Leo people in the relationship, often have a desire to conquer people's hearts, they can give true feelings, can love very warmly, but, many times, they need to take the initiative to love a person, and can not passively accept.
So sometimes, love Leo, but also need to give them a little initiative, do not always think of taking care of them, that is, can be spoiled, but can not be used to, then, with Leo love, what are the rules of getting along?
First, let their enthusiasm have a little room to play
Many times, Leo people are often willing to show their sense of existence in their feelings, how to understand this? It's like, they love someone, to conquer someone, they need to give them space to release their enthusiasm, they need to let them complete this action.
Even if you "self-direct and self-act" and eventually move yourself, you need to provoke their enthusiasm to do this for you, if you are easily moved, or if the personality is too soft to stimulate Leo's desire to challenge.
Then it is very likely that they will stay away and lose their motivation in love, so the key to falling in love with Leo is not how much you love, but how much they love you.
Second, do not make contradictions public
Leo people often have a lot of self-opinions when dealing with problems or contradictions, and they are not used to listening to others, and it is difficult for them to be soft.
Especially when the two sides put the contradiction "white-hot", when it is put on the table, and even affects others, then, perhaps for them, the internal solution is still negotiable, and Leo is willing to give in.
However, if it is already well known, or involves their valued relatives, friends, teachers, etc., then the situation is different.
For a "public image", perhaps Leo will also try to maintain an unquestionable feeling, and even, you need to pay a "price" for it, either apologizing or giving them a step down.
Therefore, for the contradiction with Leo, it is better to try to solve it internally, in any case, it is best not to make it public.
Don't touch their "wounds"
Leo people, in addition to the type that lives very smoothly and beautifully in the process of growing up, most Leos who have experienced setbacks often have wounds in their hearts.
They will remember the moment when they lost their dignity, and they will also feel that some of their failures are a scar that is difficult to pass.
Therefore, even if you are a person who sees people very thoroughly, it is best not to mention Leo's old wounds, let alone "sprinkle salt" on the wounds.
For them, many times it is often the process of "seeing the light and dying", not to mention that everyone can still be safe, mentioned, may have to be forced to face, and you better not underestimate, Leo's boldness.
Don't try to puncture their "disguise"
Many times, Leo will deliberately show a strong appearance, or, in the relationship to create romance, to please you, no matter which, when Leo has a desire to "perform", often to cover up the inner panic.
When they're hurt, they'd rather pretend not to care, and when they go brave enough to say love, it could also be fear of rejection, fear that you're not doing well, and you don't love yourself enough.
Always understand that Leo also has unconfidence and needs to prove themselves when they are not as indestructible as they seem, so don't try to expose them.
Don't overestimate your place in Leo's heart
Many times, Leo people can be very loving, but they can also be fierce, which may depend on whether they have made a decision.
It can be said that Leo is difficult to drag mud and water, indecisive, and they do not have the situation of being bound by feelings and unable to extricate themselves.
Generally speaking, if Leo is rolling in a "quagmire" relationship, it is likely that there are inner trade-offs and rational reasons, not entirely because of feelings.
Therefore, don't overestimate your place in Leo's heart, they can hold you on the throne today, and may fall down tomorrow, because they always feel that they can give it to you because you deserve it so well, and when you are not worthy, naturally you will lose your aura.