Many boys in the chat with girls, always can not talk together, chat and chat into the state of awkward chat, in the long run, let the girl's attitude more and more cold, then how to chat with girls to not be embarrassed to chat? In fact, you just need to jump out of the misunderstandings in these chats:
First, good feelings are not questions about checking the household registration
When we have a good feeling for a girl, we will definitely be tempted to know her, which will lead us to ask questions when chatting with her.
But most of the boys do not have a little skill to speak of when asking questions, and will only blindly ask questions like checking the household registration, so that girls feel very uncomfortable, and chatting naturally becomes awkward.
Therefore, if we want to chat with girls without embarrassment, then we have to change the way we ask questions when we understand girls, such as wanting to know where girls are, then we can ask: "Listen to your accent seems to be northerners, you are xx people." (In the female mind, describe the state, not aggressive)
You think, if you just ask "Where is your hometown?" (Your masculine thinking, purpose-oriented, aggressive)
At this time, the girl will be out of a sense of protection, perfunctory answer or not answer your questions, and my way is like chatting and nagging, the difference is obvious, more intimate.
Therefore, the first step to avoid awkward chat is to learn to change the way of chatting from the perspective of girls.
Second, showing high value is not showing off
If you want to attract girls through chat, you need to let girls see our value, which many boys also understand, but showing their own value is also skilled, if the display method is not right, not only will girls think that you are very deliberate, is showing off, but also let the chat into an awkward chat situation.
You know, girls are very disgusted with boys unilaterally taking the initiative to show their value, some boys drive a big run, carrying GUCCI bags, these are indeed the high value of hard power, but if you choose to take the initiative to show, such as posting photos, running trains with mouths full of talk, this is not sure to annoy people.
You have a big Ben, why not wait for the girl to ask you what you are doing, say a sentence "I am driving, wait for the next chat", or the girl said that your car is good, you can modestly say that it is for the convenience of transportation, and naturally show these things.
Through this example, you will find that in many similar scenarios, you can reasonably display high-value and show things that the average person does not have.
If you start by talking about yourself, others will think you're pretending.
But you can guide her to talk more and create a good interactive atmosphere, let her turn her attention to you, and let her want to explore you little by little.
When the girl wants to know you, you will passively show it.
In the process of interaction, to show your hard power, so that you can appear both low-key and not deliberate, naturally will not fall into a state of awkward chat.
Third, maintain consistency in the chat
If you are a more man in real life, a boy with an opinion, but when chatting with girls on WeChat, because you like and value, you lower your posture and become a non-committal and nervous, then this is not maintaining good consistency in the chat.
You know, the reason why those scumbags can attract girls is because the consistency he maintains can make girls accommodate him, whether girls hate his ridicule or not, he will not change, not just because they dare to ridicule girls.
Therefore, in the chat with girls to maintain their own consistency, do a good job, whether the other party is an ordinary girl, or a high-value beauty, so as to avoid awkward chat, so that your chat better.