In ancient times, people's class ideology was very serious. Some people are born into the nobility, some are born noble, but some come from humble origins. These people are usually despised by people. In modern society, it is a free thing for women to marry, as long as they look at each other. But in ancient times, it was completely different. In ancient times, Jiayuan valued the life of his parents and the language of matchmakers. The two newcomers can marry only if the two families have similar economic conditions and the parents agree with each other. The story of poor children greeting swans almost did not exist in ancient times. Ancient women were subject to a lot of constraints and pressure from their families and fathers, so they could not resist. However, there are exceptions to anything. The woman we want to talk about today, who dared to fight her father and eventually married a poor child. This woman is Lou Zhaojun, and her life is legendary.
Lou Zhaojun was born very well, her family was very prominent at that time, and Lou Zhaojun was born very beautiful, so her father planned to let her marry the nobles. In this way, the interests of the family can be safeguarded and their families can prosper. But Lou Zhaojun didn't think so. She had her own ideas, and for her marriage, she wanted to decide for herself. One day, Lou Zhaojun happened to see the soldiers guarding the city. He was known as Gao Huan. Lou Zhaojun was very blessed to see Gao Huan's face, and he believed that he would be able to complete a great job in the future, so after Lou Zhaojun returned home, she told her father that she was going to marry Gao Huan. Of course, Lou Zhao's father disagreed. The excellent daughter he had worked so hard to raise was going to marry a despicable soldier. However, his father eventually disobeyed Lou Zhaojun, and Gao Huan also vowed that he would definitely complete a great job in the future. No way, the father let Lou Zhaojun and Gao Huan get married.
Gao Huan knew that Lou Zhaojun's ability to see him was the greatest fortune in his life. Coupled with his own humble origins, he married Lou Zhaojun, Gao Huan was very good to Lou Zhaojun, and the conjugal life between the two was also very happy. At that time, Lou Zhaojun's hometown was very rich, and Gao Huan himself grew up very well, and Lou Zhaojun's father did not suffer losses to his son-in-law. Therefore, he continued to dot Gao Huan in the DPRK, so that Gao Huan's official position continued to rise. Gao Huan's official position was getting higher and higher, and his own ability was gradually increasing, but he was used to consulting with Lu Zhaojun about everything, and he didn't want to snub Lu Zhaojun at all.
At that time, the country was unstable, so Gao Huan wanted to establish good relations with neighboring countries through marriage. After all, this is a good opportunity for Gao Huan to improve his strength. However, Gao Huan considered Lu Zhaojun's idea and eventually gave up on the matter. Unexpectedly, after Lou Zhaojun knew, for the sake of Gao Huan's future, she actually chose to accept, and finally Gao Huan married another woman, but his heart still did not forget Lou Zhaojun. Believing that a woman can make such a decision must have taken a lot of effort. After all, to marry your husband to other women is to bear the risk of her husband's change of heart and interests being stolen by others. However, for the sake of Gao Huan's career, Lu Zhaojun chose to believe him. It can be seen that Lu Zhaojun is different from ordinary women.
Later, when the Eastern Wei regime fell, Lou Zhaojun encouraged Gao Huan to claim the title of emperor, and finally with the help of Lou Zhaojun, Gao Huan successfully declared himself emperor and made Lou Zhaojun empress. After Gao Huan's death, Lou Zhaojun's three sons ascended the throne one after another. Lou Zhaojun was therefore empress dowager three times in his life, and he was noble and wealthy in his life. It can be seen how correct her choice was.
The author believes that Lou Zhaojun was a woman who dared to resist the feudal system, and the oppression of women in society at that time was very serious, but Lou Zhaojun dared to make changes, and she disobeyed her father's orders and bravely married Gao Huan. Since then, Gao Huan's series of behaviors have proved that Lu Zhaojun's choice was not wrong. In fact, Lou Zhaojun's story also tells us that in life, we must dare to break the convention, only in this way can we achieve unexpected results.