The current situation of blind dates is polarized, and it is also seriously differentiated, in the city is a group of women to grab a high-quality man, and in the countryside is a group of men to grab a woman, even if the other party is a woman with a second marriage with children. So why is it now a handful of rural singles. There are more women left in the city.
Why is this happening? In fact, to sum it up, there is only one reason, that is, I always want to find someone I don't deserve.
Two days ago, I told a girl that I was matchmaking, and I couldn't help but complain. A girl is 32 years old this year, with a height of 162 and an ordinary appearance. It's just going to dress up.,Although it's a bachelor's degree.,But it's also three.,The school is average.。 After graduating, I also changed jobs two or three times, and now I am doing sales, and I heard her say that her annual income is about 70,000 yuan. Chatting with her, she said that she was not very demanding in choosing a mate, had the same three views, and had the same temper. I asked her if there were any other requirements, such as material, after all, people are realistic nowadays, especially when they are looking for objects. Hearing me ask, she was also a little hesitant, but later said that there was no requirement, just to look at the man's character, good character and patience, but it is better to have a suite. Hearing her say this, I think this girl is quite reasonable, and the request for a house is not excessive. But how can it still be single?
I said to the girl, I have a boy here, I think it's a good fit for you, he's just like you, he's also a salesperson. The ability is also quite strong, two years younger than you, and the guy looks good, don't you think about it. The girl asked, how about the annual income, I said that it is about the same as you, and it is about 7/80,000 yuan. Who knew that this girl actually said that her income was too low, and her sales were unstable, saying that she was insecure with him. She asked me if I had a higher income and was more stable. There is a catering, the business in the store is not bad, this girl still can't look down on it, saying that the catering is greedy for early and dark, too dirty and tired, and there are no holidays.
There is also a clothing wholesaler, who is also in his 30s, has been doing it for many years, and has stores in several surrounding cities, so he needs to run out often. The minimum annual income is 200,000, which is okay. Who knew that this girl stopped doing it when she heard it, saying that the income was about the same, but it was definitely not possible to be away from home often, what was going on at home, he was not there, what should I do alone.
At that time, I was almost impatient, and I thought, girl, didn't you say that you didn't have any requirements as soon as you came, don't you just look at your character?
I went on to say that there was also a supervisor who was 33 years old and 172 years old. It's just running the construction site every day, and it's a little tanned, and there are photos for you to look at. The girl looked at it and said no, this is too dark, and the height is too low, I am 162, he is 10 cm taller than me, and I am taller than him in high heels. This will also affect the child's height in the future.
The 100,000 animals in my heart rushed past me, and the surface was still calm. I said, what are the criteria for your question, can you be clear? Anyway, they are not what I would ideally be, the girl said.
At this time, I couldn't help it, I felt that I needed to order this lady, otherwise my mind would still not be clear.
I said you think this one is too short, that one is too busy, and the sales are unstable. Then what are your own conditions, average education, average job, you are looking for one of the three books, you are looking for 180 at 160, how old are you this year, you will be 33 soon, can't you be down-to-earth and practical?
After listening to me, the girl was speechless, and said I'll go back and think about it. I really hope you figure it out.
You say that this matchmaker is really not good, and the people here don't treat you as a matchmaker, do you know what they think of you? Come to you. It is said that there is no requirement, but the requirements are more than one and one is higher than the other. They all want you to pinch a perfect good man for her! There are a lot of girls, all of whom are 30+ years old, and they have to ask the man to be tall and handsome. Rich, patient, talented, and the kitchen has become a good man. It's not easy to find a lantern that you just buy, right? I advise you to buy a mirror first and return to reality!