Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Feelings are the only way in life, but it is definitely not the salvation of life.
From love to union, men and women are ultimately all the way to run-in and adapt all the way. The parting of the way is mostly unable to truly adapt in the run-in.
Some people say that the wrong feelings, just endure it! Seriously, I really can't agree with such a view!
Feelings are not a test of anyone's endurance. Relationship management is not dependent on who blindly caters to.
In contrast, it is more in favor of those who have the courage to say goodbye to the wrong emotional relationship! If you know that it is a wrong relationship, you must continue, what else can you get but self-consumption?
As a woman, you must always keep in mind the four words of "timely stop loss". There is endless darkness in front of you, and you can turn around and soak up the sun. For the wrong people, sticking to them is disrespectful to themselves and impolite to themselves.
Some women, obviously in a relationship, are still insisting that it is already self-inflicted. But their reasons are even more frowning:
Without that man, I would feel like I couldn't live and I loved him!
You love him, that's right! But without him, why can't you live? Is he really your oxygen?
Look at the women who have the courage to say goodbye to the wrong relationship, turn around and live freely, domineering and wise!
Look at the women who are tormented in the wrong relationship and don't let go, all day long physically and mentally exhausted, tearful eyes complaining, really can't make it!
In this life, no matter who it is, the only salvation is only yourself! People who know how to say goodbye to the suffering of the moment are more likely to obtain the method of rebirth.
When love is a thing of the past, take away what should be taken away, leave what should be left behind!
In particular, when breaking up, smart women will take away three things, which can be called "smart moves":
1: Take away the proud bone
Some women in the relationship, in order to obtain the "balance" continuation of the relationship, have been too humble to dare to have a personality. In the days of Wei Nono, he completely hid his former pride.
Every woman is a princess who once had expectations and fantasies about love.
At that time, they were self-motivated at work, confident in interpersonal communication, and infinitely attractive to the opposite sex.
After entering the relationship, they are "not practical" all day for a man, always doubting themselves!
Women who are tormented and tormented by wrong emotional relationships, all kinds of self-confidence and pride, are crushed.
If this is the case, why not put down all the humility, regain the pride, and return to your own wonderful world?
Many women always over-magnify their "abilities" and think that they will one day "impress" men. In fact, if a relationship does not bring you a truly happy experience, it can only be a normal experience.
Good feelings are people's luck. Wrong feelings are the multiplication of misfortune.
Don't let a wrong relationship become a nightmare for the rest of your life. You are not bad, and you are worthy of the corresponding lucky and evenly matched lover.
2: Take away the ability to please yourself
The right person will make people more and more happy and beautiful in a solid relationship. The wrong person will invisibly put the shackles of uneasiness and pain on people.
Emotional choice is like a big gamble. Some people win the rest of their lives. Some people lose badly and are full of holes.
For someone who has lost her feelings, once she forgets how to please herself, she can only please the wrong person in the wrong relationship. It is not terrible to be confused for love for a while, but it is "confused and addictive".
If, a relationship has been ventilated everywhere, can not become their own spiritual harbor, and then with the wrong person to make themselves cold. Well, even if the relationship continues in the form of the rest of his life, people are equally miserable!
Man lives to chase happiness and freedom and to derive pleasure from it. Misery should not be actively nourished to make it wanton!
A person's "sense of responsibility" is not the continued maintenance of a wrong relationship, but the correct planning for the rest of their lives. Among them, the severance of the wrong relationship is the most important sense of responsibility.
The wrong emotional relationship makes you lose yourself, lose yourself, and forget happiness.
After turning around and leaving, you really understand how to "live" to have meaning!
3: Take away the eyes of the future
At the end of the relationship, no one can really do it without waves inside. More or less, there will be some sadness, or helpless heartache. But I have to admit that leaving the wrong person and breaking the wrong relationship, more feelings are:
Freedom, liberation.
People, after all, will be difficult to quit some habits. But the wrong person, if you really want to give up, some of the so-called habits are easily diluted by time!
Some women, knowing that the person in front of them is not the right person, but when they think of the end, they feel that they can't put it down. Therefore, she thought that she was still in love, but in fact, it was a habit of forming without care at all.
Who can truly love someone who makes them miserable? It's nothing more than a kind of unwillingness, grievance and habit colliding together!
Being trapped in a wrong relationship and continuing to stay in love will only make you have no energy to look forward to the future. Why bother?
When love has become a thing of the past, you must raise your eyes to focus on the wrong relationship in the moment, and at the moment of dashing turn, your gaze is a sea of flowers in the future.
Habits, grievances, and unwillingness are not worth mentioning for a better future! Let go of everything that is not worth it, and you can embrace all the beauty that is interlocked.
Happiness is very simple, as long as you can do the past without looking back, the future will not be.
Have the courage to say goodbye to everything that is wrong, have your own pride, have the ability to please yourself, and have a vision of good expectations for the future, you can become the helmsman of your life.
When love has come to an end, it is only you who can barely hold on! Since you have decided to separate, do not drag the mud with water.
In order not to make the people who love themselves sad, but also to be able to really stop suffering, behind all your timely stop losses, you can see a better future than ever!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: When separated from the wrong person, is your mood relaxed or sad? Leave what you want to say in the comments section.