What do people live for? The pursuit of happiness.
Once, the fathers were under the same roof, sharing weal and woe, but now divorce is very "popular".
Husband and wife are originally the same forest bird, why do they fly separately in the face of great trouble?
Nowadays, as soon as people become famous and rich, they will instantly go their separate ways with their "lovers", especially in the entertainment industry, such as jet li, a kung fu superstar, who abandoned his sister and Huang Qiuyan, the wife of chaff and other celebrities.
And what I want to say today is that there is such a good man, after becoming famous, he turns in his salary card, and the beautiful women are surrounded by zero scandals.
Good actor Ren Chengwei once said: She accompanied me to live in the basement for 7 years, and after becoming famous, how dare she abandon her wife in distress!
From "Snow Without a Trace" to "Never Let You Go", Ren Chengwei created a hard police image, people called him a police professional, and the image of the soldier was also deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and became a movie emperor.
He is not a "weak" man, but a tough guy with a height of 1.85 meters.
In front of him, "Who Can Depend on Each Other"?
Behind his success, which woman is supporting him?
A beautiful woman of the same age, why fall in love with the poorest of him
In 1970, Ren Chengwei was born in a poor family in Heilongjiang, because of poverty, his father died of illness when he was 12 years old.
He didn't give up, he was sad, he missed.
Without his father's love, he experienced the hardships of life and the warmth of human feelings.
When he was in love with the beauty Huang Lei, he said: "When Dad left, I felt that a wall collapsed, the wind leaked everywhere, and the relationship between the characters around me changed. Then it was to look at my mother, who brought up our four brothers alone. ”
He burst into tears: "In her, I learned to be strong, and learned that people have to rely on themselves." And from my father, I learned kindness and patience. ”
The girlfriend burst into tears after hearing this, and was deeply distressed by his misfortune.
Since then, he has studied hard, and when he grows up, he can make his mother live a good life.
At the age of 19, he was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
At this time, he fell in love with his classmate Huang Lei, who was the same age.
Huang Lei is a great beauty in Harbin and has a better family situation than him. But Huang Lei said that his first impression of me was quite silly.
In the past, going to college to fall in love was often "punished" by teachers.
So how did she marry him?
Nowadays, junior high school students are very "popular" to fall in love, and the love affair between men and women in college is still vigorous.
Some people say that love in college is a matter of wind and snow, and the impulse of youth will end up flying apart.
But Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei witnessed what love is, and their love story can be made into a TV series.
For Huang Lei, although he is very poor and his family is better off, they both have the same personality, and after falling in love, he has to listen to her everything.
They have a lot of words, whether they talk about learning or emotions, they talk about it endlessly, so they love each other fiercely in college.
At that time, Ren Chengwei told her about his family' affairs, and he did not give up his precious fatherly love.
Huang Lei couldn't control the tears as soon as she heard it, although she was a person who met in different places, but the sense of intimacy came out of nowhere.
When he fell in love with a girl, why did the teacher get angry
Huang Lei said: "The two of us are more simple, and we are more lonely in Shanghai, and sometimes we will chat. He talks about things in his family, including his father, which I find particularly legendary. ”
Their love affair was not hidden, and several teachers were very angry when they found out.
The class teacher and the counselor criticized them and "forced" them to separate, on the grounds that one was a person from a small county town and the other was a person from a big city, who was not suitable for them and delayed their studies.
And he was an impulsive and passionate boy at that time, not only valuing Huang Lei's beauty, but also attracted by her innocent and enthusiastic personality, where to listen to the teacher's "warning"?
While they love, they also study with their hearts.
He used his grades to "overturn" the teacher's "judgment."
Later, in an interview, he proudly said: "In the four years of college, I used my grades to tell the teacher that I did not delay my studies. My grades were the best in the class, and we starred in almost all the big dramas in the class. ”
Originally, girls love beauty and like to wear beautiful clothes, and boyfriends should buy them for their girlfriends.
However, Huang Lei often bought beautiful clothes for him to wear, and he was embarrassed and very touched at the same time.
Ren Chengwei believes that love is not a sweet word, but is realized by action.
He sent something worthless, why did his girlfriend say it was better than gold
What touched Huang Lei was that once when they were shopping, Huang Lei stood in a small shop and touched the plush bear with her hand for a while.
