Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Parents may be able to play a lubricating role in getting along with their children when they are older! Once the parents are old, the state of brothers and sisters is inevitable.
Although in real life, there are many brothers and sisters, even if their parents are gone, they still love each other, but they all follow the realistic conditions!
Never say that there is an eternal affection between brothers and sisters. In fact, what never changes is each other's titles and relationships! What directly determines the affection between each other is the "way of getting along" with each other.
When the way brothers and sisters get along violates the rules of reality, and then look forward to loving each other, it can only be an unspeakable regret!
Saying that the public is justified is the most common phenomenon among estranged brothers and sisters!
In fact, the vast majority of people are willing to show their worst side in their own fixed relationships. Not because of the unchanged relationship, but because of the excessive expectations of brothers and sisters, the various anger and dissatisfaction after being replaced by disappointment.
Therefore, the tolerance and acceptance between each other always seem so stingy!
It is true that the more relatives each other, the more they must know how to cherish and manage relationships, but people are willing to do endless internal friction in the brotherhood and sisterhood they are in!
In fact, many brothers and sisters do not have a relationship, but because of the following twisted psychology:
1: Think too much about your own gains and losses, feelings;
2: Because they are too sensitive, they speculate too much about the language of their brothers and sisters;
3: Deeply feeling their own light, covered by other brothers and sisters, so jealous and unwilling to become addicted;
4: Parents from the previous bowl of water, let themselves feel deeply unfair, so that all the resentment is targeted to release!
Some people, always willing to fulfill their brothers and sisters, later became the most consumed person.
Some people always put too much hope on their brothers and sisters, but in the end, they use their misfortunes to perfectly kidnap their brothers and sisters!
Some people know that life is doomed to be lonely, and no matter what, they have to go out of a world on their own. Mo said brothers and sisters, any kind of relationship, ta is not dependent, not dependent! While becoming a better version of yourself, give your siblings the "timely rain" at the most opportune time.
People are alive, what is transparency?
Live well in the moment without complaining, and do yourself not depend on it. Don't complain about things, don't complain about people!
However, too many people, for such a perception, only in the later years of the most profound understanding!
In his old age, people have experienced too many winds and rains, seen all the vicissitudes of the world and the cold of the world, and know:
In this life, in fact, the relationship between brothers and sisters is the most realistic!
Violating the rules of reality to get along, brothers and sisters, is the end of old and dead!
However, I hope that too many people will not wait until their old age to know this truth, they are sorry and sad, and everything is too late!
Taking advantage of the good sunshine and the long years, we must know how to follow the rules that are more realistic than other relationships, in order to obtain the most harmonious long-term love and mutual protection between brothers and sisters.
Between brothers and sisters, if you want harmony, you must avoid internal friction. To avoid internal friction perfectly, it is necessary to follow the following "realistic" conditions:
First: Weigh yourself
In any kind of relationship, in order to obtain long-term interaction, it is necessary to satisfy each other's comfortable balance psychology. Once the psychology is out of balance, the relationship breaks down.
Don't think that the person you are facing is not an "outsider", you can wantonly consume the love in the relationship!
People who do not know how to examine themselves and blindly take what they want in the relationship are doomed to be abandoned by the relationship!
Everyone has a scale in their heart, but often people use this scale to weigh others and forget to weigh themselves!
When dealing with people and finding problems from yourself, all problems will be solved! The more brothers and sisters, the more they must learn to examine themselves.
Unless, of course, you want the relationship to have no room for continuation at all!
People who don't know how to weigh themselves, no matter how much they care about their brothers and sisters, they are just hypocrisy! People who really care about others will definitely bring tolerance and generosity and humility to the extreme.
When you blame your brothers and sisters for not caring enough about you, first ask yourself how much tolerance, generosity and humility you have achieved in this relationship!
If you don't know how to weigh yourself, you are not entitled to ask for it in your brotherhood.
In the face of the real human heart and human nature, the exchanges between brothers and sisters pay more attention to the direct proportion of pay and return!
Second: interests and money are involved, and human nature can be seen most clearly
Brothers and sisters often initially want to promote and help each other, so when one person is enlightened, they must meet the original intention of the brothers and sisters to "ascend to heaven".
But in reality, as long as money and interests are involved, it is the doomed end of long-term sharing!
Some brothers and sisters, even if they were not completely separated because of money and interests, were still "fighting" each other in the open and secret. Why?
Because, psychological imbalance! Think you've given more and returned less! Think that your "good intentions" have been betrayed! Think that you have passively become a "pot back man"!
Lo and behold, such a phenomenon should be deeply felt by too many people!
There are also some brothers and sisters, because the living conditions are different between rich and poor, money borrowing and lending is commonplace!
Over time, however, there will be a subtle gap between them because of such exchanges. Once something small unpleasant happens, it will be infinitely magnified!
Many times, the "collateral" help between brothers and sisters is the most direct way to consume each other rapidly!
Between brothers and sisters, if it is impossible to avoid the involvement of interests and money, then everything must be put on the surface, do not think that the relationship between each other, some "necessary" cutscenes can be omitted!
You know, love is love, things are things, one yard to one code, each other is good to get along! Often, the more seemingly distant the brothers and sisters, the more they can avoid too much internal friction!
At any time, don't forget "Home and Everything". Even if the parents are old, as long as each other's hearts are still together, the "home" of the brothers and sisters is still there.
In this life, people are doomed to the process of subtraction! Anyone can be by our side or leave us at any time. However, the more you reach a certain age, the more you can feel the warmth between your brothers and sisters that no one can give.
Brothers and sisters may have had conflicts in the past, and as they get older, they will be the people who want to meet each other most after many years!
The most down-to-earth way to live in the sea of life is to be able to remember and feel pain for each other in the old age with the people who have their own hearts and minds. I miss the days when I could have more topics to talk about than anyone else!
Believe me, this person will always be your brother and sister! Because, your childhood stories carry the joy of your life!
Life is short, in a limited life, with the most realistic conditions to get along, in the clearest form, cherish your brothers and sisters!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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