In the movie "Later Us", Fang Xiaoxiao decided to leave Lin Jianqing, Lin Jianqing, as usual, was still playing the game, she simply said a few words, and then picked up the bag and went out.
When Lin Jianqing heard her speak, he didn't lift his head until she went out, and after a few minutes he reacted and rushed to the subway station, but there were two people, one in the car and one outside the car.
Since then, they have parted ways and have their own lives.
It can be seen that when a woman wants to leave, even if she still has you in her heart, she is only quiet, silently making all the plans to leave, and does not want to have any entanglement with you anymore.
You think she's just joking with you, you think she's just going out to buy groceries, you think she's just angry, just coaxing... But most likely, she is saying goodbye to you, never to see each other again.
So, if the woman next to you, she is still like a child, enjoying your spoiling, making trouble with you, pampering you, and being herself in front of you without any fear, then don't doubt, at the moment, she must be deeply in love with you.
"Messing" with you shows that she "doesn't treat you as an outsider"
Liu Qingyun once said to his wife Guo Aiming when he won the award: Whenever I fly a spaceship to an unknown place, you will always let me return to the earth safely.
Love, is a shallow encounter, deep attachment, is to put the little monster hidden in your heart, release, in front of you, innocently noisy, casual play.
The woman's heart was moved, and so was the case.
She will show her truest side in front of you, be angry with you, be willful to you, and let you see the joys and sorrows hidden from others.
Just because you have entered her heart and made her feel dependent, you are the one who makes her very relieved.
Even if she is outside, her makeup must be kept exquisite, she pedals a few centimeters high heels, her eyes are sharp, and when she negotiates, she will kill everywhere, but in front of you, she will be like a kitten, touching your beard, arguing with you about where to eat, even if you are clamoring to lose weight, but she will always go to a friend's dinner with you.
And, if a woman is still very reserved for you, very distant, so much and a half, her heart for you, has not yet reached the step of the heart.
Her courtesy to you is a warning to you: you are just an ordinary friend to me. Therefore, a woman's heart is not so "needle under the sea", and her words and deeds will make you instantly see through her mind.
She loves you, she makes a fuss about you, she doesn't love you, she is quiet.
"Messing" with you shows that you are very important to her
Once, a colleague had dinner, and a female colleague brought her boyfriend in.
The female colleague is a hot personality, usually whirring people, and her boyfriend, but Sven, wearing glasses, rarely talks.
Someone jokingly asked him: Don't you think she's making a fuss?
He smiled and said, "No, she's just a child."
In a word, it is very enviable. Perhaps, love is like this, you make trouble, I am afraid, you are angry, I coax, days, there is fun.
In life, we will always find that those partners who respect each other as guests can easily part ways, but those couples who have a small quarrel for three days and a big fuss for five days have lived a lifetime.
This fuss, the noise, the coaxing, is the pleasure they have together.
A woman's love is actually in that one "noisy" word. You don't have a car or a house, but you can be her hero, and most importantly, you can catch all my temper.
You call her crazy in the crowd, she shouts my troubled hero in the sea of people, you can appreciate each other, never dislike, never get angry.
Don't wear a mask, play various roles, don't have to manage expressions, pinch yourself at all times, remind yourself to "say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing", just need to be the most authentic yourself, cry when you want to cry, laugh when you want to laugh.
Because, you are very important to her.
"Messing" with you shows that you are worthy of his dependence and makes her want to rely on it
Perhaps, when walking down the street, you look at the big legs of other women, and she immediately grabs your ears and scolds you;
Perhaps, on the weekend, she made a meal, called you a few times, you are still addicted to the game, she immediately rushed over, and unplugged the power socket;
Perhaps, you inadvertently, praise others, she immediately changed her face to you, ignoring you for a few days.
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She "makes trouble" with you like this, only because, in her heart, you only belong to her, you should not focus on others, you can't play far better than her, you can't feel that other women are better than her...
And all this, her dependence on you, is to prove that you are the person she loves most deeply.
When one day, she is no longer preoccupied with you, you praise any woman, you peek at other women, you play games all night, you drink with your buddies until dawn... She didn't say a word more, she was silent, and at this time, you weren't so important to her.
It's also quite possible that she already wants to give up on you.
So, men, when a woman makes trouble with you, don't feel annoyed, think that she is making a fuss, enjoy it, she argues with you, the moment of making trouble with you, because, at this time, she really cares about you.
When one day, you feel that she is well-behaved and sensible, and does not say anything, it is not that she has been accepted by you, but only in her heart, there is no longer you.
Conclusion:
There is an old saying:
"Happiness, but she is making trouble, you are laughing."
Yes, only in front of the people he trusts the most will he show his vulnerability, will be like a child, laughing unscrupulously, crying with a handful of snot and tears, and there will be endless ghost ideas to tease this person.
Because of love, it will make trouble; because it believes, it will be clingy; because it cares, it will be calculated.
Qian Zhongshu once said: Life is an encounter, if the end is you, I will run to you regardless of myself.
A woman who treats you like this is actually opening up all the forbidden areas to you, so that you can see his gains and losses, sensitivity and suspiciousness, stubbornness and uneasiness... All these shortcomings are exposed in front of you.
She is convinced that you will be completely tolerant of her, you will not abandon her, you will not abandon her because you see her unbearable, which is why she dares to be so arrogant.
So, cherish the woman next to you who can mess with you!
Because, she is desperate to run towards you.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!