This is the toy that her mother promised to buy for her when she was a child, but she did not buy it, and at this time she wanted to buy it and was reluctant to pay for it and walked out of the shop.
Unexpectedly, 2 days later, Ren Chengwei handed the bear she had touched to her hand, and she hugged him and cried.
She will never forget it on April 6, 1990.
That day was Huang Lei's 20th birthday, and Ren Chengwei, who had no money, also had to give a love.
He ran home and made the most beautiful gourd he had grown into a gift for his girlfriend.
He wore 7 small eyes on the gourd, tied with a red rope and carved 4 moons and 6 suns.
This means the birthday of the girlfriend: April 6, 1970.
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Huang Lei held the gourd in her hand and cried, in her heart this unique gift was better than gold.
Now she is also touched to say: "My daughter often hangs around her neck, and I feel more precious than the expensive gifts he buys me now." ”
After graduation, Huang Lei was admitted to the National Theatre of China as an actor.
And Ren Chengwei embarked on the road of acting.
He acted in the TV series "Imperial Girl Flower" at the age of 24 and "Spring and Autumn of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty" at the age of 25.
Huang Lei's plays have also won numerous awards, and at the age of 27, she went to Hong Kong to participate in the "97 China Journey" International Arts Festival.
Spend 9 yuan to marry a wife, and neither side of the relatives came
In that year, he went to the United Kingdom to participate in the "London International Arts Festival".
Huang Lei was successful, but Ren Chengwei only played a supporting role and had no fame.
The point is that her parents did not look favorably on Ren Chengwei at that time, thinking that if they married him, they would pity their daughter.
And the two are on each side, which makes the two of them who are always unwilling to give up on each other feel very unhappy.
However, in the face of such a completely different life, Huang Lei risked breaking with her parents and desperately married Ren Chengwei.
Sharing wealth with poverty is the best criterion for testing love.
When you are lonely, the people around you are still there, and when you are developed, you still have a lover in your heart, which is the true meaning of "sharing life and death and suffering".
Ren Chengwei and his wife Huang Lei, with 24 years of moving love, composed a miracle and became a model couple in the entertainment industry.
One day in 1996, Ren Chengwei took out 9 yuan and Huang Lei to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply for a marriage license.
Although he acted in many plays, he was a dragon runner, and his salary was pitifully small, so where was the money to buy expensive gifts? Not to mention big weddings.
After marriage, I lived in a 9-square-meter basement, which was so bitter
On the day of the wedding, neither family member was present, but they went out for a meal and got married.
After marriage, they lived in the cheapest 9 square meter basement in town, with poor light, house trends, and rats.
Such a sad basement, live for 7 years.
The suffering is known only to them.
Seeing such a nested daughter, Huang Lei's parents were very distressed, and really wanted their daughter to walk out of that heartbreaking basement.
At that time, there were also successful people who looked at her, but she was not moved.
Because she only has Ren Chengwei in her heart, although he is a "poor egg".
Huang Huo's infatuation of not abandoning it made him moved endlessly.
Every time he pushed open the door and saw his wife cooking, he felt pain.
He thought, he had acted for so many years and spent so much time, why did he still run the dragon set?
Men who can't find money, are they in ruins?
His heart has been lost, uneven, and sad.
He believes that his efforts have been lost, and he has also retreated from years of setbacks.
The true words of his virtuous wife inspired him to move forward
Whenever Huang Lei saw his listless and depressed appearance, she always comforted him and encouraged him to have hope only if he moved forward.
Men can't make money, can women support a home?
Huang Lei has this courage and confidence.
When her husband couldn't make money, she worked hard to earn money.
She followed the drama theatre to Hong Kong, The United Kingdom and other places to perform, just to earn money.
He forced a smile on his face, but his heart was still faintly aching in the face of someone's contemptuous eyes.
It is the hard work of the wife that makes life change.
One day, she talked to him with all her heart for one night.
Hearing his wife's harmonious voice and cheering him up, and seeing her touching smile, he had to burst into tears.
Who says boys have tears and don't flick?
It was tears of emotion!
He blamed himself: how is such a big man inferior to a woman?
Be sure to let 2 daughters and wives live a good life
So Ren Chengwei worked hard to fight a fight so that his wife could live a good life.
Later he began to play the leading role.
