I feel that every Leo has a bad problem that makes him want to smoke his big mouth when he thinks about it, that is, his mouth that can't be said when he should say it, and always blindly says it when he shouldn't.
For example, a good friend is in a bad mood, and the lion sees that he wants to comfort him, but as soon as he opens his mouth, it seems to be a ridiculous tone. As soon as he saw that his friend was displeased, he didn't know how to explain that he was joking, and he thought about it, "This joke can't be opened, and I haven't provoked you, and I'm angry", which will make the relationship between the two people more embarrassing.
For example, the lion just had a conflict with the object, the heart is uncomfortable, and as soon as he sees his friend, he grins at it, "I just dumped him, I wanted to break up with him for a long time, and I really suffocated with him...", and I accidentally let the other party know.
The lion wants to open his mouth to explain, think about it, this is obviously the words coming out of his mouth, why explain? I was so anxious that I wanted to give myself two big mouths.
Or, seeing that the two friends had a little conflict, the lion firmly chose to help the friend he liked more, said a bunch, did a bunch, and the result was that the two of them reconciled, and only the lion was silly and more like an outsider.
Good intentions say the wrong thing, good intentions do bad things, this is all counted.
But the lion always feels that since he is well-meaning, he should not have too much explanation, and it is the problem of others that others have misunderstood, and it is good to be ashamed of his own heart.
However, the lion can not be ashamed, but because of face and self-esteem, the lion does not want others to see that he is hurt, can only hold out the internal wounds, hold out the shadows, and hold themselves out of themselves.
Obviously I want to care about each other, but I feel that the other party does not seem to accept, as soon as I open my mouth, I change the taste, like I am targeting and mocking, in order to explain in a hurry and do not want to lose face, increase my voice, speed up the speed of speaking, my face is red, and the result is more like a quarrel...
The most critical problem is that the lion's own voice assembly feels that it is because of its own anxiety and concern, and the other party's voice is big, the lion will feel that the other party is roaring at itself... Then I start to feel wronged...
As a result, I was really angry.
In fact, the lion is really not a careful eye like to calculate people, but many people think that the lion has a big temper, all because this itself is not a quarrel, the result is that after a quarrel, it really becomes a quarrel, and then the lion argues and does not know why to quarrel, only to feel, "You roared at me, I will yell at you, you scolded me, I will definitely scold back", but I have forgotten who opened the head first.
In fact, whoever opens the head lion first doesn't care at all, he only cares about who closes the tail.
So care about the other party, being told a meal, aggrieved almost crying can not return the mouth, and finally have to hide a person to secretly wipe tears, that is too humble.
It really can't be said that the lion is unreasonable, because in the lion's view, to love a person must tolerate his unreasonableness, the lion feels that he is like this, if the other party does not understand the intolerance, it is a manifestation of not caring.
Knowing that the person who is more injured in a fight must be himself, the lion will still quarrel.
Because since you feel that the other party does not care enough, you will either argue until he cares, or argue until he leaves.
Lions never weigh the pros and cons of feelings, and they will never choose to give in and compromise in their feelings.
Love is love, not loving is not loving, what does it mean to not love enough?
Lions never cultivate and maintain feelings, and they never change themselves to cater to each other's orientation.
Because it is necessary to cultivate and maintain feelings, it cannot be called feelings. If you change yourself to cater to the other person, then the other party loves not yourself.
This logic is really special and critical.
"If you don't change, I won't love you because it's too tiring to be with you."
"It's really fun to be with you, but if you can control your temper, our relationship will definitely be more harmonious."
The effects of these two ways of speaking are worlds apart.
Because the lion will only cut the key words when reading such sentences.
Like the one above, the lion cut out "not loving" and "too tired".
And the following one, the lion cut out is "happy", "harmonious".
It must be to let the lion willingly give in and change because of love, rather than forcing him to change himself because he is afraid that his feelings will leave.
The lion can be strong for love, fight for love, shed blood and tears for love, but must not be wronged for love.
Because "you make me aggrieved just don't care about me, I won't fight for you anymore."
Seriously, the greatest tolerance for lions is eight words.
Talk well and say good things.
(When he was so angry that he couldn't control himself, he reminded himself repeatedly in his head, come on)
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