The two "Huawei princesses" have been highly exposed in recent years, and the most impressive description of the two of them is the following two sentences:
The sister is in a foreign country, and the shackles have not been removed;
The younger sister is a famous woman, and the scenery is endless.
The sisters, whose ages are 26 years apart, staged a hardship of the eldest princess and the wishes of the second princess, living a diametrically opposite life.
Meng Wanzhou and Yao Anna's life experiences are completely different, on the one hand, due to different times, on the other hand, the parenting methods of their father Ren Zhengfei.
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The grand princess's humiliation bears a heavy burden
In 1972, when Meng Wanzhou was born, it was still 15 years before Ren Zhengfei founded Huawei.
At that time, Ren Zhengfei and his wife Meng Jun were busy with their careers and could not go home for many years, and Meng Wanzhou was considered a left-behind child and lived in the remote mountains of Guizhou.
At that stage, the living conditions at home were very poor, and according to Meng Wanzhou's recollection, when he was a child, he lived with his parents "in a house where it rained heavily outside, and it rained lightly inside, and it was ventilated on all sides."
Busy parents, a dilapidated house, carrying Meng Wanzhou's childhood memories, but also forced out a hard-working girl.
In 1993, Huawei was still a small business that few people knew, with only two or three hundred employees.
The 21-year-old Meng Wanzhou graduated from Shenzhen University and entered Huawei, which is still in the entrepreneurial stage, starting from the grassroots level.
She used to be in an administrative position responsible for the switchboard transfer, document printing and other trivial work, but also worked as a cleaner, more than ten years later no one knows her relationship with Ren Zhengfei.
Only because her father once said to her: "The first point of social experience is to have an understanding of people, and the experience of miscellaneous work helps to accumulate these experiences." ”
After that, Meng Wanzhou started from the most basic level of the finance department, successively serving as the director of the international accounting department and the president of the accounting management department until he became the CFO.
Ren Zhengfei once said that the core points of Huawei's success are the financial system and human resources system, and it is Meng Wanzhou who established a global unified Huawei financial organization; led the establishment of five shared centers around the world and promoted the completion of Huawei's global centralized payment center in Shenzhen; and was responsible for implementing the eight-year-long Huawei IFS (Integrated Financial Services) reform in cooperation with IBM...
On March 23, 2018, Ren Zhengfei stepped down as vice chairman of Huawei, and was succeeded by his eldest daughter Meng Wanzhou.
Soon after, he was caught in a huge trap, under house arrest for more than 700 days, and even received death threats.
It is worth mentioning that at the same time, along with "Meng Wanzhou received death threats in Vancouver many times", there is also Ren Zhengfei's young daughter Yao Anna.
Recently, on the rotating chairman interface of Huawei's official website, Meng Wanzhou's name appeared.
Six months after returning to China, Meng Wanzhou became huawei's supreme leader, presiding over the company's strategy and various affairs for 6 months.
Although the love of the strict father for his daughter is not gentle, it can make the daughter realize the cruelty of the workplace and the harshness of the commercial society in advance.
With strong resistance, she has preserved the dignity of the family, and also showed the world the dignity and demeanor that a big country should have.
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The Second Princess's "Yangchun White Snow"
Compared with her sister Meng Wanzhou, her sister Yao Anna's growth is much smoother.
Yao Anna was born in 1998, at this time Huawei is already the leader in the industry, with a valuation of nearly 10 billion, with a golden spoon born of Huawei's little princess, enjoying the best education.
He began practicing ballet at the age of 5 and played the piano well at the age of 9;
From an early age, he received an aristocratic elite education, primary school, and went to Oxford College in the United Kingdom to receive education. Returning to China in middle and high school, he attended Shanghai International Department Middle School, and his grades have been stable in the top ten of the grade.
Looking at Yao Anna's growth process, we can see that she is also very good.
At the age of 18, she was admitted early to Harvard with a full SCORE of ACT, and that year Harvard admitted only 4 students in China, and the ballet also won the title of the highest level winner of the Emperor Ballet RAD.
But the public is really familiar with Yao Anna because of her high-profile debut.
Ren Zhengfei is not an old woman, and he is particularly fond of his younger daughter. Compared with the difficult mission carried by her sister, her sister's life path seems to be very smooth.
All along, Ren Zhengfei's attitude towards the eldest daughter Meng Wanzhou and the younger daughter Yao Anna have been the focus of public controversy.
It can be said that how strict he is with Meng Wanzhou, how much he loves Yao Anna.
After all, when Yao Anna was scolded for her debut, Ren Zhengfei said:
"She loves literature and art, and my attitude is still supportive."
In order to help his younger daughter's career in the entertainment industry, Ren Zhengfei also specifically knew Yao Anna's agency and asked her about her future development.
On April 23, the 75th Cannes Film Festival announced the list of short film competitions, including the short film "A Cliff Rises by the Sea" starring Yao Anna, which is also her best performance in the entertainment industry.
But Yao Anna is still an inevitable comparison with her sister Meng Wanzhou, and one of her most controversial pictures is that she steps on the crown under her feet, comparing it with the tracker on her sister Meng Wanzhou's feet.
The sister grew up in the early stage of Huawei's entrepreneurship, the family material conditions are certainly not rich, and the sister's growth and Huawei's vigorous development period, various conditions are better.
The sister studied in China and was influenced by traditional culture, and the younger sister studied abroad and experienced the baptism of Western culture.
These differences have caused differences in the sisters' values: the sister is willing to devote her life to Huawei's development cause, while the sister wants to avoid her father's career and start her own business.
The family environment in which the sisters grew up is also different, the family backgrounds of Meng Mu and Yao Mu are different, the education received is not the same, and the education and inheritance passed on to their children are also different.
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The second is always more favored than the boss?
Most families with many children have a similar style of painting:
The boss is bitter, naturally "sensible", and shares the worries of parents;
The second sweet, accustomed to "willfulness", lives more freely.
Behind this, it actually reflects the expectations and requirements of parents for different children.
When you have your first child, your parents are basically still relatively young.
The age of prosperity and strength is the age of fighting for career and work, and there are unlimited prospects for the future. The birth of a child is like sowing a seed of hope.
What are the completed and unfinished expectations, all look forward to the child can "realize the dream" for themselves.
Unconsciously, the boss was implemented a "suppression education", and in the face of discipline in the eyes, the boss was given the "hope of the whole family".
The boss's self-requirements are naturally high, afraid of making mistakes and provoking adults to be angry, being restrained, understanding, and paying silently.
When most families have a second child, the parenting concept of parents tends to change greatly, and the second child is generally "encouraging education".
As we grow older, our life experience becomes richer and our pursuits in life are different.
My work and life have been very hard, I hope that the second brother can be healthy and can grow up quickly; his life is monotonous, and he hopes that the second brother can live a colorful life and do what he wants to do.
Like Ren Zhengfei's two daughters, Meng Wanzhou's unfazed wind bone is the result of his father's "suppression education";
Behind Yao Anna's unremitting struggle for her dream, she also has the confidence given by her father's "encouragement training".
Such differences are both innate and nurtured.
A good way of education is like this, it looks a little imperfect and unreasonable, but in fact it has an inherent law of operation - respecting the nature of the child and being proud of him.
True affection may be like this, as one poem puts it:
I love you, but I'm not just you.
I want you to be well, but I've never been too demanding,
I want you to be happy, but I don't want you to pretend to be happy.
In this world, I actually love a lot of things,
It's not just you, but I love you the most.