But suddenly, they were both 30 years old and had no children.
This made both families very anxious, urging them to have a baby soon.
For him, having a baby doesn't affect him. Because he was pregnant in October and gave birth, he couldn't help.
But she encourages her wife to have children early, and he will use his heart to earn money to make his wife and children live a good life.
He has this faith, and it is his responsibility.
Huang Lei is 32 years old and finally gave birth to a daughter, although it is in a hut in the basement, they are very happy!
It was hard to have a daughter, he said to his wife: "You resign to raise children, I can shoot with my heart." ”
Later, the regiment was given a two-bedroom apartment of more than 80 square meters, and the couple finally ended their 7-year snail life.
Staying in a sunny building, they were excited.
After that, he acted in plays such as "Inside and Outside the City".
At the age of 38, he acted in "Breaking the Ice" and won the title of film emperor.
That year, Huang Lei gave birth to a second daughter.
He was both excited and felt a great responsibility, a lot of drama, and too little time to spend with his wife and daughter.
One day, he missed his wife and daughter, so he went home and slept for one night.
The next day, just as he was leaving, the little daughter hugged his leg: "Daddy, I want you to accompany me to the park." ”
His wife told him to accompany his daughter again, but his words made the mother and daughter cry in her arms.
He said: "The lead actor is me, the time is tight, a day of delay, how much should the crew lose? ”
Yes, it is not only the loss of the crew, but also affects himself, affects his future and income.
So for the sake of the family, he can make "sacrifices."
As his daughter grew up, Ren Chengwei suddenly became a film and television star from running a dragon suit; from spending only 9 yuan to marry a wife with nothing, to becoming a good man with money!
After that, he acted in film and television dramas such as "Snow Without a Trace", "Blood Saber", "Military Mission", "The Last Winter", "Happy Life Beckoning" and so on.
In particular, this year's love war film "Battle on the Great Wall", which he directed, has been released.
These achievements, it is the arrival of his daughter who gave him motivation, and it is the behind-the-scenes encouragement and support of his wife that made him a dazzling star in the film and television circle.
Fame is not easy, and the wife of suffering dares to throw it away
Ren Chengwei, who has since risen to the top, has impressed people.
In today's entertainment industry, as long as they are famous and rich, many people regard marriage as a child's play, abandoning their wives and children and "enjoying themselves".
But at a class reunion, a classmate asked Ren Chengwei: "Why didn't your lover come?" I know you have money, it's time to change it. ”
He was upset: "What are you talking about?" I can directly say that without my wife's support and dedication, I may still be the same as before. She and I lived in the basement for 7 years, and you say how can a wife of chaff throw it away? ”
The classmate was embarrassed: "I just asked." ”
Many people like the new and dislike the old, abandoning his wife, but he can work with his wife for 26 years, which is really valuable.
For his glory, his daughter was happy, his wife admired, and he laughed and wept.
He sighed with emotion, smiled and said to his wife, "The 'Military Merit Medal' has half of yours, how can I repay you?" ”
I think at the beginning, Ren Chengwei and his wife lived in the basement for 7 years, and there was too much bitterness.
After he became famous, he always had a name engraved in his heart - Huang Lei.
Since marrying Huang Lei, why did he have to pay her a pay card.
Because, if it is not his wife's full dedication to him behind his back, it will be difficult for him to create many heroic images with his heart, and there will be no honor today.
He was deeply grateful, willing to marry him, and never to abandon his virtuous wife who shared his life and death with him, without complaint or regret!
He was also thankful that the mother who gave him life did not want to watch "Old Lady Tears" anymore.
Fame and wealth, surrounded by beautiful women, he has zero scandals.
In the past 26 years, he has not failed to live up to the promise of letting his wife and daughter live a good life, and has given each other a satisfactory answer to their lives.
Nowadays, the eldest daughter is studying film and television majors abroad, and the younger daughter has also achieved excellent results.
It is said that the wife who has suffered and knotted hair cannot be abandoned, otherwise it is not a good man.
Yes, as the good actor Ren Chengwei said: when she accompanied me to live in the basement for 7 years, now she wants to come sadly, after becoming famous, who dares to abandon his wife in distress!
Yes, only those who cherish it are blessed.
They are really a model couple in the entertainment industry!
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Author: It's nice to be emotional