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This zodiac sign is always secretly blaming itself

This zodiac sign is always secretly blaming itself

There has been a real change in Aries lately.

For a long time, I felt that Aries was the kind of person who was energetic, liked new things, liked challenges, liked adventures, and had the courage to express feelings.

In fact, many Aries are indeed like this in the process of growing up.

But I don't know when it started, but suddenly I found that the Aries friends around me were gradually becoming less active.

They can't see their dynamics in the circle of friends, there are fewer and fewer speeches in the group chats, and the gatherings between friends are not so active, and it can be clearly felt that he has changed.

Perhaps many small white sheep will feel that they will fall into a state of not wanting to contact the outside world and wanting to be quiet and quiet.

But have you ever wondered why you got into this state and how you got out?

I would think that Aries is really a person who likes to compete and then fight with himself.

He would always grasp a point that made him regret and deduce over and over again what would be the result if he did it, what would be the result if he did it, if he did it then, if it was what would happen now.

In this state, the Aries is maintained in a high degree of purity.

That is, he does not bring any personal grudges, but thinks about why two people who have a good relationship at the beginning become enemies. At the same time, he will not say that he thinks about this because he wants to repair the relationship, he will think that it is to avoid such contradictions with new acquaintances in the future, and he will reflect on them.

He would think, feelings aside, that this was a time for him to think.

But he did not find that this kind of thinking and judgment was actually a process that consumed his enthusiasm, feelings and belief.

He didn't want to blame the other party, because everyone didn't have a vendetta at the beginning, so there must be some contradiction, some misunderstanding, or where he didn't deal with it well.

He didn't want to blame himself, what good was it to make himself sad for someone who had already left?

So often, it is difficult for him to come up with an answer through these thoughts after a broken relationship. Instead, with the mood and the change of state, different answers will be deduced continuously.

It may be that the personality is incompatible, it is that they have said the wrong thing, it is the other party who has stepped on their own minefield, it is the timing of the appearance that is not right...

This zodiac sign is always secretly blaming itself

However, there is one contradiction that cannot be figured out, that is, why two people who were once so good have developed to this point.

No matter how Aries reflects and deduces, this beginning, this ending, he can't change it. That's why I would say that Aries' process of reflection is actually a process that consumes his passion, affection, and belief.

Reflection is something that everyone has, so why just say that Aries is consuming itself?

I always say that the Aries is simple, that the Aries has a good heart, that the Aries maintains its original intention and some pure goodness, but in fact, more refers to this state.

When Aries recalls these people or things, it is really difficult to blame those who have hurt him, and even he will not feel that the other party hurt him, but will think that it is because he has not thought about it and will feel wronged.

To put it bluntly, as long as the Aries can still blame each other, it must be because the feelings have not ended, the relationship has not yet dispersed, so the Aries has a reason to blame the other party with such an identity.

Then once the relationship is really over, there is no such identity, and the Aries has no way to blame the other party.

It can be understood that all the torture, grievances, and pain of the Aries will eventually be nowhere to vent and cannot be released.

Because torture, grievances, and pain will make Aries want to end a relationship, once it is clear and determined to end the relationship, these tortures, grievances and pain will seem ridiculous, meaningless, and let Aries look down on himself.

When he no longer wants to see himself tortured and aggrieved because of a person and a relationship, it is equivalent to the Aries adding a protective cover to his heart.

He was afraid to face this bleak result and simply did not start.

The so-called pain of growth is that in the process of growing up, those who leave people or things make Aries no longer want to believe in a person casually, rely on a relationship, and believe in a future.

After experiencing this, he will think that he will definitely live happier alone, at least not so much trouble.

This will definitely affect Aries's enthusiasm for life.

Why these pains are exclusive to Aries, I think the core contradiction is that Aries is really difficult to blame anyone who has hurt him.

Someone else lied to him, and he would only blame himself for being too stupid.

So he can only chew on himself, reflect on himself, grow on his own, and feel this loneliness by himself.

How long have you not cried in front of others, shown scars, vented negative emotions, all of which only Aries himself understands.

But it is useless to say all this, and Aries may feel comforted by this, that someone can understand him, but he will not change anything.

And the relationship with "what kind of person Aries can't resist the most" is that if you can be willing to taste this article carefully, and then taste the Aries around you, you will definitely find a different him.

For example, when you are discussing where to go on the weekend, although he shows that he wants to go here and there with his friends, what he wants in his heart must be to go to an exclusive place with the two of you, but this must be brought up by you personally, and he will not give any hints.

Aries didn't want to show any of the scars of the past to the people around him.

But this stubbornness sometimes makes him tired, but in fact, he has actually overcome those and has come out. However, sometimes these pessimisms and negativity will inexplicably jump out, affecting his mood and mentality.

He knows that this has nothing to do with you and doesn't want it to bother you.

But he will feel aggrieved because you feel that something is wrong with him but don't care about him, and why you start a new relationship and a new life or suffer from it alone.

He doesn't want to overcome it through you, but he wants you to be able to give him more motivation, confidence and courage to overcome his passive and lazy self.

Gentle and adventurous person.

This must be the most irresistible person for Aries.

"I don't want you to be sympathetic to me, want to help me, I just want us to be able to start a new adventure hand in hand together." As long as you trust each other, you don't have to worry about any challenges."

Being able to enjoy life is the best living state of Aries.

And there is a person who will support himself behind his back no matter what, which must be the main reason why the Aries can maintain a good state.

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