When my son was almost 3 years old, I sent him to nursery school. This way I can work with peace of mind and not be disturbed. The aunts in the nursery were very kind and responsible, and many times I went late, and they didn't complain at all, or continued to help me watch the children. The Montessori education they opened, the sensory education, I also feel very good, often think: they take care of children, I am also very assured, at least people are professional nursery schools, and they have a very good set of children.
One afternoon, I was about to pick up the child, but suddenly I received a call from the teacher, and the teacher said very nervously: "Yangyang Mother, you come and pick up the child to go to the hospital to see, he fell to his lips!" A lot of blood was shed! I heard it serious, and my heart lifted, and I said, "Pass right away!" ”
We went there and saw that the teacher had been holding my baby, the baby was still sobbing quietly, I hugged the baby, I saw that the left side of his lips seemed to fall down, a big gap, I was very distressed, asked how it happened, the teacher explained: Originally after school, Yang Yang accidentally fell on the small stool and hit the edge of the stool. The small sharp tiger teeth on the top of its mouth directly pierced the lips that covered it! I thought to myself, what can I do! So I hurried to the community hospital, and the doctor said: "What to do about this, so small, this place has no way to sew needles, only their own good!" "Give me a bottle of anti-inflammatory spray."
In fact, I don't want to look at it like this, my heart is very painful, and when I touch it, I will cry! On the way back, I went to the doctor near the downstairs and asked how to deal with this injury, where do I know the same result! It was dark again and we had to go home! I am also dead hearted, and I take good care of him at home every day, hoping to get better soon!
I feel like I'm taking care of him, I'm suffering every day! Sometimes I wonder if this accident would not have happened if I hadn't been sent to nursery school! Day after day, almost a month later, the injury looked almost better. The outside of the wound was completely healed without any traces! But here's the problem, the inside of that lip has grown a new lump of flesh! I was very worried, I told my husband, I was afraid that this piece of meat would grow older and older with age, and the beautiful face was a protruding mouth! I'm worried that my child will feel inferior because of this! My husband said, this is nothing, the child's bruise is very normal, this little injury does not affect anything, I said loudly: Does this not affect? Others will dislike him, maybe not play with him! When I grow up, I may not be able to find a girlfriend! (How can a mother think so far away, and look at the father, it seems that nothing is his business!) There is a feeling of wanting to cry without tears, so powerless! ）
If it is you, can you accept it?
For a long time, I felt that there was nothing I could do! Every time I see the child's protruding lips, it seems to be accusing me of being irresponsible as a mother! One day, playing in the courtyard of the community, a mother asked me curiously: "What is wrong with your son's lips, how it seems to protrude, so obvious!" "I told her about the reason!" She said, "How come you don't know to make a nursery payable?" I said, "I've knocked myself, where have I thought about it so much, and I haven't been in class there now, I'm in kindergarten, and it's been so long!" Where did you think that it would stand out like this after you are ready? I never thought of letting people be responsible for compensation! The mother pulled over his son and said, "My family also bumped my lips at home, and we specially sent the needles to the children's hospital for stitches, look, now it's good, there is no mark." "His son's condition is indeed much better, only a faint little mark on the outside, but the lips are still perfect! I suddenly woke up, how can I believe in the quack doctors in this neighborhood, others can sew like this, why didn't I run to the farther hospital to sew needles at that time! But it's too late to say anything!
Later, I consulted and contacted various times online, and the result was that my son's situation, the ordinary hospital would not feel that it was a problem at all, and could only do cosmetic surgery. I consulted three plastic surgery hospitals, especially the lips can be better, only one is very patient to listen to me, and give me advice, make an appointment to take the child to the hospital for face-to-face consultation, the face-to-face consultation is an estimated 50-year-old doctor, according to the introduction is the dean! After he saw it, he said that it is possible to do surgery for repair, but of course it is impossible to be 100% perfect, this is sure to let me know clearly! If the child needs 9000 surgery fees for general anesthesia, if the state is good, local anesthesia 8000, the doctor said to prepare with both hands, because the child is too small, the risk is also there! Of course, don't worry too much, this is just a small operation, but for the mother, this is a big deal, isn't it?
It cost me 8,000, and the pain in the flesh can't make my son unsightly for a lifetime
My husband didn't agree with the surgery, he said it was a second injury to the baby and he didn't like to see the wound. I am also very helpless for my father's disapproval! I said solemnly to my son, "Do you mind if your lips just protrude like this?" Are you afraid to have surgery? The doctor's uncle said that he would give you anesthetics, and only when the injection hurts, the back will not hurt! The son said, "I don't like that people always ask me what's wrong with my lips!" I'm not afraid of pain for injections! "Don't look at your son is only four years old, but he is very sensitive, who doesn't want to be a handsome young man?" I respected him, so I made an appointment to have surgery!
This preparation before the operation is also slow and painful! Various tests on the first day: blood pressure, electrocardiogram, blood draw, and then various forms are filled out! The doctor asked various questions recorded into a document signature! The only thing I remember is that I was very tormented, because I went alone with my baby, and my husband didn't take it seriously!
The next morning's surgery, the first night at 10:00 began to fast and drink, the next morning rushed to the hospital! I was afraid that the child would see me eating and drinking, and he wanted it too, so I fasted with him and didn't eat or drink at all, until he went into the operating room and I went to pick up a glass of water to drink. I fidgeted and waited at the door of the operating room, I don't know how long it took, in fact, it was almost an hour, the chief surgeon came out and told me that it was very smooth, the child was very brave, did not cry and did not make trouble, he also took a photo of the operation after cutting it out to show me, explaining how he did it, and now it is still swollen, and it will recover after a month! Various precautions, how to care, say local anesthesia, do not need to be hospitalized, and so will come out to ice for more than half an hour before leaving.
After the operation, the gauze was removed, there was no stitch removal, and the lips were still swollen!
After a few minutes, a bunch of operating room assistants came out holding Yang Yang's hand. Seeing him in a loose surgical gown with gauze on his lips, I wanted to cry, but I didn't, and I went over to hug him and asked him, "Does the operation hurt?" He said, "Mom, it doesn't hurt at all, don't worry!" "It turns out that my son is stronger than me, but I am too fragile!"
By now my son's lips had finally recovered better! Seeing my son's confident appearance, the stone in my heart slowly put down! This is the lesson I spent 8,000 yuan to buy: the child is more seriously injured, must go to a good hospital for stitches, do not believe those who let themselves be good, let go will only spend more money to make up for it! Children are also not fragile, not stupid, believe them, they are stronger and braver than adults!
My son came out of the operating room and told me that the operation was not painful at all, only when the needle was injected!