the renewal of ideas, transgender people will be understood and respected by society, because they are only a gender orientation of their own, and they do not hurt or hinder others, which is a natural right in life.
I believe that at some point in the future, transgender marriage will be like ordinary people, and it will not cause any more waves.