Divorced from the empathy and admiration of both men and women in terms of ideology, emotion, sentiment and temperament, it is only a simple gender relationship, which cannot be called love. ——Liu Xinwu
Many people do not understand the lovers of the entertainment industry, but some time ago many people will see a divorced woman named Wu Yating on the Internet.
To say her name, many people are unfamiliar, but if it is Wang Quexin's ex-wife, many people will have an impression.
At that time, Wang Quexin participated in the competition with Zhang Jie and Chen Chusheng, and was also the top ten of happy boys. After he and Wu Yating married, their love was also a good story.
After marriage, the two had two children. But I did not expect that after giving birth to the second child, the marriage of the two people came to an end.
When the news of the divorce was not yet accepted by everyone, someone photographed Wang Quexin and other women cuddling into pairs.
Subsequently, Wu Yating also appeared on another show, responding directly to her marriage with Wang Quexin and showing a very inferior feeling.
Wu Yating's participation in the program showed sadness
In fact, the acquaintance of the two people is also a fate, Wang Quexin is a star, and Wu Yating was the director of the TV station at that time, and she even served as Wang Quexin's agent for a period of time.
For this boy, Wu Yating is very familiar, and Wang Quexin also spent a lot of thought in order to catch up with Wu Yating.
The wedding of two people, until now, seems so touching and beautiful. But I didn't expect that such a marriage would end in failure recently.
Compared with Wang Quexin's low profile, Wu Yating did not hide it, and she went on a variety show called "Spring Day Delay and Departure".
In this show, she responded rarely to her relationship with Wang Quexin. What makes people feel sad is that in the show, Wu Yating called her ex-husband Wang Quexin, and the other party actually did not hear her voice or save her phone number.
Some people say that if you love someone, you become very humble, even more humble to the dust.
In this marriage relationship, because of this phone call, many people feel that Wu Yating is in a weak position, she obviously paid so much, but still lost everything,
She not only lost her life, but also lost her youth.
But I didn't expect that I had managed my feelings for so many years, and even gave up my job for him, being a full-time wife at home, taking care of the family, and finally being abandoned by the other party.
In the show, it is obvious that Wu Yating's evaluation of Wang Quexin is very high, even if she is divorced, she still only reads his good.
Even at the beginning, she said that when Wang Quexin married her, she clearly expressed to herself: I married you because I loved you, but I didn't expect that this sentence now sounds so harsh.
Wu Yating believes that she is not qualified to regain love
In stark contrast to Wu Yating, wang Quexin's behavior after the divorce did not show any expression after he published a statement.
On the contrary, he was also photographed by the media going out with other girls, which made everyone accuse him of being a scumbag.
After the divorce, not only did he not feel a little uncomfortable, but he turned around and walked on the road with other girls.
Wu Yating participated in this show, so that everyone could only see her sadness.
In the previous episodes of the show, Wu Yating did feel more restrained, and it may be because of the divorce that her mental state is not very good.
But the more comfortable work rhythm makes her gradually open herself, plus other guests are also divorced people, when everyone sits together and talks about marriage, it will make Wu Yating feel relaxed.
However, in the latest episode of the show, Wu Yating believes that she is not qualified to regain love, which triggers everyone's discussion.
In the show, a male guest asked Wu Yating if she could start a new relationship again, but she did not expect that Wu Yating's answer after thinking for a moment was very real, but very cruel.
She felt that she did not have the time or qualifications to accept a relationship. Wu Yating only feels that love is an unnecessary choice, she can obviously do more and better things, not necessarily choose love.
Not to mention that the other party will not necessarily choose herself, because she is not only divorced and married, but also has two children.
Not only others, Wu Yating herself could not accept her current self. Her breasts began to sag after giving birth to a child, and fat piled up on her stomach.
This is nothing, what makes Wu Yating feel most uncomfortable is the caesarean section scar on her stomach, which is very ugly like an earthworm.
The scar coiled around her stomach like an earthworm, and after accumulating over time, the scar even bulged out, and when she wore a tighter dress, there would be traces of it.
Collapse due to caesarean section scarring
Although Wu Yating enjoyed being with her son and daughter by her side, she also enjoyed watching them grow up.
But whenever she saw herself alone with a scar on her body, she felt very devastated, and this scar announced that he had changed from a girl to a woman, even a woman with a little ugliness.
Although countless people around her advised Wu Yating that you are very good, you are still very beautiful, you are a hot mother, but only she herself will find this scar difficult for her to accept.
Speaking of this, Wu Yating's emotions have obviously collapsed, she has never been able to let go of an old feeling, and such an attitude makes her always push when facing new feelings.
Especially when it comes to mothers who are looking for their other half with their children, for Wu Yating, this is not only a divorce issue, but also a matter of stature and family concerns.
Wu Yating has no confidence, there is no way to make the other party accept him, under the same conditions, he can find a better and more beautiful girl, so Wu Yating feels that she can't get the other party's choice, and she will not easily take this step.
Before a woman becomes a woman, many people will have beautiful fantasies about feelings.
Her mind, spirit, and body are beautiful, but not necessarily after marriage.
After giving birth, the marks on their abdomen and body show that they are no longer a young girl.
Physical and mental changes are difficult for a woman to forget and eliminate in a lifetime.
Although many women have put their energy into their babies after giving birth, this does not mean that they do not care about changes in their bodies.
They just deliberately avoided it. Wu Yating is one of many new mothers, and what she cares about is also what many mothers care about.
It's just that in the face of such a complicated life, they can not let themselves see, but this does not mean that we also have to ignore these traces.
As family and friends, we should give these mothers support and strength at this moment, and in the end, we hope that Wu Yating will get out of the shadow of divorce as soon as possible and face a better and brighter life.
I believe that in a certain place, there will always be a person who will see Wu Yating's good and bring her warmth and love.