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Knowingly, someone asked: "Is it that you have had it vigorously, so that you are qualified to say that plain and plain is true?" ”
The answer in the comments section was surprisingly consistent: Of course it was!
Just like the old song sings, drunk Fang knows the wine, and loves Fang knows that it is heavy.
A person's life:
If you don't experience wind and rain, how do you know that the rainbow is gorgeous?
If you don't taste all the pain, how do you know that sweetness is precious?
Without going through the prosperity, how do you know that blandness is true?
Only when you stand on a high place can you have the opportunity to lie down and look at people at eye level.
In this world, I am not afraid of hard work and fruitlessness, and what I am most afraid of is to do nothing in my life, and I also say that ordinary things are precious.
Haven't experienced a career trough
Not enough to say that "lying flat" is cool
Folk singer Zhao Lei experienced a long period of lows before "bursting popularity".
When he was young, Zhao Lei wandered everywhere, carrying a guitar alone, walking through one city after another in China, Tibet, Yunnan, Lijiang, Chengdu, and Xi'an.
He sang very loudly, but no matter how beautiful his dream was, he could not change his destiny, and he was still a bitter wandering singer.
Once in Xi'an, he wanted to sing in the underground passage and earn some travel fees back to Beijing. As a result, hysterical singing for more than an hour only made 5 yuan. Later, he asked his family to make a little money to get back to Beijing.
In 2011, it was the darkest moment of Zhao Lei's life.
Participated in the "Happy Male Voice" program all the way to the promotion, thinking that I finally saw hope, but stopped in the top 20.
After the competition, penniless, he hid alone in the courtyard in Beijing, borrowed 600,000 yuan, and tinkered with his new album "Zhao Xiaolei".
However, this album, which devoted a lot of effort, only sold 2,000 copies. Zhao Lei lost a mess and almost lost his money.
This year, my mother also died of illness. The man who had hurt him, loved him, and supported his dreams since childhood left so unexpectedly.
All the misfortunes struck together, and Zhao Lei fell into a whirlpool of depression and almost couldn't get out.
Until 2017, Zhao Lei, who gradually became famous, was invited to participate in "I Am a Singer" and became popular with the original song "Chengdu".
This year, Zhao Lei was 31 years old. From selling in the underground passage in 2003 to becoming popular in 2017, he sang for 14 years.
Someone said: "In the years when no one cares, don't wander, insist on accumulating strength." Survive that dark night and finally see the dawn of the dawn. ”
Deeply. In the face of life, no one has priority.
When the term "lying flat" became popular, many young people used it as an excuse to escape from reality and stop trying.
However, in a person's life, if you have not experienced the ups and downs of your career, how can you qualify to say that lying flat is very cool?
I have never experienced the pain of marriage
Not enough to talk about tolerance and tolerance
I once saw an intriguing scene in a movie.
In a restaurant, several people were inviting the old boss to dinner, and this day was the golden wedding anniversary of the old boss and his wife.
When they were young, the two were incompatible from personality to living habits. The wife is impatient, the husband has a gentle personality, and often quarrels over small things, even to the point of divorce because of trivial matters.
At the wine table, someone asked the old boss what secrets there were, so that the two could walk through the ups and downs of 50 years, and the old boss opened his mouth and replied: "There is no secret." At the end of the day, just one word, endure! ”
As soon as the words stopped, I saw my wife tapping the table and saying, "No, four words!" ”
Everyone suddenly tensed up, thinking that the second elder was going to quarrel, but the wife looked at her husband with disdain and said, "It is a time to endure and endure!" ”
When the words were finished, the crowd was in an uproar. This short scene is not just a light joke, but a common situation in life.
According to relevant professional surveys, in all seemingly happy marriages, husbands or wives have wanted to kill each other several times.
The lines in the movie are revealing the true taste of marriage: what is forbearance, and it is true to endure and endure.
People think that happy marriages are all you and me, sweet talk, but that is only the story of the prince and the princess in the fairy tale.
In the real world, whose love and marriage is not a chicken feather, full of scars?
However, those chicken feathers have not been seen by others, and under the drying of time, the wound has become a gentle protective cocoon, and no matter how to expose it, it will no longer be as fragile and easy to bleed as when they were young.
If you have not experienced the pain and clutch of marriage, how to talk about tolerance and tolerance, happiness and sweetness.
I have never cried for my life in the middle of the night
Not enough to talk about life
Friend Bai Fan, who is doing HR software development, said that 2017 was the most difficult year of his life.
At that time, the child had just been born, and he had just changed his new job. Husbands and wives live separately, each busy during the day, and only at night do they have time to make a video call and see their children.
For a while, in order to catch up with a project, he worked overtime until late at night every day. I got up at six or seven in the morning to go to work, and I didn't return to my dormitory until eleven or twelve o'clock in the evening, and the next day it was business as usual.
This state lasted for a full month.
The company went to the dormitory for a full 20 kilometers, and after each overtime, in order to catch the last subway, he ran to the subway entrance at a speed of 100 meters. The moment I arrived at the platform, the whole person was so tired that I was about to collapse, and my internal organs were rolling.
Occasionally, when he couldn't catch the subway and could only take a taxi, he was always distressed. The fare does not seem to be much at one time, and when added together several times, you can buy a few more packs of diapers for your child.
During that time, he hardly called home, had not heard the laughter of the child for a long time, and the child almost forgot about his father.
The most devastating one, he had just caught the last subway, and he received a call from his boss asking him to go back and continue working overtime. At that moment, he felt that it was really too difficult.
At that time, there were not many people in the carriage, and he really did not hold back and cried directly.
Only after a person has gone through hardships can he know how difficult ordinary life is.
Zhao Lei sang in "Ideal": "A person living in this city, in order to fill his stomach is exhausted, and talk about what ideal, that is our dream ..."
However, who is not suffering from the "beating" of life while continuing to dream.
After waking up from the dream, he still ran in the wind and rainy streets, swallowed tears into his stomach, and then clenched his teeth and desperately insisted.
If you haven't cried for life in the middle of the night, it's not enough to talk about life.
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Life is hard, but life is exciting.
Some people say: "Life is the sea and the sea, the mountains and the rivers, but Err." ”
Life is like an ocean of uncertainties, ups and downs. After walking through the smoke and rain of Pinghu Lake, crossing the mountains and rivers, I finally found that life is just like this.
Only if you have it vigorously, you know how painful it is to lose.
Only by reading the prosperity of the world is it qualified to say that blandness is true.
I am afraid that you will do nothing in your life, and you will say that ordinary is precious.
May you go through the mountains and rivers and still feel that the world is worth it.