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It is said that poverty limits people's imagination, but in the magical reality, people's imagination has let go of the self and is completely detached from reality.
Almost all levels are polluted by this kind of vanity, almost all people are wrapped up in this kind of exaggeration, and only desire is left in the rolling red dust.
The most serious place of collapse is the exquisite egoism ignited by Internet celebrities and celebrities, and the arrogance and lavishness that arise from it.
When all this finally falls, stopping at the heads of people who have to face life, love, marriage, and raising children, only to find the reality of the tragic.
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A sad story
When I heard this story in the video, my heart was sour and hurt, and the sourness was because such an atmosphere had taken shape, and the pain was that too many people were deeply involved in it.
The protagonist of the story is 26 years old, a rural family, who wants to buy a house in the city and get married, plans to buy a 90-square-meter house, and the down payment needs to be three or four hundred thousand.
In order to help him get married and buy a house, the whole family went into battle, and his parents pieced it together and tried every means to borrow money everywhere, even counting Grandpa's coffin.
They said all the most humble words in their lives, they threw away all the faces of this life, and finally barely scraped together enough money.
However, the girlfriend still felt that it was not enough, thinking that the house was too small, and wanted them to pay a down payment of five or six hundred thousand yuan to buy a bigger house.
He and his girlfriend said that buying a 90-square-meter house is already the limit of their family, there is really no money, but the girlfriend said, who can't come up with half or sixty thousand now?
This sentence shocked the anchor of this video, and also made me collapse when watching this video, "Who can't come up with half or six hundred thousand now?" ”
If we're calm enough, do we really think about what half or six hundred thousand means for an average family? It should surprise people.
The anchor calculated for everyone: 5,000 yuan a month and 60,000 yuan a year, and 600,000 yuan for ten years without eating or drinking, so in fact, if you want to save this 600,000, I am afraid that you will have to work hard for 20 years.
And a family with 600,000 assets and 600,000 cash, that is completely two concepts, a family that can take out 600,000 cash at any time, family assets should be more than 3 million.
This is still a conservative algorithm, and there are many families who can now have a set of one or two million properties, but they have not seen a few families that can come up with 600,000 cash at any time.
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The cause of the tragedy
The ending of this story is depressing, although the money is together, the marriage is also married, but the days are not long, the little two still can't withstand the pressure of paying off the mortgage every month, and divorced.
Don't think about it, how can a girl who can say" "Who can't come up with half or six hundred thousand now be willing to live with her husband in this kind of hard life?
Their lives will certainly give birth to an unknown number of contradictions and struggles, bitterness and harm because of this entanglement.
Maybe from the day they get married, the two people will quarrel over this contradiction, even if it is only a little trivial, will pull this sad pain point.
Girls will resent their husbands' poverty and will not respect their husbands; boys will be ashamed and aggrieved because of their wives' grievances, and they will not be able to take care of their wives.
You can imagine how terrible such a marriage will be, how tragic life will be every day, and if they do not find the essence of the problem, the end will only be divorce.
But the tragedy is not only this case, in the face of the surging tide of divorce, how many couples are prisoners in prison?
For people who are only alive, it is true that a comfortable house is the biggest guarantee of marriage, and the security provided by the house is enough to make people feel safe.
Naturally, if you want to buy a house, you need money, and if you want a big house, you need more money, so all kinds of tragedies are staged:
After love is polluted by money, it becomes the most disgusting transaction, and no matter how deeply you love, it will eventually become a bitter hatred because of the transaction.
And marriage becomes the most evil relationship after it is tarnished by money, and all the intimacy and responsibility of both parties will be distorted and hurt.
So the anchor's question: Why do many young people now find it particularly easy to make money? It has become a soul torture that everyone must think about today.
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The horror of lies
The anchor believes that a very important reason is that many people have been wandering around the virtual world for too long and have serious deviations from the concept of money.
Indeed, not to mention the modern TV series, it is a luxury car, a famous brand, an aristocratic lady at every turn, as if every protagonist is born with a golden key.
Of course, people are not pie in the sky, but self-made success in the design of the choreographer and under their own efforts.
Therefore, all paper drunk fans have their rationality, all the extravagant glitz is full of attraction, so why don't we pursue such a beautiful life?
Let's talk about those Internet celebrities who show off their wealth, the celebrities who are spoiled, and the overbearing presidents, which one does not make people look envious and jealous?
As a result, all kinds of glamorous and vicious evil flowers were born, what pseudonymous ladies encountered scammers pretending to be rich second-generation, and fake rich and handsome met false white rich beauty.
Each category of show off wealth can be derived into an independent chain, and behind each show off wealth, there is darkness behind the moon.
In fact, behind the exquisite poverty, there is a high cost of life, and the truth is always bloody.
When a society is filled with these vain luxuries, and what people pursue is attracted by these vanities, the evil comes.
Countless people who have been brainwashed by the rumors of overnight wealth are no longer trying to live, but trying to pretend.
Nature plants what it takes, a law that never changes, and it will waver at all those who have been brainwashed by these lies.
Look at the marriage rate that has withered to a miserable level, and then look at the divorce rate that has flourished to be frightening, and you will understand what is wrong with this society.
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Why get married
This world has long since fallen, which is already an indisputable fact, but the souls who really see through this fallen world are quite scarce.
Most people are bound by lies, so that they unconsciously believe that money and material things determine everything, and the most powerful thing is the phrase "poor couples Pepsi Lament".
When people focus on "poverty" and are unwilling to think about the meaning of the whole poem, they will not only misunderstand the meaning of this sentence, but also make themselves self-righteous.
Poor and lowly couples Pepsi lament, from the Tang Dynasty poet Yuan Shu's "Sending Sorrows", the original sentence is "Sincerely know that this hate everyone has, poor and lowly couples Pepsi mourning".
The translated meaning is: I sincerely know that the hatred of death is shared by everyone in the world; but it is even more painful to recall that our husband and wife shared happiness and suffering in the poor days.
Obviously, Yuan Shu is not lamenting that the life of the poor couple is very sad, so he feels that everything is satisfactory and sad, but laments the early death of his wife.
Yuan Shu remembered that his wife had suffered a lot with himself, and did not enjoy a good life, so he died, so he felt extremely sad, which led to the lament of "poor couple Pepsi Lament".
It is so touching and warm poetry that it can be misread as such a magic, and it is really chilling to say.
If everything is sad between husband and wife just because there is no material basis for family life, then the marriage itself is a tragedy.
Therefore, this sentence is to encourage those couples in poverty to cherish the time together and not to be cut into the lies of this world.
People who understand the meaning of this sentence should be the living people who know why they want to live and why they want to get married, not the dead people who live and eat and wait for death in order to live.
Because the living person will not be concerned with the vanity of the world, the satisfaction of his own selfish desires, but with the mission and value he is given.